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January 21, 2026 12:18 pm at 12:18 pm #2501831Yaakov Yosef AParticipant
The following exchange was posted several days ago in the coffee room. It began when Shimon Katz (who I often agree with) butted into a debate between ZSK (who I respect although we often disagree) and SomeJew (who we all know and love…) [To be fair, I also butted into the same debate, and called out the כפירה שבו, but more בקיצור.] ZSK correctly pointed out (in a subsequent post) that Shimon was going off topic. Therefore, I chose to copy the relevant piece to a new thread, because of the very critical issues it touched on, that many ostensibly Chareidi Jews seem to be confused about.
So here it is: [In two places in Shimon’s rebuttal, I added information in square parentheses.]
ZSK: As for “sending their children off to die in wars… just like the non-Jewish nations”. For 2,000 years, Jewish children were slaughtered like sheep because they didn’t have an army. To imply that there is no difference between a Jew dying as a helpless victim of a Cossack and a Jew dying as a soldier defending EY is an insult to the Kedoshim. עד כאן ZSK.
Shimon K: There are multiple problems with this string of non-sequiturs (including כפירה). Let’s focus for now on the circular reasoning. Why is a “Jew dying as a soldier defending EY” (actually, defending the secular country of Israel) fundamentally any different than “the non-Jewish nations sending their children off to die in wars” defending THEIR nations? Why is there any religious significance or any other ערך מוסף specifically when one dies in defense of Israel. Don’t tell me stories about “protecting Jews”. There are plenty of Jews protected by the US Army (including those in Israel…) Your warped redefinition of קדוש is limited to defense of a very specific political entity that RZ have imbued with Messianic levels of קדושה, even though its founders and leaders don’t even believe in קדושה altogether, (although that never stopped them from making emotional references to קדושים when it suited their purposes.) Why is that not an insult to the REAL קדושים who died to remain faithful to Hashem and His Torah? Remember that up until the Holocaust, almost without exception, there was always an ‘escape clause’ of adopting the non-Jewish religion, something countless Jews were PROUD to be “slaughtered like sheep” NOT to do. Those are our REAL Kedoshim and Giborim הכובש את יצרו, who we make a מי שברך for (right before you proudly make the מי שברך for the State envisioned by [Herzl] the ימח שמו וזכרו who, as per his own diary, wanted to bring כלל ישראל to convert to Catholicism, before he switched to nationalism, and later his children became משומדים without being forced.) A Jew (or Druze or Arab volunteer) who dies for Israel (only two-thirds of which is even located inside about half of “EY”) is not religiously different than an American soldier who dies for America (which is home to more Jews…)
אלא מאי, your problem isn’t with the spilling of Jewish blood. Your problem is with “helplessness”. With “like sheep to the slaughter” Something we proudly say in Davening as a זכות for us – ובכל זאת שמך לא שכחנו. The Zionists did the “best” job of להשכיחם שמך ever. But they didn’t like the sheep stuff… So they made up a new ethos of “no more sheep” and also no more ״שמך לא שכחנו״ Chas Veshalom. Why do you, and so many more RZ like you, who Daven every day, and say these words every Monday and Thursday, buy into a bogus ideology that says the exact opposite? Sounds a lot like the title of this thread [The Dissonance of Redemption], doesn’t it?
We are sheep for the slaughter and proud of it, as long as ובכל זאת שמך לא שכחנו. And if ח״ו someone DOES forget Hashem ר״ל, no amount of muscle and bravery makes him worthy of any sort of honor. Don’t even start building straw man arguments about “what if he dies protecting Jews”. Without Hashem, someone like that could easily kill Jews or send Jews to die in order to further the cause he believes in and is ready to die for. You know well that such things have actually happened. עד כאן Shimon Katz.
מכאן ואילך YYA:
As Shimon pointed out, there are two problems here. Number one is blaming Jewish suffering and death on “not having an army”. Before we even begin to discuss the actual Halacha and Hashkafa of what the Neviim and Chachamim have to say about this, let’s review a little history. At the time of the חורבן בית המקדש, both the First and the Second, there was a Jewish army. At the time of Churban Beitar – Bar Kochva there was a formidable army that even the Romans were freaked out by. That didn’t stop more than a million Jewish deaths in each of those episodes. More than were killed at any one time during the subsequent 1800 years that we didn’t have an army, except during the Holocaust. Not because they didn’t have muscles or weapons. Because the Ribbono Shel Olam decided not to let them win.
