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  • #597645

    klach
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    Seriusly how does any sane man ever marry a girl?

    #781717

    shein
    Member

    Because they’re from Mars.

    #781718

    klach
    Member

    are you single

    #781720

    klach
    Member

    im assuming you’re a man

    #781721

    deiyezooger
    Member

    Because two “smart” people cant live together. opposites attrect.

    #781722

    gefen
    Participant

    klach -i’m assuming you’re a bitter man.

    btw – men don’t marry girls. they marry women.

    #781723

    klach
    Member

    “opposites attrect”

    so I’m assuming she was the smart one.

    #781724

    gefen
    Participant

    deiyezooger – “opposites attrEct”?

    which planet are you from?

    #781725

    klach
    Member

    i’m a happy dude. I just enjoy the CR tons!!

    #781726

    I believe that in the Gemara, there is reference made to women being of a “different species”. Men are very different. It takes patience to understand us.

    But its all worth it.

    #781727

    gefen
    Participant

    so what’s with ur first question?

    #781728

    klach
    Member

    “But its all worth it.”

    Not always.

    #781729

    klach
    Member

    “so what’s with ur first question?”

    Teiku

    #781730

    deiyezooger
    Member

    “deiyezooger – “opposites attrEct”?

    which planet are you from?”

    From Mars of course… you know they spell things a little different there…

    #781731

    klach
    Member

    In Tanach, the women usually win all the arguments. . .

    #781732

    gefen
    Participant

    huh? teiku?

    #781733

    What is the alternative?

    #781734

    klach
    Member

    “What is the alternative?”

    um. . .

    #781735

    shein
    Member

    NY just let you know what the alternative is.

    #781737

    Klatch: A person in their right mind must find the right person for them. women are generally better than men.

    #781738

    shein
    Member

    I agree. A woman *is* better for a man to marry.

    #781739

    shein. i totally didn’t mean it like that. I was trying to hint that the OP was hating on women and it was annoying me. But I deleted a sentence I felt was too inflammatory and now the post doesn’t make sense.

    #781740

    WolfishMusings
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    Seriusly how does any sane man ever marry a girl?

    If you’re asking the question, you obviously have not found the right girl.

    The Wolf

    #781742

    Girls are from much further out of our solar system than just Venus.

    #781743

    hudi
    Participant

    If “sane” means at least half way mature, than it’s possible.

    #781744

    Eizena Kup
    Member

    Actually the Gemarah ponders this question.

    ??? ??? ??? .. ???? ??? .. ???? ???? ?????

    So we do Ratzon HaShem by marrying. For incentive he made them ??? ??? ??? ???? because ??? ??? ??? ?????.

    It’s not me, it’s a medrash. ?? ??? ??? ???? ?? ???, ??? ??? ?????? ??? ?????. If you ever wonder, why the natural urge (- drive), what’s it purpose in this world. Of course it’s one of the biggest nosyonos of a man, but HaShem wouldn’t have created it JUST for tempting and testing a man. The answer is, without it man would not get married. Period. It’s not worth it financially, spiritually and physically. Why bother? So HaShem made this great miracle of attraction to set things in motion. Think about it – it’s a glue created by miracle. ???? ???? ???. Chazal in times of Anshei K’neses Hagdolah came to realize this importance, when they tried to do away with this greatest yetzer.

    Nowadays, the selfish people of the decaying society grab the urge but throw away the commitment. ???? ?? ????? ???? ?? ????, they go after all lusts (natural and unnatural) but don’t marry. Or marry selfishly and divorce when initial attraction wears. SAD! Chazal say that Yaakov Avinu had initially wanted to divorce Leah (for his Holy reasons), so HaShem hurriedly sent children her way. Yaakov Avinu then said “How can I send away the Mother of these?”. He worked it out – eventually she stayed as the ???? ????. How differently than today’s selfish ones. WE HAVE A LOT TO LEARN!

