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  • #2125249
    rightwriter
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    -Kiddush cup stem or not? Why? What was the original minhag?
    -Esrog pitom or not? Why? What was the original esrog type that was used?
    -Pesach Keaara 2 matzahs or 3?
    -Megillas Esther foldable or Torah style scroll? Was a scroll ever used? Do some use a scroll?
    -Torah Ashkenaz scroll or Sephardi scroll? Why the difference and what was used originally?
    -Tzitzis white strings or techeles? White stripes or black? Techeles Beged?
    -Chanuka oil or wax candles?
    -Matza machine made or hand made? What is more kosher? What are we commemorating the
    Yetzias Mitzrayim or Korban Pesach?
    -Lulav closed or open? Koshalach or tied together? Whats the original minhag? (There is the coin
    discovered which shows Beis Hamkidash on one side and the other lulav and esrog and seems
    to have a koshalach holder,interesting)

    Welcoming your thoughts and answers…

    #2125503

    Wow! What a neutral, nice and productive topic. I can’t believe we didn’t just drop everything to approve it. Thankfully you called us names to motivate us to rush in xnd rectify it.

    #2125507

    Sherer OR Emes? (Sheker has a stem, is shaky, Emes is yasod)

    Mishna: STAM – halakha? Rebbi Meir?

    Schools: a STEM or ST’M debate!

    #2125516
    ujm
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    Again discussing the stem cells debate?

    #2125594
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Yes, Moderator 29, a lot more neutral and positive than the sinas chinam topics you guys approve or post on the site. My topic, contrary to your taste is actually productive and thought provoking to find out the roots and sources for our Jewish customs. Should I have thrown some hate stirring attacks on others minhagim in order to get approved faster?

    Ujm, yes how did you guess? Is that the most you can contribute to the topic? Its ok for you not to know everything so we forgive you in advance to not comment in future cases. : )

    #2125610
    commonsaychel
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    Troll or not troll?
    Kokosh with hot coffee or cold milk?
    Woodburne or Fallsburg?
    Tums or Exlax on Motza?

    #2125621
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    Do you use this type of verbal bullying/manipulation to get your way in real life too? There are actually more appropriate ways to have a conversation.

    #2125630
    AviraDeArah
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    This list is full of arrogance. It’s not our place to decide which half of klal yisroel, which half of rishonim are “right” and which are “wrong”.

    In the dead sea scrolls caves, for instance, they found both rashi and rabbeinu tam tefillin.

    Eilu v’eilu divrei elokim chaim. Good chazal to acknowledge.

    #2125642
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Avirah maybe you see it as arrogance because you are self reflecting and projecting it on others. Actually this topic isn’t about who or what is right it’s about minhagim and asking those who practice the minhag this way or that for sources and reasons in order to understand why some have a certain minhag either way. It’s just that this forum has participants who are so negative that they will always try to find the bad in anything and start a contest of who can put downt the other on a more “clever” way. Pathetic.

    Syag I’m actually not bullying anyone just stating facts from observation.

    #2125646
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    Facts from observation would be “it took a lot longer than it should have to be approved”

    These comments-
    “a lot more neutral and positive than the sinas chinam topics you guys approve”
    “My topic, contrary to your taste is actually productive”
    “Should I have thrown some hate stirring attacks on others minhagim in order to get approved faster?”
    Are neither facts nor “observations”

    And then you complain about other people’s negativity
    Self reflect much?

    #2125644
    rightwriter
    Participant

    I heard the kiddush cup with stem is a more recent American minhag. Is there any source to that? That is if anyone actually wants to talk about this topic or just write random things which make you feel so smart and brave. Those who don’t want to participate in this discussion are welcome to leave and not comment. I’m only looking for productive comments that can contribute information not for your silly 5 year old jokes.

    #2125674
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Syag nobody asked you. Nothing j said was negative they are facts and patterns that everyone is aware of. Like I said if you can’t contribute to this topic you are more than welcome to not comment. You aren’t coming off as clever or quick witted we’ve seen these boring comments over and over again by everyone. Change the record.