But we need not go there. There are literally hundreds of places in Tanach and Chazal, in the Siddur and in the Chumash, in Krias Shema and written on our Tefillin and Mezuzos, that teach us that Jewish suffering and bloodshed is NOT because of political or military factors, but because of aveiros. ומפני חטאינו גלינו מארצינו. Period. End of discussion. Or so it should be. As it happened, ZSK took great offense at this accusation of כפירה, and said:
(I haven’t violated any of the 13 principles, whether short or long version, or anything in any of Rambam’s writings)
OK. Let us assume לצורך העניין that we ONLY pasken like the Rambam. So be it. What about this:
הלכות תענית פרק א הלכה ג
מִצְוַת עֲשֵׂה מִן הַתּוֹרָה לִזְעֹק וּלְהָרִיעַ בַּחֲצוֹצְרוֹת עַל כָּל צָרָה שֶׁתָּבוֹא עַל הַצִּבּוּר. שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (במדבר י ט) “עַל הַצַּר הַצֹּרֵר אֶתְכֶם וַהֲרֵעֹתֶם בַּחֲצֹצְרוֹת”. כְּלוֹמַר כָּל דָּבָר שֶׁיָּצֵר לָכֶם כְּגוֹן בַּצֹּרֶת וְדֶבֶר וְאַרְבֶּה וְכַיּוֹצֵא בָּהֶן זַעֲקוּ עֲלֵיהֶן וְהָרִיעוּ:
וְדָבָר זֶה מִדַּרְכֵי הַתְּשׁוּבָה הוּא. שֶׁבִּזְמַן שֶׁתָּבוֹא צָרָה וְיִזְעֲקוּ עָלֶיהָ וְיָרִיעוּ יֵדְעוּ הַכּל שֶׁבִּגְלַל מַעֲשֵׂיהֶם הָרָעִים הוּרַע לָהֶן כַּכָּתוּב (ירמיה ה כה) “עֲוֹנוֹתֵיכֶם הִטּוּ” וְגוֹ’. וְזֶה הוּא שֶׁיִּגְרֹם לָהֶם לְהָסִיר הַצָּרָה מֵעֲלֵיהֶם:
אֲבָל אִם לֹא יִזְעֲקוּ וְלֹא יָרִיעוּ אֶלָּא יֹאמְרוּ דָּבָר זֶה מִמִּנְהַג הָעוֹלָם אֵרַע לָנוּ וְצָרָה זוֹ נִקְרָה נִקְרֵית. הֲרֵי זוֹ דֶּרֶךְ אַכְזָרִיּוּת וְגוֹרֶמֶת לָהֶם לְהִדַּבֵּק בְּמַעֲשֵׂיהֶם הָרָעִים. וְתוֹסִיף הַצָּרָה צָרוֹת אֲחֵרוֹת. הוּא שֶׁכָּתוּב בַּתּוֹרָה (ויקרא כו כז) “וַהֲלַכְתֶּם עִמִּי בְּקֶרִי” (ויקרא כו כח) “וְהָלַכְתִּי גַּם אֲנִי עִמָּכֶם בַּחֲמַת קֶרִי”. כְּלוֹמַר כְּשֶׁאָבִיא עֲלֵיכֶם צָרָה כְּדֵי שֶׁתָּשׁוּבוּ אִם תֹּאמְרוּ שֶׁהִיא קֶרִי אוֹסִיף לָכֶם חֲמַת אוֹתוֹ קֶרִי:Note that the pashut p’shat in the פסוק that the Rambam brings is referring to actual WAR ובבא מלחמה בארצכם על הצר וגו׳, the other things are learned through היקש. Note also that the Rambam is referring EVEN to a time when we had a real Halachic Jewish army and were allowed to and required to engage in combat. But if someone blames the war on political or military חשבונות, not on בגלל מעשיהם הרעים, then he is accused of cruelty and callousness and brings upon Klal Yisroel more problem ר״ל. The Rambam further says explicitly that if we attribute our problems to our aveiros הוא שיגרום להם להסיר הצרה מעליהם. If someone doesn’t BELIEVE in this (as opposed to someone who does believe, but does what he wants because of weakness), then he violates the sixth (belief in the words of Nevim, as in כי אם עוונותיכם i.e. ONLY עוונותיכם), seventh (belief in Toras Moshe in ALL OF ITS DETAILS), and eighth (the fidelity of the Mesorah that teaches us how to understand the Pesukim) Ikkarim like anyone who doesn’t accept EVEN ONE DETAIL of ANYTHING in the Torah (if he does it as a matter of principle and lack of belief, i.e. in this case because he subscribes to a different Torah called Zionism.)
