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  • #595240
    i said so
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    teenagers conversing what do u find hardest about being a teen?

    #836100
    Tums
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    Not being able to purchase alcohol.

    #836101
    yossi z.
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    Being stuck in between being not able to do anything yet having to be responsible and everything like a full adult. Then again it is kind of preparation for later life like having to do mitzvos and stuff before bar mitzvah

    😀 Zuberman! 😀

    #836102
    shuli
    Participant

    hardest?

    not being able to have my own apartment and earnn a living (babysitting is not alot charging only 5 an hour)

    not being able to go wherever i want when i want

    not being able to make my own decisions

    having parents responsible 4 me

    (i like being independant)

    having to share a room

    #836103
    i said so
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    tums-

    b”h for that that teens cant buy alcohol until there 21 hopefully by then a person is a bit more mature and knows better what they want from themselves

    yossi-

    thats what a teen is all about preparation for being a adult 🙂

    teenagers are still dependent o a little on their parents but also have to learn how to be independent

    #836104
    i said so
    Member

    shuli-

    i fully understand u be thankful that u dont have to work yet and support a family when the time comes for u to work ……..

    teenagers have to learn how to be independent but still have to be dependnt on our parents a little imagine what the world would look like if ttens did exactly what they wanted without guidance and support and leadership

    good luck 🙂

    #836105
    Sister Bear
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    school

    not being fully valued or listened to because “you’re just a teen and we’re adults and know better.” Heads up…sometimes you don’t.

    #836106
    shuli
    Participant

    i have this things 4 money…even though now with the inflation, the american dollar is wothless…:)

    #836107
    i said so
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    sister bear-

    every person should be valued doesnt matter age

    shuli-

    yup what can we do

    #836108
    monseygirl
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    not being able to get married yet

    #836109
    Tums
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    not being able to get married yet

    How old are you? People get married as young as 17, and certainly 18.

    #836110
    i said so
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    monseygirl-

    thats an intresting one do u have the guy already?

    #836111
    dumblonde
    Member

    i said so, it sounds like youre a teen yourself. what do u find hardest?

    im with monsey girl. although i think i dont mind waiting a couple of years. ill have my husband for the rest of my life be”h no need to hurry now. i also think that sometimes being a teen is a little depressing. there is so much going on and changing…

    #836112
    i said so
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    dumblonde-

    welcome to the thread yes im a teen myself and im a proud one and not depressed what do u find so depressing?

    i think being a teen is fun goin through changes and experiencing a little what life is all about but not yet with all the reasponsibilities good luck and it doesnt pay tp be depressed live it up 🙂

    #836113
    i said so
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    tums-

    whats the rush?

    #836114
    Shmuel294
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    I found that during my teenaged years my parents were the hardest part of my life because they were always scared that u was gonna go OTD so two were always trying to control me. As for school, what’s so bad about going to a place where you get to learn, work on your arguing skills and make friends?

    #836115
    charliehall
    Participant

    “not being able to get married yet “

    If you are sixteen, you can get married almost everywhere in the US as long as your parents consent. A few states will even allow younger people to get married, but permission of a secular court may be required. Halachah would actually permit someone to get married as soon as they are bar or bat mitzvah, but we have to follow secular law as well.

    #836116
    observanteen
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    To build the foundation of your life. These are the crucial yrs that forms a person. It’s hardest to decide which goals to set and which path to pursue.

    #836117
    mom12
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    I am not a teen..but I do have teenaged children..

    only got one thing to say: the time flies by so fast enjoy your teenage years and the fact that you r not ‘attached’.

    My ‘in her 20’s’ daughter, only wants to be a teenager again..

    Enjoy the freedom and the fact that your not being constantly looked after (if your not shidduch age,that is)

    GOOD LUCK — try to find the good in each stage of life

    #836118
    Shticky Guy
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    Its hard cos teenagers always think they know better, and sometimes they really do, but they must still learn to accept authority and this seems to be difficult for most of them, as i’m sure it was for me during my teenage years.

    Why are they called ‘teenagers’? Vayl zai teen vus zai vill…

    #836119
    yossi z.
    Member

    One of my favorite quotes about teens: when you are younger you think your parents are so dumb and when you get older you are amazed at how much they learned in so few years …

    😀 Zuberman! 😀

    #836121
    i said so
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    yossi-

    cute one

    #836122
    dumblonde
    Member

    ya i like that!

