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  • #598541

    kapusta
    Participant

    You’ve mentioned certain things about yourself over the time you’re here, and I may have figured you out. I’m not naming names (I’m not sure if its you, and also there was a thread a while back about outting people and one post had strong reasoning to keep quiet) but just wanted to say that it seems (to me) you want to keep the CR anonymous so you may want to think twice before revealing personal info (or figure-outtable info) even though no one knows you.

    If you’re the person I’m thinking of, (and again, I’m not sure,) I (possibly) met you once and I don’t think you would know me.

    *kapusta*

    #797988

    YW Moderator-42
    Moderator

    Hmm, have we met or are you talking to someone who is asleep at 5am?

    #797989

    Toi
    Participant

    stil awake. its nearly two in the afternoon

    #797990

    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Are u referring to me?

    #797991

    ZeesKite
    Participant

    ME?

    #797992

    Sender Av
    Member

    Me?

    #797993

    bombmaniac
    Participant

    is this about the charliehall thread?

    #797994

    bpt
    Participant

    I can’t take much more of this, Kapusta 🙁

    Just out me already! (Just kidding, please don’t)

    #797996

    adorable
    Participant

    is it me?!?!?!? Please please tell me.

    #797997

    How long was this one meeting and how extreme was the other person’s (ok, MY) behavior that you picked up and remembered enough details to be able to figure them (me) out?

    #797998

    the only thing kapusta could do now to freak ppl out even more would be to throw out names at members, like hey you hinda ploni.

    #797999

    wanderingchana
    Participant

    If someone knows me well enough, they could figure me out from my posts. But it would take a lot of effort to string a lot of posts together. Dunno if it’s worth it!

    OTOH, I don’t think I’ve posted anything to be horribly ashamed of, although my preference is for not being outed…

    #798000

    kapusta
    Participant

    You most probably wouldn’t remember me (your head was on other things then- a good thing) and your behavior was fine, it was mine that was umm… I’m not sure if its you, but it could be.

    I wasn’t trying to out anyone here, just tell you that from certain posts you gave enough details about yourself to possibly give yourself away and my impression is that you would like to stay anonymous so just be aware when posting.

    I can’t take much more of this, Kapusta 🙁

    Just out me already! (Just kidding, please don’t)

    I’ll send a man to Shomer Shabbos. Get back to me in a month. 😉

    *kapusta*

    #798001

    Since you replied mostly to my post, should I infer that you were directing this thread to me? Thank you for the warning. If I have given out such information, then it doesn’t bother me if people want to sit down and try to figure out if this is me. It is, though, more comfortable to sit down and post under a screenname, and if someone were to put my actual name here I would probably stop posting.

    #798002

    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    phew,

    it’s not me

    #798003

    minyan gal
    Member

    Most of you have never been to the middle of Canada, so I doubt that I have to worry about anyone knowing who I am. I am not ashamed of anything, nor do I regret anything that I have posted, so if I were ever outed, it wouldn’t bother me. In fact, my dream would be for us to get together – there are so many of you that I would love to meet.

    #798004

    adorable
    Participant

    guys its me! kap- you didnt respond to my post so….. ok where was I that we met?

    #798005

    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    she responded to bpt

    #798006

    adorable
    Participant

    she never said that she knows him… i think she would know me faster than she would know him….

    #798007

    haifagirl
    Participant

    A couple people figured out who I am. I was really surprised by people who didn’t.

    #798008

    Obaminator
    Member

    haifagirl: Were those that recognized you lurkers or regular posters here?

    #798009

    haifagirl
    Participant

    Regular posters, I think.

    #798010

    adorable
    Participant

    I think she would know me maybe because we are possibly the same age….

    #798011

    kapusta
    Participant

    Not you, ursula. I’m working on it, though. 😉

    *kapusta*

    #798012

    adorable
    Participant

    so its me. you keep ignoring my posts. and you are not answering me!

    #798013

    kapusta
    Participant

    I said I didn’t want to name names…

    Not specifically ignoring you, sorry.

    I’m not sure that its you. I’ll tell you what I’m thinking but could we keep this thing quiet (if it is you)?

    *kapusta*

    #798014

    adorable
    Participant

    ok tell me some hints and i will keep it all under wraps if we really do know each other. i would not want it to be announced that im here either.

    #798015

    adorable
    Participant

    kap- can you email me?

    #798016

    kapusta
    Participant

    I babysat at a wedding… (a few years ago)

    adorable@cr.com?

    Help me out here, would ya?

    *kapusta*

    #798017

    kapusta
    Participant

    In fact, my dream would be for us to get together – there are so many of you that I would love to meet.

    Me too.

    *kapusta*

    #798018

    adorable
    Participant

    I dont know what you are talking about but do you have anyone that you can get my email address from?

    #798019

    And I was so sure I knew you, too! 🙂

    If you really think you know who the person is, and know the name, why don’t you look them up in the phone book and call or write, or contact someone from that wedding for contact info?

    #798020

    I know a couple of people have figured out who I am here. My own fault, I used a name that people who really know me would recognize. But… we are all related anyway being that we are all yidden. Kapusta, have we met other than at Sinai?

    #798021

    mw13
    Participant

    minyan gal:

    “I am not ashamed of anything, nor do I regret anything that I have posted, so if I were ever outed, it wouldn’t bother me.”

    My thoughts exactly. Actually, there are several people (both members and lurkers) who know who I am.

    #798022

    I thought a bit over shabbos on this thread. And I think it is entirely naive and silly of ANYONE in the CR to think that they can actually put a name to a screen user name of a CR member.

    Its impossible. I think its just like wishful thinking , you know?

    Its like you think you can be one up on another person so you start imaginging oh yeah, its my neighbor or that lady from shul.

    Absolutely impossible. How many yidden live in NY? How many are leading in general similar lifestyles? In short how is someone going to figure out somebody when the answer to those 2 questions is A LOT!

    #798023

    kapusta
    Participant

    Can’t get your email without some serious questions. I’ll try it this way- it was your aunts wedding (and I know another aunt).

    arwsf, firstly, I’m honestly sorry I “bothered” your Shabbos. Second, I mentioned several times that I’m not sure it is her, but it could be. My point in starting this thread was not to “get” anyone, but to say that if I thought this way then anyone can and thats not a good thing for keeping anonymous.

    As for your other point, I hear, but I think a lot depends on how well you know the person. (Or certain things about them.)

    *kapusta*

    #798024

    adorable
    Participant

    kapusta- sorry but i dont know what you are talking about. dont have any aunts weddings that you can be talking about…. the last one got married many many years ago when i was a baby.

    #798025

    kapusta
    Participant

    In that case it was fun almost knowing you.

    *kapusta*

    #798026

    adorable
    Participant

    sorry that I burst your bubble! LOL

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