I challenge anyone to come up with ANY source in כל התורה כולה that Jewish suffering and death is because we didn’t have an army. Hegel, Nietzsche and Jabotinsky are not acceptable sources…
Next sentence next problem:
ZSK: “To imply that there is no difference between a Jew dying as a helpless victim of a Cossack and a Jew dying as a soldier defending EY is an insult to the Kedoshim” עד כאן ZSK.
Please read Shimon Katz’s rebuttal of this, which is really just a tiny sampler of Chazal, and then please explain, from a purely Jewish standpoint, why there is anything honorable about ‘going down fighting’. Especially for a secular cause, as opposed to the “helpless sheep” who CHOSE to give their lives rather than accept a foreign religion.
Then, aside from Shimon’s questions, please address the following additional questions:
1. Is a Druze or Arab who “died as a soldier defending EY” also a קדוש? If not, why not? What about soldiers from Trump’s “Peace Force”? Does he need to be in IDF uniform like [להבדיל!] a Kohen needs to wear Bigdei Kehuna for the קדושה to be חל?
2. Correct me if I’m wrong, but ZSK seems to conflate “defending EY”, “defending the secular State of Israel”, and “defending Jews”, even though these are three separate things that may or may not coincide with each other (Venn diagram style.) Which of the three makes the soldier into a “Kadosh”? What about a Shomrim volunteer protecting Jews in Brooklyn? What about an Arab IDF soldier protecting a Bedouin settlement in the Negev inside Israel but outside Eretz Yisroel and with no Jews around? What about if the NK would establish a Chareidi Yishuv south of the Litani inside “EY” but outside Israel, and the Hezbollah would come to kill them, and they would go out in an ad-hoc posse with pitchforks etc. and one of them would be KIA ח״ו? Would he then be a קדוש because he “died defending EY”? Or does he have to be a ‘soldier’ לעיכובא?
Does anyone have any answers?
January 21, 2026 2:03 pm at 2:03 pm #2501990[email protected]ParticipantI’m certainly not on the side of any of the kefira or it’s supporters. Here are the normative Torah answers to your question:
1. (A) No,
1. (B) “Kudosh” in generally used to mean someone who fulfilled the mitzvah of dying “al kiddish Hashem”. Non-Jews are not commanded to die such a death, so they cannot called “Kudosh” in the normal usage.
1. (C) No
1. (D) Perhaps if his intent is to die in zionist clothing to show the world how evil zionism is, how it is a cult of death that loves jewish blood being spilt, etc, then you could say he needs the Nazi-IDF uniform to die his private (al kiddish Hashem) and be kudosh.2. (A) None.
2. (B) No
2. (C) No
2. (D) No
2. (E) No3.(A) Yes, see above 🙂
January 21, 2026 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm #2502038Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSomeJew – I wasn’t asking you… The other new thread is for you…
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502209anIsraeliYidParticipant@YYA – while I often disagree with you, I appreciate your civility and thoughtfulness in trying to truly understand the issues from more than one perspective. So, as to your questions:
1. A Druze who falls in battle defending Jews should be appreciated and valued, and I’m sure he receives his Sechar in the Olam haEmes. Whether or not he’s a “Kadosh” is a question with no specific practical ramifications – so I leave it to HKB”H to decide if he is or is not a Kadosh.
2. As noted above, there is no practical Halachic import to calling someone a Kadosh. That being said, the classic use of the term was someone who was killed because he was a Jew, or perhaps while defending Jews. How far this goes is debatable – one can reasonably hold that defending the existence of a Jewish state that itself protects Jewish lives, even if a specific act did not directly defend the lives of other Jews, is effectively indirectly defending the lives of Jews. Does that apply to non-Jews too? I don’t know – but it makes little practical difference. I definitely appreciate the Druze and Bedouin IDF soldiers who serve honorably and well in the IDF, a number of whom have given up their lives – that is basic Hakaras haTov, which all Jews should feel towards those who defend us. It is also important to express this to their respective communities and families – that, too, is basic.