    #781745

    adorable
    Participant

    women are generally better than men.

    what does this mean? I can ask the same question the other way- how do women marry men. They are so sure of themselves they wont even ask someone else for directions!!!

    #781746

    bpt
    Participant

    As someone who has been married for quite some time, I can say with total sincerity, that despite a few minor annoyances that we need to make peace with (seat up / seat down, roll under / roll over, ect) there is nothing better than being married to a good spouse.

    I could not imagine what life would be like were I alone.

    #781747

    adorable
    Participant

    I can tell you what its like. It’s lonely and empty and no one that really understands you. You talk to this one about something and then someone else about something else…. you have no stability. you do whatever YOU think is right…. no one guiding you and constantly believing in you and helping you become a better person. It’s tough!

    #781749

    bpt
    Participant

    ” It’s tough! “

    Nu, so don’t just stand there, take the steps towards making your reality something you are happy about.

    No matter what your “brand” you can do your homework and find the person that is right for you. Once you know what you want, setting the ball in motion is easy. Don’t be held hostage by the “system”. If your parents / friends / realtives are stalled, talk to the Rov / Rebbetizn in your life and tell them what you seek. You’d be surprised at what comes across their desk.

    And if that does not yield results, talk to another Rov / Rebbetizn that is from a similar shul / background. Networking is the key to success.

    Oh, and lest you think I forgot professional shadchanim, I did not. The omission was intentional.

    You’ve got more going for you than they can appreicate. Don’t settle for less.

    #781750

    adorable
    Participant

    what makes you say that I’m not doing my best and that my parents are not trying their best. To be very honest, I was hurt by your comment. What makes you think that we are sitting back and doing nothing? we are not still single because we are lazy but rather because Hashem wants us to be this way. we are networking. we are trying. but it takes lots of effort and Hashem is the one that makes it happen not our efforts (although they do help and thats hishtadlus but in the end its not up to us!)

    #781751

    bpt
    Participant

    Not for one second did I mean to imply that you / your family are not doing their utmost to find you a proper shidduch.

    From your post, it sounded like you had hit a wall, so I was offering an alternative suggestion.

    Sorry. The comments were made in frustation of how the “system” fails to value those of less than A++ rating.

    Best of luck whatever your route.

    #781752

    adorable
    Participant

    your post sounded like you thought we are single because we are sitting at home waiting for mr. perfect to knock on the door and beg. Far from it. I will give up of lots of things. I will NOT give up on lots of things….. thats how it is. I am single because he just didnt come around ( no not mr perfect but mrs perfect for me!)

    #781753

    adorable – yes that is the way I would ask the question, hence Hashem made girls want to marry more than men do.

    #781754

    adorable
    Participant

    i am not sure what question you are referring to

    #781755

    yacr85
    Participant

    bpt: “I could not imagine what life would be like were I alone”.

    Rabbi Tatz describes the life alone.

    You grill a burger, open the yellow pages and place burger on yellow pages.

    When you are done, rip out the page and throw it in the garbage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That’s the single life!

    #781756

    adorable – re read the Q u asked – I’m agreeing with u 🙂

    #781757

    adorable
    Participant

    im confused.

    #781758

    shein
    Member

    im confused.

    Cause you’re from Venus.

    #781759

    “Oh, and lest you think I forgot professional shadchanim, I did not. The omission was intentional.”

    I also have something against professional shadchanim. I had a very very bad experience with a famous one….

    “I could not imagine what life would be like were I alone”

    Aww- I hope you showed Mrs BPT what you wrote

    #781760

    adorable
    Participant

    shein- thank you. i am assuming you are a girl from your name but not sure. so are you from venus too>??

    #781761

    shein
    Member

    Actually, I’m from Krypton.

    #781762

    WolfishMusings
    Participant

    Actually, I’m from Krypton.

    My condolences on the loss of your homeworld.

    The Wolf

    #781763

    it wasnt a complete loss

    theyre finding pieces of it all the time…unfortunately.

    #781764

    adorable
    Participant

    i knew you were new here. so you are one that they just found. ok nice to meet you

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