In terms of middos, patience, nice etc. everyone wants certain qualities…so while your actually dating want should you keep an eye out for???
Nothing else comes anywhere close to Middos.
all the things that were listed in the first post fall under the category of middos!
generous…and his connection/love for Hashem and mitzvot…is he doing it out of love or route??? its hard…but if u see a red flag def consult a rabbi….
Middos and yiras shamayim priority, next comes compatibility, stable in mind / settled, and the rest differs for each person (looks money background health etc)
If you’re asking more specifically about character, I’d say make sure no temper, giving type – baal chesed. And oh, very important: a happy positive person – makes life so much easier…
One simple rule I’ve heard from many wise people which has been proven. Make sure they future in-laws have lots of money, and they also poses the quality of sharing it.