As to other Jews who died defending Jewish lives – there is obviously no need for them to be soldiers to be considered Kedoshim. I can’t make a blanket statement that ALL of them are Kedoshim, the same way that I can’t make a categorical statement that all soldiers are Kedoshim – that is up to HKB”H. They could well be, though, depending on the circumstances.
an Israeli Yid
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502474DaMosheParticipantR’ Shlomo Zalman Auerbach famously said that the soldiers buried on Mt Herzl are kedoshim, and he advised his students to go daven there before the Yomim Noraim, instead of traveling to other areas.
YYA, you are also misunderstanding the words of davening. We are not proud to have been led like sheep to slaughter. If anything, that is a taaneh against Hashem (if such a thing can exist) – we are proud that we didn’t forget Him, despite having been led like sheep. We recognize that it came from Hashem, and even so, we still follow Him.
We have a mitzvah of v’Chai bahem, we are supposed to do everything we can to live. If others are trying to kill us, we have an obligation to defend ourselves. When it came to die or convert, that’s a yahereg v’al yaavor, so we give our lives – but if it’s not about giving up the Torah chas v’shalom, then we must do all we can to live.January 22, 2026 5:51 pm at 5:51 pm #2502640Yaakov Yosef AParticipantDaMoshe: “R’ Shlomo Zalman Auerbach famously said that the soldiers buried on Mt Herzl are kedoshim, and he advised his students to go daven there before the Yomim Noraim, instead of traveling to other areas.”
YYA: I have heard various versions of this quote, some more sensational than others. But I have never been able to track it down definitively to a reliable source. (Not automatically denying the possibility that he said this, or something resembling this, but suspicious.) Do you or anyone here know with certainty who heard him say that and in what context? Also, did Reb Shlomo Zalman זצ״ל himself or anyone close to him actually go there?
DaMoshe: “You are also misunderstanding the words of davening. We are not proud to have been led like sheep to slaughter. If anything, that is a taaneh against Hashem (if such a thing can exist) – we are proud that we didn’t forget Him, despite having been led like sheep. We recognize that it came from Hashem, and even so, we still follow Him.”
YYA: Agreeing that the main emphasis is on ובכל זאת שמך לא שכחנו, but we certainly aren’t ASHAMED that we were slaughtered. The entire ״טענה״ so to speak would also make no sense if we attributed our suffering to “not having an army.” You very correctly acknowledged this yourself in the last sentence: “We recognize that it came from Hashem, and even so, we still follow Him.”
We still are left with no Torah source for the idea that someone killed fighting is somehow more ‘honorable’ than someone ‘slaughtered like a sheep’, especially if the latter consciously chose to die for his Emunah in Hashem.
January 22, 2026 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm #2502645DaMosheParticipantYYA: I saw that Rabbi Yechiel Spero wrote the story, and he said he heard it from Rabbi Lau. I don’t know if it’s written in any seforim. I’ve heard it from a number of other places as well.
January 22, 2026 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm #2502647Yaakov Yosef AParticipantDaMoshe: “We have a mitzvah of v’Chai bahem, we are supposed to do everything we can to live. If others are trying to kill us, we have an obligation to defend ourselves. When it came to die or convert, that’s a yahereg v’al yaavor, so we give our lives – but if it’s not about giving up the Torah chas v’shalom, then we must do all we can to live.”
YYA: Obviously no one argues with that. But ייהרג ואל יעבור isn’t something shameful or reflective of weakness. It is seen as the ultimate strength of character. We lost the battle with the Romans at the Churban Bayis Sheini and the Bar Kochva Revolt, despite having a formidable Jewish army, but in the long run we beat them – because we stayed loyal to Hashem and His Torah. We are still here, and they are not. Long after our army was slaughtered like lions or like sheep or whatever, we watched without an army but with our seforim as the mighty Roman Empire crumbled to dust. So having an army didn’t always help us, but we still won in the long run without an army.
