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January 28, 2011 5:38 am at 5:38 am #594588chayav inish livisumayParticipant
many times when dating people overanalyze the other person and often breakup over small, insignificant, minor details. i know someone who almost broke up with a guy because he wasnt overly thankfull to the tollbooth attendant. So as a result people on dates act extremely nice like overly thankful to tollbooth people and pretend to be people that they arent in reality, so you dont really get a good feel for who they really are. People really just need to relax!!!!!!
January 28, 2011 6:38 am at 6:38 am #733138dunnoMemberI heard from someone that the “rule” is to put on a show until the 3rd date. From then on you should be yourself. I’m not sure how that works for people who get engaged after 3 dates…
January 28, 2011 7:01 am at 7:01 am #733139HealthParticipantDunno – Some people put on shows their whole life. I don’t believe in ever putting on a show -what ya see, is what ya get!
January 28, 2011 12:30 pm at 12:30 pm #733140eclipseMemberChayav,thankful and overly thankful are not the same thing.
I saw a subtle condescension of others on dates(was told it’s the unpolished yeshiva bochur thing)….it wasn’t too long before I became the subject of it….v’hamayven ya’vin.
January 28, 2011 5:57 pm at 5:57 pm #733141chayav inish livisumayParticipantwhat does condescension mean??
January 28, 2011 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm #733142January 28, 2011 6:07 pm at 6:07 pm #733143chayav inish livisumayParticipantmod 80 what are you trying to say??
January 28, 2011 6:07 pm at 6:07 pm #733144always hereParticipantlaughing out loud again, Mod!! 😀
January 28, 2011 6:12 pm at 6:12 pm #733145YW Moderator-80Memberi was acting condescendingly
January 28, 2011 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm #733146chayav inish livisumayParticipantim still not sure what you and eclipse are trying to say
January 28, 2011 6:14 pm at 6:14 pm #733147YW Moderator-80Membermore condescension:
that’s a link chayav
youre supposed to click on it.
January 28, 2011 6:16 pm at 6:16 pm #733148chayav inish livisumayParticipantthats so cool how do you do that
January 28, 2011 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm #733149veteranMemberthats so cool how do you do that
Take a hint, pal 🙂
Unless you want to be treated condescendingly again, I would suggest you ask Google instead of Mr. 80.
January 28, 2011 8:01 pm at 8:01 pm #733150YW Moderator-80Memberfollow the instructions
January 30, 2011 12:48 am at 12:48 am #733151oomisParticipantAlways be pleasant to tollbooth people, wait staff, people at the checkout counter, and yeah, EVERYBODY ELSE. Don’t be a phony on a date. Be a good person. Period. try not to over-analyze, but if someone treats people condescendingly (like he feels they are beneath him), then maybe a different shidduch would be in order.
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