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May 17, 2026 8:07 pm at 8:07 pm #2550041qwerty613Participant
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Beautifully said, but you’re wasting your time talking to this atheist. He has stated that G-d has no right to tell us how to live our lives because that’s an infringement on our personal freedom. You’re assuming that he’s young because he writes like a stupid spoiled brat, but he’s an adult who just went through a nasty divorce and he’s angry at Judaism because he blames his Rabbis for getting a bad settlement. Ignore this Kofer. If you read his posts you’ll see that he says anything that’s Torahdig.
May 17, 2026 8:07 pm at 8:07 pm #2550047nevuahParticipantWhat was the Torah written for tho? To help us navigate life. So are you fallowing the Torah or people lol
And you still need to use discernment when listening to others to make sure what they say is in alignment with truth because otherwise your just appealing to authority and becoming a victim of that.
Fallowing blindly is not a virtue.
Faith is not fallowing authority. Lol you have it all wrong. Backwards.
Faith is fallowing God and trusting in God because you know his wisdom and choices for your life is better and wiser then yoursMay 17, 2026 8:07 pm at 8:07 pm #2550048nevuahParticipantYour literally talking about blind faith…in a person. Compelelty telling yourself you have no ability to critically think
Idolitry literallyMay 17, 2026 8:07 pm at 8:07 pm #2550049nevuahParticipantAlso. You don’t just fallow because someone told you it’s the truth it has to _be_ truth and pass the scrutiny of truth
May 18, 2026 1:26 pm at 1:26 pm #2550540asherggParticipant@nevauh. You made a few assumptions in my words so they fit in to your argument. I doesn’t look like you paid attention to my point so I’ll try again, this time even clearer. We believe hashem gave us the torah at har sinai. Hashem giving us the torah means the torah is the TRUTH. Life is what we have to live the truth. We must look in to the torah to identify the truth, and, how to navigate out path toward the truth. Being that the torah is so great in size and depth, we follow those who studied big amounts and understand. Hashem gave humans the tools to learn the torah, understand it, it make decisions that put it into practice. I think I made it clear.
On another note, you say that “What was the Torah written for tho? To help us navigate life.” It sounds like you think that life has meaning in it of itself and the torah is just a guide how to navigate “life”, whatever that is. What’s the purpose of life according to you?May 18, 2026 1:26 pm at 1:26 pm #2550542asherggParticipant@qwerty613. I understand your concern, I still think that nobody addressed his argument and it’s not a hard one. In addition, Your opinion of not arguing with a kofer is a good geder, but when this content is public, and people see this, I think it is of the benefit to address his argument.
May 18, 2026 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #2550788qwerty613ParticipantTo ashergg
He’s a hardcore atheist and will never budge. As someone wrote in a different thread, he left the religion when his wife divorced him and his Rabbi sided with his wife. He thus blames G-d and Judaism for all his problems. I’ve been needling him to come clean and admit the truth, but he keeps offering his koferdig platitudes. I’ll follow this thread because I like you and your writing style, but he’s a lost cause, IMHO.
May 18, 2026 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #2550797nevuahParticipantQweurty I’m not an atheist. Clearly you don’t read my posts. But ok. Go take your meds
May 18, 2026 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #2550801nevuahParticipantAshergg. The Torah is the truth because it actually mirrors the truth. Not because it was given at har sinia and holds authority. It’s not about authority but how it guides us through reality.
it passes the scrutiny test of fitting exactly what truth is. Let’s differentiate sheeple speak from reality. You can look at life and it will mirror the Torah exactly the two are a symbiotic mirror of the other.
The Torah is a guide for life that means it must mirror life exactly. And it does when read in context. God gave tools to humans to navigate life and use the Torah as tool. Not the other way aroundIf I play chess. I don’t get stuck in the Manuel. I use it as a reference to guide me through the game but the Manuel has to mirror the actual game or it won’t help me navigate life
May 19, 2026 9:49 am at 9:49 am #2550983qwerty613ParticipantTo ashergg
Do you see my point now? The kofer can only respond to me by playing the “take your meds” game. I get no pleasure from the fact that he destroyed his life. That means nothing to me. I simply want this atheist to get lost. He has stated that he writes on non-Jewish sites. He should continue. He needs all the therapy he can get. If you’ll notice. He can’t (won’t) use the word Hashem so we get the generic G-d. Now he writes that the Torah is true not because it was given at Sinai. Why is he saying that? Because one who accept that the Torah was given to Moshe at Sinai also accepts that it has been passed down seamlessly for over 3000 years by our Sages. When Nevuah showed up initially as Rescue I asked him to name his Rabbi(s). He ignored the question, because he follows no one. He believes in whatever he decides to believe in. That’s why the Rabbis don’t want him coming near his children, because they’re afraid, he’ll turn them into Goyim. He is seriously disturbed and that’s why he constantly imputes that I’m crazy. It’s projection. Don’t waste your time with him. He’s irretrievably lost. He hates me because he knows I’m right.
