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July 23, 2018 10:44 am at 10:44 am #1562836New Yorker at heartParticipant
I am writing this post because I am overcome by this terrible trend hitting bnei Torah and Rebbiem,
Not that long ago all yungerleit and rabbeim had this inborn shtultz to never walk in the streets without a hat and jacket ,
Just like a soldier in the army has to wear his uniform at all times when he is on duty or else he will get court marshaled,
So too yungerliet and rabbeim who are on duty 24/7- 365 should have to wear their hats and jackets whenever they step out into the street.Where has our kavod HaTorah fallen to????
July 23, 2018 1:52 pm at 1:52 pm #1563157GadolhadorahParticipantWhy do you confuse dress style with kavod hatorah? A yeshiva bochur can be dressed in clean and well-fitting pants and shirt with a kipa and project a considerably more respectful image than some of the guys dressed in rumpled dark suits and smoking etc.
July 23, 2018 1:52 pm at 1:52 pm #1563156Reb EliezerParticipantThis has caused that people don’t daven with a hat and a jacket because they daven like they go on the street, see MB O”CH 91:12.
July 23, 2018 1:52 pm at 1:52 pm #1563141ubiquitinParticipantWhat about trolls:
how often are they on duty?
do they have to wear a uniform or face court martial?July 23, 2018 4:25 pm at 4:25 pm #1563291DovidBTParticipantJust like a soldier in the army has to wear his uniform at all times when he is on duty or else he will get court marshaled,
So too yungerliet and rabbeim who are on duty 24/7- 365 should have to wear their hats and jackets whenever they step out into the street.What about the Nazis? They wore uniforms. Are you saying that we should be like the Nazis?
July 24, 2018 12:29 am at 12:29 am #1563491Takes2-2tangoParticipantIn europe , unless you were a rebbe or rosh yeshiva, buchurim did not dress in a hat in the street. Some may have worn jackets in the cold but on a hot summer day they generally did not.
July 24, 2018 1:11 am at 1:11 am #1563506JosephParticipantIn Europe no frum male Bar Mitzvah or older would walk outside without his hat and jacket. The same was the case, and still is in many places, in America.
July 24, 2018 8:24 am at 8:24 am #1563527Geordie613ParticipantJust popping in for a moment to say this; I heard the following in about 2002 from Rav Yaakov Yehuda Salomon, son of Rav Matisyahu Shlit”a. His father said that the change for bochurim and yungerleit to stop wearing hats and jackets in the street happened so fast, that we couldn’t catch the trend and reverse it. It was just a few years and the street looked different.
I think he was talking about Gateshead, but could be Lakewood as well.July 24, 2018 9:34 am at 9:34 am #1563560RedlegParticipantMost people have seen pre-war photos of bachurim from Mir, Slabodka and other yeshivos. Note that most are clean shaven and are wearing light colored jackets and hats in the fashion of the time. Yes, bachurim wore jackests and hats in der gass and were indistinguishable from the hamon am.
July 24, 2018 10:34 am at 10:34 am #1563617JosephParticipantRedleg: The hamon am also dressed in the street distinguishable like Yidden.
July 24, 2018 10:35 am at 10:35 am #1563614Takes2-2tangoParticipantMost of those photos were not candid. Most candid photos show the opposite.
July 24, 2018 11:29 am at 11:29 am #1563729Reb EliezerParticipantThe MB 91:12 mentioned above says כובע בראשו כדרך שהולך ברחוב. He should put a hat on by davenen the way he walks on the street. We see they wore hats on the street.
July 24, 2018 12:04 pm at 12:04 pm #1563743hujuParticipantWhy can’t bochurim dress like Moses and Yehoshua in hot weather?
July 24, 2018 12:05 pm at 12:05 pm #1563736RedlegParticipantVery insightful, Joseph
July 24, 2018 12:05 pm at 12:05 pm #1563735JosephParticipantCandid shows them with hats and jackets in the street. Bochorim, yungerman and hamon hoam.
July 24, 2018 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm #1563749Reb EliezerParticipantAs a historical note the discontinuation of wearing hats came with the arrival of President Kennedy. Cristziansich Yudensich. We follow the umas haolom.
July 24, 2018 1:33 pm at 1:33 pm #1563787DWKL1Participantthe now famous picture of non other then the chofetz chaim ztl shows him attending the kenissa gedola in a polish “peasants” hat
so if your coming from a kovod hatora view the MB himself didnt seem to be busy with his outside appearance vs-vs how the outside world would preceive him.
he didnt need a hamburg and kapoto to know who he was
seems its only today when we are emptish inside that we feel the need to impress and command respect by our mode of dress .
if you want to brand yourself as a yeshivaman or ben torah then perhaps their is a point in dressing a certain way
then again some are way overboard when they take a walk in 90 degree weather together with their wife and still feel the need to wear a jacket and tie too .
i always want to remind them they forgot their hat but always mind my own business but being the question was posed
i can air my personal view on the issueJuly 24, 2018 5:57 pm at 5:57 pm #1563939iacisrmmaParticipantlaskern: and where did bekeshehs and streimels come from? The Polish aristocracy.
July 24, 2018 6:26 pm at 6:26 pm #1563986JosephParticipantThe Polish aristocracy never wore anything even closely resembling a shtreimal or bekeshe.
July 24, 2018 7:19 pm at 7:19 pm #1564001anonymous JewParticipantJoseph, the shtriemel was related to fur hats worn by Russian and Eastern European nobility.
July 24, 2018 7:19 pm at 7:19 pm #1563994Takes2-2tangoParticipantAsk around from someone from the alte heim and they will tell you that regular buchrim did NOT dress in hat and jacket to walk in the street, unless they were going dsven or learn.