The real point of all of this is: Having an army is not a VALUE in Judaism. It is not a SOURCE OF NATIONALISTIC PRIDE. The most it can ever be, even if and when מותר, is just a necessary השתדלות for health and safety, like going to the toilet… That’s all. Everyone admits that using the toilet is absolutely essential on a פיקוח נפש level, one absolutely must interrupt learning or davening to answer the “call of duty”, we even make a Bracha to thank Hashem for helping us and saving us from potential danger, but no one writes songs or poems about the glory of moving ones bowels, or sees it as something glorious or Messianic or otherwise larger than life. Everyone also understands the need for gender-segregated bathrooms and armies.
January 22, 2026 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm #2502650ujmParticipantIt has always been the great desire of all righteous Jews to die Al Kiddush Hashem. Every righteous Jew hopes that when his time to leave this world comes, it comes about by him being killed for being a Jew.
January 22, 2026 8:01 pm at 8:01 pm #2502653Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAnIsraeliYid:
The classical definition of “Kadosh” in this context is someone who CHOSE to die in a genuine ייהרג ואל יעבור scenario. There are sources that extend it to include those killed specifically for being Jewish, even if not given a choice to renounce their Judaism. Defending Jews doesn’t have anything to do with it per se. Interestingly, it isn’t pashut at all that it is even PERMITTED to GIVE one’s life to defend another, or even a tzibur. It is permitted to RISK one’s life (ספק) to save others from ודאי danger, but to go on a literal ‘suicide mission’ or even ספק קרוב לוודאי danger is not pashut at all. None of this has anything to do with הכרת הטוב which is a completely different concept, and would certainly apply to ANYONE who did ANYTHING to help ANYONE. (My guess is that non-Jews who gave their lives to protect Jews are in a WAY better place in עולם הבא than the average עכו״ם, simply because אין הקדוש ברוך הוא מקפח שכר כל בריה, but that is not the same thing as a קדוש.)
So, what is the point of all of this? Because the concept of ‘Kadosh’ reflects a value statement. This is the pinnacle of our ideals. Like we say every day in Krias Shma בכל לבבך ובכל נפשך ובכל מאדך. As in: “What you are willing to die for defines what you live for.” For almost 3300 years every Jew said Shma twice a day and before going to sleep, and we knew what we are willing to die for – Hashem and his Torah. Secular Zionism sought to change the focal point of Jewish identity and values from “Hashem and his Torah” as in כי עם קדוש אתה להשם אלקיך, to a “nation state” as in France – French, Germany – Germans, Israel – Jews ח״ו. That is why there is a major problem when ‘defending a secular political entity’ (even when worded as ‘defending Jews’) is presented as replacing Hashem ח״ו at the top of the Kedushah pedestal.
There is much more to this subject, but this is the core of the Chareidi/Zionist divide.
January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502701yankel berelParticipantr shlomo zalman is also quoted as bitterly condemning the zionists in the forties as having innocent yiddish blit on their hands
the quote re the cemeteries you mentioned , even if true , should still be balanced with the quote mentioned above
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January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502702yankel berelParticipantyou rightfully approach the quote about r shlomo zalman and har herzl with a healthy dose of skepticism
but rav chaim shmulevits in his sichot mussar at the end clearly categorises fallen soldiers as harugei lud
that is black on white
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what do you think about that ?
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.January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502704[email protected]Participantthank you for highlighting and being adamant about the correct traditional Torah definition of “Kudosh”, as a specific choice a person makes to give up one’s life instead of rebelling against Hashem. That is indeed the baseline standard.
January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502705yankel berelParticipantYYA
sefer hasidim says that someone who dies while doing a mitsva is a kadosh
for sure if he is killed because he was doing a mitsva
January 23, 2026 10:13 am at 10:13 am #2502720Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA< a great summary of the debate. I am not sure why this is such a special topic, and not the issue of combining hishtadlus with relying on Hashem. Maybe an extreme one, but still not different.
Do you hesitate every time you need to go to a doctor – whether it is appropriate to address the issue or it is Hashem’s punishment for the crude words you posted in CR? Every time you run out of milk, do you hesitate going to the store because maybe it is because Zionists misinterpret eretz zavat halav udvash?
Why is there a contradiction between having a functioning military. Every Jewish king had, competitive to all neighbors – you focus on churban that happened every 400+ years. Do you realize that the army was required to keep BM operating for those 400 years?
