My best friend stood beside me when I went through the worst years of my life. The problem is…my best friend is a goy.
What is your opinion?
Spouse material? If not why would it be an issue?
My best friend is a skinhead.
why would you care about CR opinion about your BFV
It could potentially be ok as long as boundaries are kept and the relationship with him is put in the context of being a frum Jew who prioritizes Torah and your relationship with Hashem above all else, and the goy is clear about this.
If you are shaky in your frumkeit and/ or very vulnerable emotionally then that is not a safe relationship to be in. First and foremost have a kesher with a Rov whom you connect with and run it by the Rov….
It’s not a problem
Don’t fix the problem.