If a girl you really like asks you to change your Rabbi or she will leave you

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    frum81
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    If a girl you were dating who you were planning on marrying didn’t like your Rabbi for personal reasons and told you that if you are planning on keeping him as a main Rabbi for halacha then she will break up with you then would you agree to change your Rabbi once you get married or would you agree to break up with the girl?

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    we’ve already done this discussion . . .

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    Joseph
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    Dump the girl with such chutzpa, certainly not the rabbi.

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    yytz
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    Don’t make this kind of decision based on what people here post. But if she has personal reasons, they might be worth considering — perhaps she thinks he treated her poorly or someone she knew? It is not good to accept someone as your Rov if you know they have poor middos.

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