    #2125675
    BaltimoreMaven
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    There is a syle of kiddush cup with a unique design which is attributed to the Ruzhiner Rebbe but which may date back to the Maggid of Mezeritch. Google “Ruzhin Sterling Silver Kiddush Cup bidspirit”

    #2125682
    Sam Klein
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    Chanukah oil use Yes versus candles due to the miracle happening with oil on Chanukah lasting 8 days

    Pesach Seder 3 matzos needed halachically and not only for kohein Levi and Yisroel but for all the steps of the Pesach Seder to make it through while the rest of Pesach only 2 at a time for lechem Mishna are needed

    Rest on the list I have no opinion on but everyone has their own minhag of what they grew up with their family holding like halachically. Esrog With pitum or without. Open or closed lulav etc…. And the many other examples you mentioned. Sefardim use Sefer Torah standing up while leining from it so do sefardim say selichos for the entire month of Elul including through Yom kippur.

    #2125700
    commonsaychel
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    I heard Pizza on motza is a American minhag, is any source to that?
    I heard that a Brisker size slice of kokosh caken is eaten both chasidim and MO, any soucre to that?

    #2125706
    ymribiat
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    @ rightwriter Its rather pointless to post a topic in a forum that contains random questions that you could easily research on your own time.
    The space is better used as a space for grownups to thoughtfully discuss their opinions about issues of the day.

    #2125749
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    I wasn’t trying to be clever nor pretend to be quick witted. I mistakenly thought that if you realized how stupid it sounds to spew negativity while blaming everyone else for it you would be humbled into changing your tune.

    My bad

    #2125792
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Avirah “This list is full of arrogance. It’s not our place to decide which half of klal yisroel, which half of rishonim are “right” and which are “wrong”.”

    -so I take it you follow Beis Shamay for menora lighting in order to stay in your place? I mean why be arrogant and follow a different opinion?

    Wasn’t there one way of doing things before the churban? Just asking.

    #2125788
    rightwriter
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    Baltimoremaven, is it the one that looks like an apple with a lid? That’s what Google search shows.

    Sam Klein, what about the wax sealing though? Without that there wouldn’t be any usable oil.

    Also didn’t the Vilna Gaon hold by only 2 matzohs?

    Yes I know everyone has their minhagim regarding lulav etc. More interested in reasons behind them. I’m sure there are many.

    #2125811

    RW, in most cases, the best minhag is from your family, unless it was clearly off “minhag shtus”.

    Sephardi Torahs seem to be easier to handle and store upright. Also, their minhag is to do hagbah BEFORE the reading, which seems to make a lot of sense: you demonstrate the text to the kahal and then read it. If someone sees the problem, he can point it out beforehand. What is the explanation for the Ashkenazi order?

    #2125815

    Esrog – Eastern Europe would often get one esrog per town, according to stories. Would they really refuse it if was a pitom or pitom-less type?

    #2125805
    AviraDeArah
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    Right, you weren’t asking who we pasken like. You were asking who was historically correct, and by extension, who was right and wrong. Beis shamai were “right”, and we will indeed pasken like them when moshiach comes, according to the arizal. Beis hill were also right, and we pasken like them now.

    #2125826

    RW did not ask “who is right”, he asked “what was original” minhag. That is not the same. You don’t tell your students that Yaakov wore a shtreimel to support a minhag, I hope.

    #2125835
    commonsaychel
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    @RW, what is the minhag of eating pizza on Motza? or a half baked slice on Motza Peasch?
    What is the minhag of having a sushi platter at a vort?
    And you never answered the Kokosh cake minhag,

    #2125950
    rightwriter
    Participant

    commone saychel-” what is the minhag of eating pizza on Motza? or a half baked slice on Motza Peasch?
    What is the minhag of having a sushi platter at a vort?
    And you never answered the Kokosh cake minhag,”

    Those arent minhagim moron.

