January 22, 2019 9:43 pm at 9:43 pm #16663691Participant
Are there any shadchanim who are actually involved in the process from beginning to emd or does any yukel with WhatsApp or email looking for $10,000 automatically qualify as a shadchan because they got their hands on a resume?January 22, 2019 10:11 pm at 10:11 pm #1666489☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
$10,000? Where do I sign up?January 22, 2019 10:13 pm at 10:13 pm #1666494
What’s this whole todo with shadchanim, shadchanim, shadchanim. Everyone can get married without a professional shadchan. Family, friends, friends of friends, rabbonim, schoolmates, shul mates, acquaintances, neighbors and colleagues network and redt shidduchim. You don’t need a professional shadchan for that.January 22, 2019 10:59 pm at 10:59 pm #1666511
I would venture to say that most (likely the vast majority) of Chareidi marriages occur from shidduchim that were not redt by a professional shadchan.January 22, 2019 11:00 pm at 11:00 pm #1666515GadolhadorahParticipant
Without shadchanim we wouldn’t have a “shidduch crisis” and then we would be stuck here in the CR reading endless threads on TecheilesJanuary 23, 2019 3:02 pm at 3:02 pm #1667330The little I knowParticipant
Great comment!January 23, 2019 3:54 pm at 3:54 pm #1667348apushatayidParticipant
I know a shadchan who wears techeiles.January 23, 2019 4:02 pm at 4:02 pm #1667350GadolhadorahParticipant
To Pushatayid: Does he have any successful clients? If so, we have the basis for a new line of inquiry about the merits of a segulah for a successful shiduch.January 23, 2019 5:13 pm at 5:13 pm #1667362funnyboneParticipant
I agree that anyone can be a shadchan. However, there are many people who view it as a p/t or f/t job. They spend countless hours pairing people and make a living out of it.
There are times, my shisduch included, that no one who have thought of it and only a pro puts it together.January 23, 2019 8:12 pm at 8:12 pm #1667406
funnybone: Please elaborate on this thought of yours that “There are times, my shisduch included, that no one who have thought of it and only a pro puts it together.” Using yourself as an example, why do you assume a non-professional shadchan would never have thought of it?January 23, 2019 10:10 pm at 10:10 pm #1667512avocadoParticipant
Making shidduchim has to be more of a priority with people. you probably get a lot of zechusim not to mention $$$January 28, 2019 9:02 pm at 9:02 pm #1669770funnyboneParticipant
Joseph: without getting into details, my wife and I come from different communities and neighborhoods and our parents don’t share mutual friends.
My brother’s shidduch, btw, was also through a professional shadchan.
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