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December 19, 2010 3:24 am at 3:24 am #593579eclipseMember
We all agree words are extremely powerful,for better or for worse.
I personally remember remarks (both positive/negative)that affected the way I viewed myself or others.For example,as teenager,I remember someone telling me,”If I had a smile like that,I’d use it all the time!”That person knew what worried me at the time,but that worked like magic.I still think my smile is a gift.
Conversely,an adult once told me as a young child,”Your voice is pounding in my head!!”Granted,that person had some emotional issues,and no one else in the world besides that person ever told me that…I still worry from time to time if my voice is at a normal decibel.
December 19, 2010 4:36 am at 4:36 am #720430eclipseMemberWe can stick to the positive effects of positive words,to be safe.
December 20, 2010 4:15 am at 4:15 am #720431eclipseMemberDon’t tell me NOone has ANYthing to say…?
December 20, 2010 4:33 am at 4:33 am #720432Ma ChovasoMemberWell anything positive anyone ever tells me gives me a high. A real high. Like, I thrive on it for days and days.
December 20, 2010 11:15 am at 11:15 am #720433eclipseMemberThank you,M.C.:)That’s what I meant.Anyone else in CoffeeLand?
December 20, 2010 3:56 pm at 3:56 pm #720434says whoMemberWhen I was 11 years old, someone in camp told me that when I sing I sound like a some other boy in camp. I really didn’t like that boy’s voice. since then, I stopped singing in public.
December 20, 2010 4:26 pm at 4:26 pm #720435smartcookieMemberSomeone once told me that I’m a big perfectionist. Once I realized the truth in her words, I became even more of a perfectionist because I’m always thinking into it and living up to it.
Good or bad???
December 21, 2010 7:44 pm at 7:44 pm #720436deiyezoogerMembergood and bad. theese stories happen daily keep an open eye but dont take anything personal
December 21, 2010 9:30 pm at 9:30 pm #720437aries2756ParticipantI believe when someone says “I love you” and means it, it changes you in some way.
December 22, 2010 5:27 pm at 5:27 pm #720438YW Moderator-80Memberneither sentence nor conversation, but anyway:
when i was perhaps 5 or 6 or 7
i was riding in the car coming back from vacation with my parents
bored and looking out the window
watching trees buildings and other cars go by, watching the scenery
part of the scenery passing by, i saw a car going in the other direction with a little boy looking out the window watching the scenery. he was just part of the scenery to me
and i realized that to him i was just part of the scenery.
and i realized i wasnt the center of the universe.
December 22, 2010 5:34 pm at 5:34 pm #720439SacrilegeMemberAlong the lines of 80…
In 10th grade, in Earth Science we were learning about the stars and constellations etc… I have never felt so insignificant in my entire life.
December 22, 2010 5:53 pm at 5:53 pm #720440not IMemberMy life changed when my husband asked the question “Will you marry me?” Didn’t actually phrase it that way but you get the picture!!
December 22, 2010 5:59 pm at 5:59 pm #720441SacrilegeMembernot I
LOL! Thats adorable.
December 22, 2010 6:06 pm at 6:06 pm #720442jewish sourceParticipantThe Gemara says.Al Tistakal Bema Sheaina Shelcha Ma Sheyeish Lo Ain Nosnim Lecha UmaShyeish Lecha Notlim Mimcha.
Don’t look at what someone else has, what they have you wont get and what you have will be taken away from you.
December 22, 2010 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm #720443cutie pieMemberWell, all throughout my childhood, people have told me that my smile always make other people happy. So since then, I try to smile at others. I see it also made me into a happier and more positive person. 🙂
December 22, 2010 6:31 pm at 6:31 pm #720444artchillParticipantWe are not renewing the contract for the next fiscal year…
December 22, 2010 6:46 pm at 6:46 pm #720445not IMemberSomeon I didn’t really ahev much to do with told me I always have a positive outlook!
Remember it all the time.. Try to live up to it too!
December 22, 2010 10:25 pm at 10:25 pm #720446eclipseMemberMod 80,you can publish that.It’s poetic and well-put.Seriously.
December 23, 2010 5:55 pm at 5:55 pm #720448blinkyParticipantyea, when someone said, “hey did you hear of the CR?”
December 23, 2010 9:33 pm at 9:33 pm #720449bptParticipant“hey did you hear of the CR?”
Oooh, do I feel that one.
Last summer, someone mention the CR in a Friday night get-together of about 6-8 people. I said nothing, but my wife shot me a look that could freeze a river.
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