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Many many years ago before I got married i davened for a long list of people in need of shidduchim cause of the famous saying �that when a person Davens for someone then the person davening for him gets answered first� now many years later since I was benched to get married I didn�t stop davening for others to find shidduchim but am still davening for them today.
On your other point. It�s because today with so many weddings and other Simchas people need to stop into to give Mazel tov. They don�t have time to spend long at each Simcha so their making sure to give the Chosson or parent a hearty Mazel tov and then have to leave EVEN THOUGH THEY REGISTERED TO STAY FOR THE ENTIRE NIGHT. Not to hurt the baal Simchas feeling.
As a final message of you mentioning that you need every person�s bracha. My personal to you is-from an older person-
Is to turn Directly to Hashem with heartfelt Tefillos for whatever you need-rather its a Shidduch or livlihood or something else etc�..-as we say at the end of benching from Tehillim. Vdorshei Hashem�.. which means for one that seeks out Hashem DIRECTLY lacks nothing that is good.May Hashem help you find your zivvug quickly cause in truth we all know s/he�s already waiting for you since 40 days before you were even born. That�s besides the fact that now your at least 20 to 25 years later since being born.
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