Specifically, for Roman times – having a strong army did not work for many nations that were conquered by Roman. As the policy of the empire was to scare everyone from a rebellion while improving their economic life, they would be disproportionally cruel to occasional rebels: strong Judean army just caused for more legions to be collected from other parts of the empire. Presumably, Rabbonim understood that and advised against rebelling – not because they preferred Roman power or were pacificists, like you propose here, but because of Realpolitik: it was just not possible to rebel against such a strong empire.
January 23, 2026 10:13 am at 10:13 am #2502744DaMosheParticipantYYA: What’s your point? First, I never said that y’hareg v’al yaavor is a sign of weakness. The situation, if it arises, is just the reality. My point was that’s a case where we aren’t commanded to live. Although, if someone has a gun to your head, ordering you to commit one of those three sins, you’d be just fine halachically trying to kill him, as he has a status of a rodef.
As for the IDF, I agree it shouldn’t be a point of pride. It too is just the reality. Yes, the Jews as a nation survive long-term because we stay true to Hashem and the Torah. But we also must do our hishtadlus, and have an army to protect ourselves. Is that a point of pride? Maybe, from the perspective of doing a mitzvah. Do I feel pride every morning when I put on tefillin? Honestly, no, I don’t. Maybe I should. But I agree that it shouldn’t be a source of national pride – only religious pride.
Maybe the reason they push having pride in it is so that people will be more likely to serve in the IDF? They need people to support it in order to function – maybe it’s really just a means to an end?January 24, 2026 7:09 pm at 7:09 pm #2502833Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAre eating and drinking bad because there are so many gluttons and drunkards? Then, how come we have a brocha before and after? And it is not just an aveirah to enjoy the food you said brocha on.
As DoMoshe suggests, should you not have nahas when you put a tefilin? your child? grandchild? greatgrandchild? an Yid you found in Times Square?
Should you just ignore that you are part of a success masorah and taught someone else?What if you or your child became a brain surgeon? Developed Iron Dome? Used Iron Dome to protect batei midarshim from reshayim?
DaMoshe> Maybe the reason they push having pride in it is so that people will be more likely to serve in the IDF?
but also people who suggest ignoring all achievements have motivation that someone, H’V, will go serve in IDF?
January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502891Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel
Re. R’ Chaim Shmulevitz.
Thank you for the source. לכאורה the precedent of Harugei Lud comes to mind from a number of angles, including also the Halachic possibility of giving one’s own life to save the Tzibur (there is much more to the sugya ואכמ״ל). It would still require Emunah that there is a Metzaveh Who gave us the Mitzvah of saving others, not simply the regular duty of a soldier anywhere. Although from my experience far more “non-Frum” Israelis believe that (as a matter of Emunah, on some basic level) than somejew may think (קל וחומר RZ soldiers, despite other issues, the Harugei Lud themselves were not otherwise Tzadikkim, which is part of the Chiddush of the sugya.) What actually goes on in Shomayim only Hashem Himself knows. But none of this has anything to do with the concept of ‘pride’ because someone ‘went down fighting’, which is a completely Goyish concept that has no source in the Torah.
Re. Sefer Chassidim
That assumes he was in fact doing a Mitzvah. Doing battle in an actual Halachic army (i.e. Sanhedrin, Mashuach Milchamah, Urim VeTumim, etc.) is itself a Mitzvah regardless of outcome. Nowadays הלוואי it isn’t an Aveirah, and עוד פעם הלוואי that it actually saves Jewish lives instead of making the מצב worse… Many considerations go into the tactical decision making of the IDF other than achieving the best possible protection of Jewish lives with minimum losses, and they don’t usually ask the Urim VeTumim or the Neviim…
January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502892Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAAQ – Sorry, I should perhaps have spelled this out more clearly, but this thread is NOT about Bitachon and Hishtadlus. The topic here is whether it is heretical to claim that: “For 2,000 years, Jewish children were slaughtered like sheep BECAUSE [emphasis added] they didn’t have an army.” As opposed to everything on the subject of Jewish exile and suffering we ever received from the Chumash (Tochachah, Ha’azinu, etc.) Neviim (hundreds of pesukim all over) and Chachamim (Siddur, Gemara, Rambam, etc.) Also, the related question whether there is any shame in a Jew being “slaughtered like a sheep” IF AND WHEN that is the right thing for him to have done according to the Torah, and conversely, if there is any pride (from a Torah point of view) in “going down with a fight” as a value unto itself.
