My son is directly disobeying me, advice is much needed.

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  • #614199
    The Sheckler
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    Help! My name is Abraham and I am a very average upper middle class Jew. My family and I reside in upstate New York. My wife and I have been blessed with three children and for the past 18 years have been living in complete peace and harmony. My problem arose a few months ago when my eldest son, Aaron, started acting differently. Having once been a young adult like my son I thought nothing of this as the saying does go, “boys will be boys.” The next night however I heard rustling from down the hall. Concerned for the safety of my family I entered down the hall and into his room where the sound was coming from. To my complete and utter surprise I witnessed Aaron sprawled under the covers with a bag of Evan’s brand Pork Rinds. As a practicing Jew I do not condemn my next actions. I bellowed at my son and struck him once and grabbing the bag I exited his room. The next morning I arose and went downstairs to speak to my son about the severity of his actions. I lectured him of the Kosher laws and the importance of staying by them but to no avail. He told me that he found them ridiculous and that laughed at my Jewish faith. This is not the boy I raised. Please help me before it is too late.

    -Abraham

    #1041100
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    It’s already too late.

    Lol at the bit of being concerned for the safety of your family ‘cuz you heard rustling pork rinds.

    #1041101
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    “As a practicing Jew I do not condemn my next actions. I bellowed at my son and struck him once and grabbing the bag I exited his room.”

    Those actions are extremely damaging and probably did far more harm than good.

    #1041102
    yitzchokm
    Participant

    @DaasYochid,

    Sorry, but your jib about the rustling pork rinds is uncalled for. This yid is in pain.

    #1041103
    yitzchokm
    Participant

    @RebYidd23, as the op points out, he’s ashamed of his actions. He needs advice on the proper next move.

    #1041104
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    @yitzchokm, Yes, he might have pulled a muscle laughing so hard at the people who believed his tale.

    #1041105
    Randomex
    Member

    I was not surprised to find that the thread-starter had been a member for 3 hours.

    #1041106
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    This kind of behavior is not likely, unless the parent was completely oblivious to everything until that point.

    #1041107
    Randomex
    Member

    “My problem arose a few months ago when my eldest son, Aaron, started acting differently.”

    The next night however I heard rustling from down the hall.”

    The next morning I arose and went downstairs to speak to my son about the severity of his actions.”

    And then, a few undescribed months later, this thread is created. I think everyone should be able to see the problem now…

    (Not to mention that “rustling” coming from a room one can

    expect to be in use is no cause for alarm, and that no frum

    Jew would describe himself as “practicing.”)

    #1041108
    ivory
    Member

    Did you ever directly advise him not to eat pork?

    #1041109
    oomis
    Participant

    Sounds like some teenager wrote this and yanked more than a few CR chains. I have no doubt that there are many families experiencing such a crisis,and for that reason it disturbs me all the more that someone would post this. Pork rinds???? Seriously???? And then you say you “heard” rustling down the hall from under his covers? Are you Superman?

    #1041110
    ED IT OR
    Participant

    Did you knock before entering his room?

    #1041111
    oot for life
    Participant

    isn’t him naming himself and his son personal information? how’d the mods let this through?

    #1041112
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    yitzchak,

    if he was upset wouldnt it say commend not condemn

    why do people troll, what do they get out of it?

    #1041114
    oot for life
    Participant

    why does anyone make leitzanus, they need to boost their own ego at the expense of something else

    #1041116
    SayIDidIt™
    Participant

    why do people troll, what do they get out of it?

    I’ve been wondering the same thing!

    SiDi™

    #1041117
    tzviki16
    Member

    maybe the pork rinds were kosher imitations

    maybe it was a clone of your son

    #1041118
    SayIDidIt™
    Participant

    Would the clone not also be Jewish?

    But if the clone was eating imitation pork rinds that would be ok.

    😉

    SiDi™

    #1041119
    tzviki16
    Member

    the clone would not be jewish.

    was the golem of prague jewish?

    was there a golem of prague?

    #1041120
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Depends who the mother is.

    #1041121
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    oot,

    but how does it boost their ego, what they got such and such amount of people to post on their thread, whoopie

    #1041122
    oyyoyyoy
    Participant

    isn’t him naming himself and his son personal information? how’d the mods let this through?

    cause the mods wrote it duh

    #1041123
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    oyyoyyoy,

    but isnt being a mod the biggest ego booster?

    #1041124
    oyyoyyoy
    Participant

    I wasnt going with that lomdus. But if youre learning like that then i’ll tell you- if it is, thats the saddest thing ive heard my whole life

    #1041125
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    you get to approve or not approve posts, give people your own subtitle, and choose not to approve a post for hours on end

    #1041126
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    But there are multiple mods, so one might approve the posts that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.

    Or one mod might approve the poster that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.

    #1041127
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    yeah, i know mods ignore me a lot 🙂

    #1041128
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    anyway unnamed mod,

    im trying to defend you guys, no one likes to be known as a trroll

    #1041130

    and choose not to approve a post for hours on end

    yeah, i know mods ignore me a lot

    thanks for the defense . . . I think O.o

    #1041132
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Or one mod might approve the poster that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.

    ur the mod that approves the poster

    #1041133
    Randomex
    Member

    But there are multiple mods, so one might approve the posts that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.

    Or one mod might approve the poster that the other mod is purposefully ignoring.

    Unknown mod:

    Huh?

    #1041134
    yitzchokm
    Participant

    Wow! It looks like I really misread this one!

    #1041135
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    randomex,

    posts are something a poster posts, so hes not approving posts hes approving the poster in order for him to post (thats my take)

    #1041136
    Baruch10901
    Participant

    OY! and we were taught that OUd is treif. How can you take anyone seriously who uses “CUZ” There are those who believe this is a word

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