May 19, 2026 9:49 am at 9:49 am #2551059asherggParticipant@nevuah The torah is the truth, we know that because it was given by hashem. In the torah (which is the truth), there are rules to live by, and ideas to be guided by. You keep circling back to authority and i’m not sure why it even comes in. In the torah which is the book of truth, there is a level of authority presented in. There are mitzvos we understand and mitzvos we don’t understand, but we keep all because the book of truth commands us to. In addition, the book of truth also tells us “על־פִּי הַתּוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר יוֹרוּךָ וְעַל־הַמִּשְׁפָּט אֲשֶׁר־יֹאמְרוּ לְךָ תַּעֲשֶׂה לֹא תָסוּר מִן־הַדָּבָר אֲשֶׁר־יַגִּידוּ לְךָ יָמִין וּשְׂמֹאל׃”, which is an element of authority by definition. People listen to daas torah not because they are authority, rather because they are closer to the truth. I’m not talking for everyone, I’m sure some people don’t know how to think and solely rely on authority, but most people contain consciousness and think for themselves.
Authority is not truth, but truth is authority. Not that one shall follow truth in a subserviently manor, rather because it’s the truth.May 19, 2026 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #2551186nevuahParticipantBecause qwuery your an unhinged extremist that needs to calm down. I don’t address anyone else the same way probably because they don’t treat me the same way
May 19, 2026 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #2551194nevuahParticipantAgain ashreg things are only true if they _are_ true.
Lol
Anyone of authority can say anything is true and you’ll fallow it cuz authority says so, that’s dangerous ground your stepping in because your not willing to use critical thinking we are not blind followers. And we were not destined to be. The reason being is even in the inherint way the Torah is written in parable form, third person, so a person can read it and gain wisdom and understanding not because they are “afraid” and feel compelled because they realize the wisdom therein and understand its moral direction.
There’s a fine line between blind fallowing and understanding wisdom and good sense.
Also its revealed in the way that God is hidden, meaning that people are not born into some form of a strict coded mindset but kind of have to find God on their journey of life.
This shows that a person was given the freedom to do so and find the truth as they live.
Otherwise God would probably make himself very clear to everyone, and there would be no arguments at allMay 19, 2026 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #2551199nevuahParticipantThe point of earth is to see how people behave despite not being forced to do so.
Anything that is forced on anyone is any biblical.
We are not free from the consenquences of choices cuz reality responds to our choices but we are free to find the truth and whoever says otherwise is living by antibiblical principlesMay 19, 2026 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #2551260qwerty613ParticipantTo ashergg
You almost have it, but I’ll fill in what you’re missing. When Nevuah showed up about three or four months ago he called himself rescue. At that time his Kefirah was blatant. What he said is that G-d doesn’t want “sheeple” who blindly follow what they’re told in the Torah, rather He wants people to use their free will and only keep those Mitzvahs that make sense. I then challenged him to explain the logic of one being put to death for carrying his keys in the public domain on Shabbos. He refused to answer which likely means that he does so. When he says that he isn’t an atheist he means that he accepts the concept of a G-d, but not a G-d who commands us to follow the Torah. That’s why he danced around the words Har Sinai in his last post. He probably accepts that G-d gave the Torah to Moshe, but now he thinks it’s our job to interpret the Torah according to our logic. Clearly, he’s a Kofer and so there’s no point trying to continue this discussion. He’s also a total idiot and so he’ll probably play the Qwerty take your meds game. My suspicion is that he’s been diagnosed with serious mental disabilities and so he’s projecting his infirmity on me.