Parenthetically, I also pointed out that the second, third, and fourth biggest bloodbaths in Jewish history (two Churbanos and the Bar Koziva debacle) all took place when we DID have an army, because Hashem decided the army wouldn’t help us anymore. The mighty Russian Army didn’t stop the Nazis from killing 22,000,000 Russians (!), probably more than the total number of Jews killed during the entire 1800 years that there was no Jewish army. [Even someone who is a full fledged Kofer and believer in כחי ועוצם ידי only, still has to admit that an army can always be beaten by a stronger army, and there is no rational reason to believe that one particular small country with only one patron superpower will necessarily ALWAYS have the stronger army. Forever. Just because… So who’s to say there’s any guarantee that: “Never Again”TM.] Other than the real guarantee: והקדוש ברוך הוא מצילנו מידם
January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502893Yaakov Yosef AParticipantDaMoshe said: “Maybe the reason they push having pride in it is so that people will be more likely to serve in the IDF? They need people to support it in order to function – maybe it’s really just a means to an end?”
There is way more to it than that. The IDF (as the supreme Temple of Zionism) is a value system, a culture, and an entire ideology, that seeks to replace Judaism itself as the focus of Jewish identity. It is not just some glorified macro-version of Shomrim. There are those who would argue that the opposite of what you said is true – the purpose of the IDF is to bring “pride” to the Jewish people (לשיטתם). This was and is expressed again and again by the Zionist leaders themselves, and by the RZ, and is the direct source of statements such as “slaughtered like sheep” etc.
Regardless of whether it was even מותר at all, there certainly was never any חיוב to make an army, or a state for that matter, and the endless cycle of פיקוח נפש is a self-fulfilling prophecy. There was and is no need for a Jewish army to protect the Jews outside of Israel, and who asked anyone to concentrate 6,000,000 Jews in the Middle East behind electrified barbed wire (Israeli border) fences, while poking all of the bears in the neighborhood? So what do we do now? Good question, but not the subject of this thread.
January 25, 2026 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm #2503084Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA, I see. I think you are posing this false choice between bitachon and having an Army – maybe based on all the problems you describe with IDF. I am not certain to what degree these problems present themselves but I am sure they are there. So, I understand your emotional attitude.
I am only pointing out that a country requires an army, as much as it requires a police force and a tax authority, as much as a person requires a doctor and a hairdresser. You are not allowed to live in a city without a doctor. Similarly, it will be madness to live in a country without an army.
Doctors are often, and were often, not religious. There were also great doctors like in Taanis. “You go to the war with the army you have” (tm Rumsfeld). Jews had to serve in many armies in the world that are way worse than IDF. Yet, it is very zionist of you to demand more from a Jewish army than the Czar’s army, and I do not disagree.
But you do demonstrate that zionists were right in one aspect – you argue from the fact that Jews did not have an army for a long time. But were we ever in a situation where it was practical to have an army? There was, for example, a Jewish state in Yemen at some point – do you think it did not have an army? Take Khazar – did Kuzari advise him to discharge his army? when did we join Quakers and I missed that?
January 25, 2026 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm #2503101Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAAQ – I don’t know if you did or didn’t see my previous comment (that this is not about bitachon and hishtadlus) before posting your last comment (Are eating and drinking bad etc.) That being said:
This thread is also not about ruchniyus vs. gashmiyus either. You (actually not just you) seem to follow a line of thinking that ‘Chareidi’ is about ‘rejecting’ gashmiyus or hishtadlus (per se) due to fear of the modern world. This is not inherently part of the DEFINITION of ‘Chareidi’, even though it may RESULT to some extent from the different set of priorities and goals. Similar to saying that laxity in Mitzvah observance isn’t inherently part of the definition of MO or RZ, even though it may result to some extent from the different set of priorities and goals…
What ‘Chareidi’ is really about (and this thread is about) is that Torah and Mitzvos are the ONLY real תכלית החיים of the Jewish People, both on the national level and on the individual level. That is the ONLY thing to celebrate and the ONLY thing to be proud of. Everything else is at best a necessity, just like using the toilet is. Not ‘bad’, not ‘evil’, not ‘rejected’, just ‘something we need to do to in order to function, so that we can get back to our real goal of Torah and Mitzvos, which is the only reason we are here in this world.’ There is no inherent reason to be proud of the Iron Dome etc. more than there is to be proud of our bowel movements (which are more necessary, hopefully more reliable, and we even make a Bracha on them.) Actually, the Iron Dome is the hospital next to the bridge of Chelm… Before they made the Iron Dome they made the reasons we now need the Iron Dome… Which themselves were unnecessary… But that is a separate topic. Missile defense and brain surgery etc. are not the reason we are here in this world. If someone can use those things for parnassah, so fine.
