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January 24, 2011 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm #594445twiggyMember
can one daven for their zivug to be rich?
i was shmoozing to a friend who is about to date.. and she asked me if she can daven for that. she finds it important. but she also doesnt know if thats bashert for her, or if she is being picky. i didnt know what to say, so im turning to the coffee room.January 24, 2011 9:17 pm at 9:17 pm #731573YW Moderator-80Member
sure one can
probably not a good idea though
best to daven that Hashem should send you the zivug who is best for youJanuary 24, 2011 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm #731574yossi z.Member
Not exactly the best place to turn to for advice rather than just hashing things out but in my opinion if she feels that by having a rich zivug it would be a positive addition in the marriage then I don’t see any reason not to (simply put if it is for good reasons then why not?)January 24, 2011 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm #731575blinkyParticipant
absolutely! Rich in middos and Yiras shamayim is on my listJanuary 24, 2011 9:23 pm at 9:23 pm #731576eclipseMember
Who gets to keep it
only Hashem knowsJanuary 24, 2011 9:57 pm at 9:57 pm #731577real-briskerMember
mod 80 – Do you mean people should not daven for a certain cause if needed, rather no need to daven cause hashem knows whats best for you?January 24, 2011 10:09 pm at 10:09 pm #731578☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
Why daven for it? Just don’t go out with anyone who’s not rich!
(Save your tefillos for sholom bayis – you’ll need it.)January 24, 2011 10:12 pm at 10:12 pm #731579YW Moderator-80Member
i didnt say people shouldnt daven for a rich zivug or anything else.January 24, 2011 10:48 pm at 10:48 pm #731580deiyezoogerMember
daven you should get your bashert thats the best idea. let the rest to the above.January 24, 2011 10:51 pm at 10:51 pm #731581popa_bar_abbaParticipant
“He’s not engaged in a rich shul or any kind of shul”
-Pinchis (The Golden Coins)January 24, 2011 10:58 pm at 10:58 pm #731582QueenParticipant
Money ALWAYS comes with strings. Don’t wish so fast.January 24, 2011 11:13 pm at 11:13 pm #731583smartcookieMember
ONE of the things I davened for as a girl was that myself and my future husband should never be missing anything monetarily. We should be able to live B’harchava.
I think I wouldn’t ask for. RICH boy. Rather ask for your Bashert, and then try to Daven that Hashem sends you all you need.(Or if you’re so determined- Daven that you should become rich.)January 24, 2011 11:31 pm at 11:31 pm #731584cofeefanMember
just daven for the one that is right. if he was rich and then he lost all his money would she leave him?! money never lasts and it can never buy happiness though some think it can!January 25, 2011 12:11 am at 12:11 am #731585real-briskerMember
mod 80 – You did say that you dont think its a good idea to.January 25, 2011 12:40 am at 12:40 am #731586HealthParticipant
I don’t want a Rich Shidduch; a couple of hundred thou for the Nadin will do!January 25, 2011 1:41 am at 1:41 am #731587aries2756Participant
Since your Bashert is already chosen for you, maybe you should pray that YOU should be wealthy and that you AND your zivug will be happy, healthy and successful in the future.January 25, 2011 7:36 am at 7:36 am #731588twiggyMember
thanks for all your wonderful words of wisdom. i will pass it on
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