May 19, 2026 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #2551290nevuahParticipantכִּי־יִפְלָא מִמְּךָ דָבָר לַמִּשְׁפָּת בֵּין דָּם לְדָם בֵּין דִּין לְדִין וּבֵין נֶגַע לָנֶגַע דִּבְרֵי רִיבֹת בִּשְׁעָרֶיךָ וְקַמְתָּ וְעָלִיתָ אֶל־הַמָּקוֹם אֲשֶׁר־יִבְחַר יְהוָה אֱלֹהֶיךָ בּוֹ
Translation: “If a matter too hard for you in judgment arises between blood and blood, between plea and plea, or between stroke and stroke, even matters of controversy within your gates, then you shall arise and go up to the place which the LORD your God shall choose.”וּבָאתָ אֶל־הַכֹּהֲנִים הַלְוִיִּם וְאֶל־הַשֹּׁפֵט אֲשֶׁר יִהְיֶה בַּיָּמִים הָהֵם וְדָרַשְׁתָּ וְהִגִּידוּ לְךָ אֵת דְּבַר הַמִּשְׁפָּט
Translation: “And you shall come to the priests, the Levites, and to the judge who shall be in those days; and you shall inquire, and they shall declare to you the sentence of judgment.”וְעָשִׂיתָ עַל־פִּי הַדָּבָר אֲשֶׁר יַגִּידוּ לְךָ מִן־הַמָּקוֹם אֲשֶׁר יִבְחַר יְהוָה וְשָׁמַרְתָּ לַעֲשׂוֹת כְּכָל־אֲשֶׁר יוֹרֻךָ
Translation: “And you shall do according to the tenor of the sentence which they shall declare unto you from that place which the LORD shall choose; and you shall observe to do according to all that they shall teach you.”עַל־פִּי הַתּוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר יוֹרֻךָ וְעַל־הַמִּשְׁפָּט אֲשֶׁר יֹאמְרוּ לְךָ תַעֲשֶׂה לֹא תָסוּר מִן־הַדָּבָר אֲשֶׁר יַגִּידוּ לְךָ יָמִין וּשְׂמֹאל
Translation: “According to the law which they shall teach thee, and according to the judgment which they shall tell thee, thou shalt do; thou shalt not turn aside from the sentence which they shall declare unto thee, to the right hand, nor to the left.”“If a matter too hard for you in judgment arises between blood and blood, between plea and plea, or between stroke and stroke, even matters of controversy within your gates”
Does not translate to every halachic issue that you come across in daily life lol.It’s about disputes between family and controversy that cannot be figured out among the specific people that are involved in those disputes.
Please read the text in context instead of pulling out sentences to push some control agenda thanksMay 20, 2026 11:27 am at 11:27 am #2551369asherggParticipant@nevuah. If you want, we could get into a conversation about defining truth, but i think you keep dodging my main point. I’ll assume that you agree that hashem exists, and that he gave us the torah, which means that the torah is true. In the torah there are rules and ideas that are true. Humans shall look in the book of truth and live by those rules and ideas for a truthful life. One of those ideas mentioned in the torah is to follow the torah, which is in fact repeated many times in devarim. If the book of truth tells you to obey the rules, by definition that’s the truth.
Tell me where i’m wrong. be specific. You keep avoiding this point. please be clear on what you disagree.
Thank you.
May 20, 2026 11:27 am at 11:27 am #2551377qwerty613ParticipantTo ashergg
You’re doing a great job of engaging this Kofer. He thinks he can Pasken from Posukim. So, he finds a verse(s) that he can twist to fit his atheistic agenda. Again, he has stated clearly and he’s saying it again in this post that we should only follow those laws of the Torah that make sense to “HIM.” He decided that he has the right to decide which of the 613 Mitzvahs we should keep. I know that you want to get through to him, but it’s not possible. He’s an atheist and an idolater. He worships himself, believing that he can tell G-d which laws apply today. He knows that he has rejected our religion, but he could care less. He constantly speaks of a loving G-d who will never punish anyone if they feel that certain laws are restrictive. He’s not only a Kofer Befarhesia he’s also a Chotei Umachti because he’s trying to convince people to join his invented religion. It is what it is.
May 20, 2026 11:27 am at 11:27 am #2551383qwerty613ParticipantTo Nevuah
Everyone thinks about you as I do including your family. What sets me apart is that I’m speaking out because I want you to get lost. Despite what you would like to believe a Jew doesn’t have the right to create his own G-d.
May 20, 2026 11:27 am at 11:27 am #2551384qwerty613ParticipantTo ashergg
Has he not said enough to make you accept that what I’m saying is true?
May 20, 2026 11:27 am at 11:27 am #2551439pekakParticipantמשה קבל תורה מסיני ומסרה ליהושע ויהושע לזקנים וזקנים לנביאים ונביאים מסרוה לאנשי כנסת הגדולה
From there it continued to the תנאים and אמוראים and the rest is history. We don’t learn hal
achos from pesukim anymore. We learn the translation of the words and we look to Rashi to understand what it means. Rashi didn’t make anything up. He used all the knowledge up to his time to explain the passuk. Everything we follow today is a continuation. There are many “flavors” of Rabbanim today. Find one that fits for you.May 20, 2026 11:28 am at 11:28 am #2551719nevuahParticipantQwerty I said let’s make sure we are translating the rules _correctly_ if you want to call that pick and choose. Great. You can’t read then clearly, can you. Also if your going to accuse me of “pick and choose” you pick and choose what to take out of context to push your extreme dogmatic agenda. Control for you is how you operate. I don’t believe control comes from a Godly source. Fear/control/dogma/extremism
What does those things reproduce? Unhealthy fearful people
If the Torah was a guide for mankind don’t you think it would find the most operative way for someone, a human, to have robust health, emotionally/physically/ spiritually. Exactly. That means the rules need to be wholesome and align with how humans operate
Discipline/love/principles/understanding/authority/truth/wisdom/May 20, 2026 1:54 pm at 1:54 pm #2552028asherggParticipant@qwert613 I hear what you’re saying but your method is not effective, evidently.
