February 3, 2012 12:43 am at 12:43 am #601891Stamford Hilly BillyParticipant
can anyone supply any information about something apparently called shabbos gehinom?
I have never heard of this. What if any minhogim are there?
What does/should each family do for each other?
P.s I ask because my brother became a chasson and this strange term was bandied around. I hat asnything where such words has ‘gehionm’ are used.
thanksFebruary 3, 2012 3:07 am at 3:07 am #849634moreMember
does anyone understand what this guy is trying to get accross, I don’t.. anyway congratulations on your brothers engagement.
If you vont u can you make your post alittle more clearer so that the oilum could chup votz flying…
thnx.February 3, 2012 5:38 am at 5:38 am #849635WIYMember
No clue. Why don’t you ask whomever it was who spoke about it and please get back to us and enlighten us.
All I know about Shabbos and Gehinnom is that on Shabbos the fires of Gehinnom are turned off (for those who were Shomer Shabbos khilchaso including the time they kept Tosafos Shabbos)February 3, 2012 10:40 am at 10:40 am #849636ED IT ORParticipant
its the Shabbos during the engagement when the. chosson eats by the kalla and the kalla’s brothers all make a fool out of her!February 3, 2012 1:26 pm at 1:26 pm #849637ToiParticipant
refers to chosson going to future in laws for shabbos. has to be on best nehavior etc. pretty rusty, been there done that.February 3, 2012 1:38 pm at 1:38 pm #849638squeakParticipant
Its a joke about spending the first shabbos with his new mother in lawFebruary 3, 2012 1:44 pm at 1:44 pm #849639gavra_at_workParticipant
Isn’t that the shabbos that the Lakewood Roshei yeshiva are in town?
(Just a joke)February 3, 2012 4:52 pm at 4:52 pm #849640WIYMember
I don’t see the humor in that at all. WHAT IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!February 3, 2012 5:28 pm at 5:28 pm #849641gavra_at_workParticipant
WIY: Long boring speaches when you would rather be eating Cholent or learning in Bais.February 3, 2012 5:29 pm at 5:29 pm #849642WolfishMusingsParticipant
With all this talk, I am always reminded about how blessed I am that my in-laws and I got along perfectly from Day 1 and that my parents and stepmother get along with my wife perfectly.
Interestingly enough, the first time I met my future father-in-law was when he was sitting shiva for his father. Eeees and I had begun dating only a few weeks earlier and I had never met her father prior to the point when his father passed away.
The WolfFebruary 3, 2012 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm #849643bptParticipant
“when the chosson eats by the kalla”
” first shabbos with his new mother in law “
Funny!February 3, 2012 6:06 pm at 6:06 pm #849644yaakov doeParticipant
Common knowledge that the term is used for the first Shabbos a chossen spends with his in laws. Usually said in a joking way, but even with the ideal in laws it can be tense.
I happen to have great in laws.February 3, 2012 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm #849645
so did my husbandFebruary 3, 2012 6:34 pm at 6:34 pm #849646Tora YidMember
Syag: What do you mean by “did”?February 3, 2012 6:51 pm at 6:51 pm #849647
Just that my parents aren’t alive anymore. But I sure hope tho be the kind of in-laws my parents were!February 4, 2012 5:21 pm at 5:21 pm #849648
Shabbos Gehennom is the first Shabbos after you lose eligibility for food shtemps and suddenly notice what kosher food really costs.
(Yes, I’m back – gotta prepare 30 days before the chag and that means Peerim is on the way!)February 6, 2012 10:49 pm at 10:49 pm #849649bptParticipant
“and suddenly notice what kosher food really costs”
Even funnier!February 6, 2012 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm #849650Rav TuvParticipant
You have your work cut out for you!
Mr. ZogerFebruary 7, 2012 12:02 am at 12:02 am #849651koillel101Member
its torture the other way around too cuz my sis-in law came as a kallh to our house not to sleep but for a meal and the whole meal was tense for everyone-trying to get everyome to be on their best behavior isnt easy!!!February 7, 2012 12:56 am at 12:56 am #849652moreMember
tuna baigel- Why does it have to be a tense time, why can’t you just chill and be yourselves?? she aint gonna get the right impression that way….she’s gonna get a rude shock sometime sooner rather than later, After all were all human!December 25, 2018 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm #1651667✡onegoal™Participant
So Syag, how do you think you rate on the “in law scale” now?December 25, 2018 12:58 pm at 12:58 pm #1651682
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣December 25, 2018 1:01 pm at 1:01 pm #1651671GadolhadorahParticipant
can you try to think of a kinder way to say that? It was otherwise a good point. (talk about judgemental) – 29December 25, 2018 1:02 pm at 1:02 pm #16516781Participant
It refers to the first Shabbos future husband spends with the family of future wife. Because he’ll have to be on his best behavior. If the food isn’t good and he doesn’t like father in law’s shul, he can’t escape.December 25, 2018 1:08 pm at 1:08 pm #1651695Little FroggieParticipant
Allowed to call her by her first name?
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