from Ohr Somayach

“Come in and take a look at this child!”

This was the excited invitation issued by the great Torah Sage Yaakov Yisrael Kanievsky, of blessed memory (commonly known as “The Steipler”) to the members of his household.

Standing before him was a seven year-old Bnei Brak boy and his father who had come to this leader of the Torah community to tell their moving story.

The terrible illness that had struck the child made it necessary for him to undergo chemotherapy treatment. When his parents relayed to him what the doctor had warned them about the pain he would suffer and that he would lose all his hair, the boy began to weep.

“I am not afraid of the pain or the embarrassment of being bald,” he explained, “but how can I give up my peyot (sideburns) which are the mark of a Jewish child?”

As his parents watched in awe their son then turned his eyes Heavenward and thus addressed his Creator:

“Father in Heaven, I accept with love the pain and the embarrassment because I know, as my parents have always taught me, that You are merciful and do what is best for me. But how can I give up my peyot!”