@nevuah I take it that you agree to what i wrote above.May 20, 2026 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #2552093nevuahParticipantQweurty I’m glad you want me to get lost, now I understand your motive but not sure I will. Ok?
May 20, 2026 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #2552097nevuahParticipantPekak I understand where you are coming from but like broken telephone if the actual message gets watered down to the point that it becomes agenda driven and doesn’t respect the actual translation anymore maybe it’s time we go back to the original intent.
Also I don’t think when they were “passing it down through that shurah of people the message was meant to get watered down to the point it doesn’t respect the actual text?May 20, 2026 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #2552117qwerty613ParticipantTo ashergg
I don’t understand what you mean that my method isn’t effective. I’m not trying to rehabilitate nevuah, he’s way past the fiftieth level of Tumah. If you mean something else, please explain. I like you and I understand that you have a good heart, but he’s a psychotic monster who thinks he can tell Hashem how to run the world.
May 20, 2026 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #2552130nevuahParticipantSorry ashreg didn’t see that you answered me. Again. Truth is only true if it passes the scrutiny of truth.
God says to be mindful of fallowing _moral code_ cuz there are great consequences in not doing so.
The rules are only by definition the truth because they _are_ true not because they are written in the book. Or any book.
The book codafies morality and other rules, not the other way around. That means it’s mirror of reality, not because it says so because it is.
Your coming from an authority perspective. It is written therefore it must be true
I’m coming from the opposite way, it mirrors reality by being true therefore it is true.
These are two different starting points.
The reason why it was given not at the creation of the world’s is because humanity needed a guide. Thus its not about authority but about guidance
Everything written there in is good sense to fallow.
The Torah is a mirror of reality. Exactly.
For example…. it says the sins of the father will be passed down 7 generations, this is not only because God will punish you but also because things are passed down geneticly and metaphysically for 7 generations sometimes 4.
The Torah codafies what reality already is. And also gives much more in depth guidance to those who do listen.
Also. It doesn’t say “listen” it says “hearken”
Which means something much deeper then listen. hearken is a word used for “you shall hearken to my words because they are good for you”
There is a huge difference between listen and hearken.
Everything written in the Torah still respects the will of the person. And uses moral guidence sense and wisdom to guide a person’s nature.
It does not force. It confirms.
Literally definitions without wisdom misses the intent behind the words.May 20, 2026 7:59 pm at 7:59 pm #2552137nevuahParticipantI think what we are both doing is looking at it from different perspectives. I don’t think one is more wrong then the other, but I do think fallowing anything blindly without critical thinking, can lead a person down a path of shirking personal responsibility which is in direct contradiction of reality where moral reasoning is neccisary for responsible choices. Reality requires us to use critical thinking in all scenarios to be able to weigh what is the right and wrong decision in any given scenario. “becausee that’s what I was told to do” doesn’t always align with whatever is going on in life. And also can’t be an excuse because God doesn’t say anything directly to us. the torah is written in third person to a biblical people of the past thus its parables and guidance is meant to be internalized by virtue of its stories, moral direction and understanding of gods authority so that when we are in the grand scheme of a complicated life, its moral directions helps guide us through the complexities of all decision making. it does not in any way stop a person from free will moral reasoning which is neccisary for dealing with all different scenarios in real life but it adds wisdom and discernment and guidance through the trajectory of life. It is a book that is internalized by virtue of reading it not because it “says” so in threatening do or die manner but because it’s wisdom lives within us as we live.
It doesn’t override personal responsibility it guides it.
Not sure if I’m making senseMay 21, 2026 4:11 pm at 4:11 pm #2552223pekakParticipantThe Torah isn’t written to a biblical people of the past. It’s written to us. It isn’t parables. When we read Krias Shema every day, in the second parsha we are mekabel the Ol Mitzvos that Hashem commands us every single day.
May 24, 2026 6:50 pm at 6:50 pm #2552336nevuahParticipantI hear you and your right it was written to us that wasn’t my point. It was written in third person context talking to a third party.
And yes it isn’t parables lots of times
But it is filled with stories, written in parabolic language to glean moral lessons and teach inherint truths written into the code of realityCase in point: “parable is a short, simple narrative using human characters to illustrate a single moral or religious lesson, functioning as an extended simile where the entire story points to one central truth. In contrast, an allegory is an extended metaphor in which nearly every character, object, and event symbolizes specific abstract ideas or real-world entities, requiring the reader to decode multiple layers of meaning throughout the narrative”
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