    #2125952
    rightwriter
    Participant

    alwaysask-“What is the explanation for the Ashkenazi order?”

    ” Eastern Europe would often get one esrog per town, according to stories. Would they really refuse it if was a pitom or pitom-less type?”

    -idk you tell me? Thats why im asking if anyone knows sources and would be interesting in hearing peoples minhagim and reasons.

    “RW did not ask “who is right”, he asked “what was original” minhag. That is not the same. You don’t tell your students that Yaakov wore a shtreimel to support a minhag, I hope.”

    -exactly

    #2125957
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    Wow, you are so positive and inspiring. Looking forward to future threads 😍

    #2125960

    Hopefully, if s/he/them sticks around, he’ll improve his manners from the rest of us (NOT:)

    #2125962

    wearing a headcover would be one thing. It is mefurash from the Gemora that _married_ men were supposed to wear a sudar (at least Talmidei Chachamim in Bavel).

    Some other changes are documented in Gemora. Kesuba was assessed only on real estate. Later on, it was also assessed on movables. This confirms that “original” is not necessarily the “correct” one, especially when there was a beis din ruling to change it.

    Days of the week when we do weddings changed a number of times.

    #2125963
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Syag I think you made your point already, that you are childish and needy for attention. Nobody asked you to join this thread. If you realized im trying to only reply and be in discussion with those who are staying on topic but you are relentlessly asking for attention.

    Having said that , yes I think it is much more positive to understand beatiful minhagim of our people and its inspiring once you understand the meaning behind what our own people do from across the spectrum. You can keep being a wise-crack but dont be surprised if you will be ignored. Thanks for understanding 😉

    #2125965
    rightwriter
    Participant

    ymribiat”The space is better used as a space for grownups to thoughtfully discuss their opinions about issues of the day.”

    -nobody stopping you from creating useless topics to discuss “issues of the day” as a “grownup” with other “grownups”. Did anyone force you to join this discussion? If so report them to the mods.

    #2125975
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Avirah “Right, you weren’t asking who we pasken like. You were asking who was historically correct, and by extension, who was right and wrong. Beis shamai were “right”, and we will indeed pasken like them when moshiach comes, according to the arizal. Beis hill were also right, and we pasken like them now.”

    -Correct but was focusing more on minhagim not on Halacha. Obviously many times they are interconnected but they are still 2 separate entities. I mean isnt wearing a Yarmulka just a minhag as well? So im more wondering to see peoples reasons and origins for the way they do things.

    “Sephardi Torahs seem to be easier to handle and store upright”

    -Well they are easier to store upright because they were made in a way to read upright. It wasnt just made this way to be convenient to store and therefore they decided to read it upright since Ashkenaz style reading would be pretty inconvenient with a Sephardi Torah. From what I understand Sephardi minhag is also to put up Mezuza Vertically and not tilted like the Ashkenaz way. Werent there opinions of putting up Mezuza horizontally before Rashi?

    #2125998
    bored_teen 💕
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    Woah, someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed! I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone so nasty and babyish on here!

    #2126002

    Oh I have, but they usually don’t make it through.

    #2126005
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    Rw – how do you feel about gefilte fish? Asking for a friend

    #2126015
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @RW, is that right? and most of the stuff on your list is not either.
    However I will sink to your level and call you names but your matuity leave a lot to desired

    #2126041
    rightwriter
    Participant

    Syag”IRw – how do you feel about gefilte fish? Asking for a friend”

    -depends, with or without the carrot?

    #2126043
    yaakov doe
    Participant

    For those who want to know I suggest you read A Lost Art Handmade Silver Kiddush Cups of Eastern Europe by Jonathan Greenstein which you can buy on Amazon

    #2126058
    rightwriter
    Participant

    yaakov doe-“For those who want to know I suggest you read A Lost Art Handmade Silver Kiddush Cups of Eastern Europe by Jonathan Greenstein which you can buy on Amazon”

    -And for those who dont want to buy it, any shorthand insights?

