Is it Lashon Hara??

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    chesedname
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    Is it Lashon Hara to say something bad about a member, or moderator, here?

    we don’t know them so all we’re really saying is screen name xyz is a so and so??

    same thing with name calling?

    #702187
    Helpful
    Member

    All I know is that chesedname is a bad bad apple…

    #702188
    minyan gal
    Member

    In my opinion, yes. It is true that we don’t really know the person but if you read these threads often enough you can often get a pretty good idea about somebody along with some of their life history, political beliefs, etc. Even though we only know somebody by the screen name that they use here it does become almost their alias. No, I don’t know Sidney Segal (fictional name) but I know “Monkeyseemonkeydo” (another fictional name) which is how Sidney is known around here so speaking Lahon Hora about Monkey is like speaking it about Sidney. I hope this makes sense – I know what I am trying to say and hope that others can figure it out.

    #702189
    chesedname
    Participant

    I know what you’re saying, that was the question is it lashon hara if we know the person, but at the same time we don’t know them??

    #702190
    Helpful
    Member

    It probably does not technically qualify under the prohibition of L”H (if no one knows who he is.) Nevertheless, that doesn’t make it okay.

    #702191
    Ben Torah
    Participant

    It is situation dependent.

    #702192
    kapusta
    Participant

    Why should it be different to say something about someone IRL using their real name than in the CR using their SN? I dont understand why it shouldn’t be L”H.

    *kapusta*

    #702193
    Ben Torah
    Participant

    Probably because in the CR no one knows who IRL it is you are talking about (assuming that is the case.)

    #702194
    mghanooni
    Member

    I think that technically, it would not be L”H, BUT it still is not a proper way of communicating.

    #702195
    so right
    Member

    If you call someone (even in real life by name) “a jerk” (i.e. name calling), is that considered “lashon hora”?

    #702196
    oomis
    Participant

    The possibility exists that SOMEONE might know someone personally in the CR, so I say, don’t do it.

    #702197
    chesedname
    Participant

    so right

    YES

    the gemara and seforim say terrible things will happen if you call someone names.

    #702198

    Is it Lashon Hara to say something bad about a member, or moderator, here?

    its lashon horah as regards a member, but motzei shaim rah as regards a moderator

    #702199
    WIY
    Member

    Chesedname

    I think its best to avoid insulting the Mods for common sense reasons.

    #702200
    chesedname
    Participant

    mod

    i get the joke haha

    WellInformedYid

    i’m not scared to say the truth to the mods, if they don’t post it, it’s their problem. i don’t kiss hmmm to have my thoughts posted.

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