July 24, 2018 8:06 pm at 8:06 pm #1564010HaimyParticipantAs Ravi Avigdor Miller said; Today, a bar mitzvah bachurs new hat is as important as his new tefillin. His hat let’s him & everyone around him know that he’s different. He follows a different code of conduct.
A hat & jacket are important parts of preserving our yiddishkeit.July 24, 2018 8:24 pm at 8:24 pm #1564040JosephParticipantI’ve asked many Yidden who survived the war and every one of them said it was the standard for every bochorim, yungerman and regular Yid to wear his hat and jacket when in public. It is also like this in many places in America. And it was like this in America in more places that lately got lax about it.
The shtriemel had nothing to do with any fur hats worn by Russian or Eastern European nobility.
July 24, 2018 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm #1564047👑RebYidd23ParticipantSo hats are simply outdated?
July 24, 2018 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #1564050DovidBTParticipantMen used to wear coats and ties when they went shopping, or to baseball games, or to most public places.
July 25, 2018 11:15 am at 11:15 am #1564307ubiquitinParticipant“The shtriemel had nothing to do with any fur hats worn by Russian or Eastern European nobility.”
This is demonstrably false Look up monomaks cap. Look at pictures of Russian and Tatar’s hats
“As a historical note the discontinuation of wearing hats came with the arrival of President Kennedy.”
It preceded Kennedy, Kennedy (who did wear a top hat to his inauguration) merely followed the trendJuly 25, 2018 12:39 pm at 12:39 pm #1564334Avram in MDParticipantlaskern,
“As a historical note the discontinuation of wearing hats came with the arrival of President Kennedy. Cristziansich Yudensich. We follow the umas haolom.”
I doubt that. I’m not a sociologist, but if I were to guess, I think the rise of the automobile as a primary mode of transportation, especially once they became climate controlled, is what led to hats falling into disuse. The ability to travel or commute in a dry cabin with comfortable temperatures reduced the need for the hat’s functionality, and the low ceiling and lack of space made hats inconvenient to bring along in the car.
July 25, 2018 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #1564348Avram in MDParticipantNew Yorker at heart,
“I am overcome by this terrible trend hitting bnei Torah and Rebbiem”
Overcome? Isn’t that a bit of hyperbole?
“Just like a soldier in the army has to wear his uniform at all times when he is on duty or else he will get court marshaled,
So too yungerliet and rabbeim who are on duty 24/7- 365 should have to wear their hats and jackets whenever they step out into the street.”Using your army moshol, the rabbeim are equivalent to our officers, and it’s failure to follow their orders that would result in a court marshal. If they are not objecting to a change in uniform standards on the base, what exactly is your problem?
July 25, 2018 2:06 pm at 2:06 pm #1564421iacisrmmaParticipantI am pretty sure that the כובע בראשו mentioned are not the current fedoras we have today. Hamon am at that time wore caps.
July 25, 2018 2:06 pm at 2:06 pm #1564402GadolhadorahParticipantI will go back to my original question….there still is too much focus on the dust cover of the book rather than its contents. If wearing clean and well-fitting dark pants, white shirt and kipah allow a bochur to be more comfortable and focus on his lamdus, why is having him “dress up” as if he were living in the alte heim going to enhance the quality and ruchniyus of his shteiging.. Does that mean it would be assur for him to use one of the newer variable height shtenders that go up/down at the press of a button and are made of recycled materials (since those were not found in a beis medrash in the alte heim either)..
July 25, 2018 3:22 pm at 3:22 pm #1564470150Participant@ New Yorker At Heart
Out of pure curiosity were you by Rav Ginzberg’s schmooze on the bottom floor of Beis Shalom Leil Tisha B’Av. Or this post pure coincidence?
July 25, 2018 3:46 pm at 3:46 pm #15645605ishParticipantAll of you who don’t know anything about history and about Europe and about America and everything quit your yakking.
July 25, 2018 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm #1565056Takes2-2tangoParticipantRosh yeshivas and buchurim smoked cigarettes in the streets too. Why dont we see it today.?
Who care that it causes lung cancer. Mesora is mesora. !שומר פתיים השםJuly 25, 2018 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm #1565152Midwest2ParticipantNeat slacks, sport shirt and regular-sized yarmulkeh or cap – that’s all that’s needed. The rest is all branding – look at me I’m a “whatever.” A yeshivah bachur doesn’t need a “uniform.” What makes him what he is, is what’s inside him and how he acts. A suit, hat, tie, white shirt will not help him if he doesn’t have the pnimius. Worry about what counts, not what your mental selfie shows.
July 25, 2018 10:03 pm at 10:03 pm #1565185Reb EliezerParticipantThe chitzoniyos reflects the penimoyus which reflects the yeshiva.
July 25, 2018 10:03 pm at 10:03 pm #1565192ArielskiParticipantIn hot weather a fresh shirt and washable trousers are far more comfortable than a dark suit that might not get dry-cleaned often enough. You know what I mean, right?
July 25, 2018 10:03 pm at 10:03 pm #1565194New Yorker at heartParticipant@150
I do not live in Lakewood and I was just posting Something that has been on my heart for the longest of timeJuly 27, 2018 8:38 am at 8:38 am #1565991JosephParticipant150 — How did Rav Ginzburg shlita propose correcting the problem identified in the OP of Yidden walking in the streets without a hat and jacket?
Perhaps other rabbonim should also raise this issue when speaking to their kehilos.
August 3, 2018 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm #1568923JosephParticipant150?
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