    #2126070
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    What is the minhag of Horseradish with Geflite fish?
    What is the minhag of yelling out Kohaleh during laining?
    What is the minhag of serving Kichelech along side of the herring at the kiddush?
    What is the minhag of flushing twice using public toilets?

    #2126079
    rightwriter
    Participant

    None of those are minhagim they are just foods that go together. Also why would you need to flush twice on a public toilet unless it doesn’t flush well?

    #2126082
    commonsaychel
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    #2126102
    yungermanS
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    There’s a sefer composed abd written by a tzaddik filled with all of the minhagim in klal yisroel and the reasons behind each minhag also written in English that can be found in stores today i just forgot the name of the sefer but if you do some research or ask someone who works in a judaica store im sure they would be able to guide tou straight to this sefer listing hundreds to thousands maybe of minhagim in klal yisroel and the reasons behind where each come from.

    #2126166
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @RW, its called a courtesy flush

    #2126224
    huju
    Participant

    I thought this thread would be about including science, technology, engineering and math in yeshiva curricula.

    #2126254
    rightwriter
    Participant

    @common, you do that in someone’s house public doesn’t really need any courtesy. And again, not a minhag.

    #2126293
    Marxist
    Participant

    @huju

    Same

    #2126325
    ubiquitin
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    CS

    Here to answer all your questions ! !!!

    Troll or not troll? – not troll

    Kokosh with hot coffee or cold milk? – under age 16 milk over 16 coffee. Age 16 itself mix the two

    Woodburne or Fallsburg? – Woodburne

    Tums or Exlax on Motza? – Tums

    what is the minhag of eating pizza on Motza? – Pizza is round like the moon but as slices are removed it gets smaller until a new pie is brought out, this reminds us of Kidush levana whcih there is minhag to do Motzoei Shabbos

    or a half baked slice on Motza Peasch? – Since it isnt fully baked it can still rise to contrast with Matzah

    What is the minhag of having a sushi platter at a vort? – Suchi is lashon of Sos osis which was the Haftorha for chasanim

    What is the minhag of Horseradish with Geflite fish? – so that we cry thinking of the Liviyason’s mate that was killed

    What is the minhag of yelling out Kohaleh during laining? – I give the answer in the thread you linked to

    What is the minhag of serving Kichelech along side of the herring at the kiddush? – When eating on Shabbos we should progress through brias haolam Herring was day 5 (fish) kichel is day 3 (plant) it is improper to skip staright to day 5 so we have day 3 with it

    What is the minhag of flushing twice using public toilets? – you answred this one

    #2126343
    commonsaychel
    Participant

    @ubiquitin, TY TY, I was always looking for the mikor of those minhagim, BH now I know.
    @RW, you see here the mikor of these minghagim.

    #2126349
    Participant
    Participant

    These are very intriguing questions. Thank you for starting me on this research trail. Here are my results:

    -Kiddush cup stem or not? Yes Why? It’s easier to hold. What was the original minhag? that way.

    -Esrog pitom or not? Yes Why? Otherwise it’s possul. What was the original esrog type that was used? teimani.

    -Pesach Keaara 2 matzahs or 3? 3

    -Megillas Esther foldable or Torah style scroll? Was a scroll ever used? Do some use a scroll?
    Don’t fold it.

    -Torah Ashkenaz scroll or Sephardi scroll? Why the difference and what was used originally?
    This one’s too hard for me.

    -Tzitzis white strings or techeles? both White stripes or black? no stripes. Techeles Beged? optional.

    -Chanuka oil or wax candles? Either

    -Matza machine made or hand made? handmade What is more kosher? depends which hechsher .What are we commemorating the Yetzias Mitzrayim or Korban Pesach? When?

    -Lulav closed or open? closed Koshalach or tied together? a holder. Whats the original minhag? to use gold rings. some say they were palm bedecked in gold.

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