    #836123

    I have found parents and teachers to be wrong. They think they know everything and the teen knows nothing but I’m a teen and I don’t think I know everything and that’s why I ask and there are times that adults can also admit to mistakes! You don’t either know everything! Yes, teenage years are tough…We had another thread on that.

    Also, I know a girl in 11th grade who just got engaged so you technically can although I wouldn’t.

    #836124
    i said so
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    mischiefmaker-

    fact in life ppl make mistakes and no no one should think og themselves that they dont make mistakes only angels dont make mistakes when u realize ur wrong u got to admit it! (thats key #1)

    #836125

    That’s precisely what I was trying to say.

    #836126
    guy-ocho
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    Tums: since when can’t u buy alcohol. i have been getting alcohol and cigarretes since 12 yrs. old. just gotta know where 2 go.

    #836127
    observanteen
    Member

    Guy Ocho: Now, now, don’t go around educating the innocent teens! 🙁

    #836128
    guy-ocho
    Member

    observanteen: how old r u that ur not innocent anymore. If they’re on CR, they’re probably trying to get a little educated. btw thats what the mods r here 4. They wouldnt post it if it was harmful.

    #836129
    observanteen
    Member

    I didn’t say I’m not innocent anymore…;)

    I’m turning 18 this shabbos.

    I KNOW everone’s trying to get educated, but, you don’t have to be the teacher,y’know.

    Oh, and one more thing: would you stop taking me so seriously?:)

    #836130
    dumblonde
    Member

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY! may u have many more happy ones! (were u serious when u said that its ur birthday?)

    #836131
    guy-ocho
    Member

    observanteen: i was just kidding. your the 1 who needs 2 stop being so serious. btw happy b-day. where’s the party at

    #836132
    observanteen
    Member

    Thanks everyone!! Yeah, I was serious.

    Oh, guy, sorry. (blush)that’s sooo embarrassing!

    #836133
    guy-ocho
    Member

    am i invited. hmu

    #836134
    observanteen
    Member

    huh?

    #836135
    guy-ocho
    Member

    i guess ur not as educated as u make urself out 2 b

    #836137
    kapusta
    Participant

    At first I was wondering how the adults got in (J/K) and then I started wondering which side I’d actually be on…

    Scary thought.

    *kapusta*

    #836138
    yossi z.
    Member

    Me too but until I turn twenty I will hold on to being a teen as much as I possibly can so I am on the teen side 😀

    😀 Zuberman! 😀

    #836139
    i said so
    Member

    yossi- teens rock no matter what the adults say!

    #836140
    neek
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    hey everyone! i read this whole convo- and i wana answer the quistion…

    whats hard bout a teens life?

    i think the different genders…

    and happy b-day observanteen- ur gana be 18 very very soon! ha ha! do u feel old?!

    and “i said so” and “yossi”- i couldnt agree more!!!!! WE ROCK THIS WORLD!!!

    peace!

    #836141
    yossi z.
    Member

    Does marriage put an end to teenageness? Why?

    😀 Zuberman! 😀

    #836142
    dumblonde
    Member

    ya, course! too many reasons to mention…

    #836143
    yossi z.
    Member

    So if someone were to get married at 17 they are no longer a teenager?

    😀 Zuberman! 😀

    #836144
    i said so
    Member

    technically they r but the title doesnt really suit them anymore

    #836145
    candy613
    Member

    well in a literal sense they would still be a teenager, but they can call themselves whatever makes them happy! Why not hold onto the status of a teen while you have it though? We are the best!

    >O<613

    #836146
    i said so
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    try to be a teen as long as u can ! cuz teenage yrs pass by real quick

    #836147
    candy613
    Member

    yeah i see how fast it’s going by and its kinda scary!!!!!

    >O<613

    #836148
    observanteen
    Member

    neek: thanks!! My friends made me a surprise B-Day party, boy, did we have FUN!!! To answer your question, no, it doesn’t feel weird. It actually feels gr8! This year has been a tough one for me, so I’m not exactly sorry to get outta the number 17. Hope this year has some good surprises in store for me!!

    #836149
    candy613
    Member

    yeah observanteen i feel the same way im starting to hate being 17! it has been a really bad year! cant wait to turn 18! just 1 month left!

    >O<613

    #836150
    observanteen
    Member

    Candy: Look forward!! It really is great. BTW, I’m so happy for you that you decided on a seminary. Ateres is a Fantabulous seminary!! It’s the real frum yeshivish crowd. Enjoy!!

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