This way of looking at things, which is basic Judaism 101, not a modern phenomenon at all, is not inherently a סתירה to working or eating or even fighting if necessary, but it completely changes the focus and the order of priorities, and ממילא results in different outcomes. This is as opposed to the view that sees the תכלית החיים to be Olam Hazeh, just subject to the restrictions of Halacha, i.e. to have the attitudes and priorities and values of a Goy, but to (hopefully) follow Shulchan Aruch.
January 25, 2026 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm #2503104yankel berelParticipantYYA
I hear all of your points
but re the mitsva or not of IDF’s activities
I do not have enough factual details about each and every military action to form a specific opinion whether it is or is not a mitysva
but … and that is very important … overall … without the present existence of the IDF , the present existence of millions of our brothers is in mortal danger
close your eyes and imagine that on october 8 the IDF would be totally out of action for two weeks …
what would have happened al pi derech hateva ….
you and I , and every honest and knowledgeable person do have enough factual details to come to that conclusion
rav chaim shmuelevits came to that very same conclusion too
that ‘s why he said what he said
does that mean that zionism is correct ?
chas veshalom
does that mean that they should have established a state ?
chas veshalom
does that mean that the IDF is blameless ?
chas veshalom
does that mean that yeshiva boys should enlist ?
Chas veshalom
does that mean that the IDF is not being used as a secular melting pot ?
for sure it is a secular melting pot
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are we so small minded that we cannot acknowledge the reality in front of us ??we can definitely withstand the false allure of zionism without negating clear pikuach nefesh reality
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.January 25, 2026 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm #2503174Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAgain, if it isn’t sufficiently clear yet – none of this is a סתירה to the concept of הכרת הטוב towards soldiers or anyone else. ‘הכרת הטוב’, ‘respect’, and ‘veneration’ are three separate concepts. A simple example – one can and should have הכרת הטוב towards President Donald Trump, independent of whether he deserves the other two items. But that isn’t the same attitude we have towards true קדושים, both those who die as Kedoshim and those who live as Kedoshim – i.e. those who we venerate as the pinnacle of our values and aspirations.
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503352DaMosheParticipantYYA: why do you say the IDF is the “supreme temple of Zionism”? It 100% is not. If I had to pick something to describe as the main element of Zionism, it’s Eretz Yisrael, and due to the religious aspect.
I’d love to see a frum government running things in Israel. I’m still a Zionist, even with that view.January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503364Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA> Torah and Mitzvos are the ONLY real תכלית החיים
Thanks for the clarification. You seem to be decoupling mitzvos from real life. So, giving maaser is a mitzva, but spending time protecting fellow Yidden is not? I understand from, for example, Ramban’s naval b’rshus Torah is that you can apply your mitzva approach to other areas that are not necessarily defined explicitly, at least in bein adam l’havero. And all gemoras and sifrei mussar, are you dsicarding them all also? In truth, I don’t think you personally hold by that, but I agree that this became a “party line”. It is clear why – because the anti-religious groups are highlighting and perverting those values and you want to oppose the chazerim.
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503373Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA, maybe directly related – Bava Kamma when discussing how to safely discard pieces of glass mentions 3 ways of becoming a chassid – nezikin, avos, brochos. So, I am listening to a visiting T’Ch discussing brochos, saying, as motivation: “as Gemora says you can become a chossid by learning brochos”.
There are like 30 yeshivishe T’Ch sitting in the room, all smiling and nodding. I was surprised not just by the partial gemora, but that nobody raised an eye and gave a thought about it. I was not sure whether my concern was appropriate – after all, this was not part of a halachik discourse, but a motivational piece and the discourse was about brochos. I did not want to embarrass the Rav in public and did not get a chance to ask in private, but I asked another senior yeshivishe rov. He understood my question and said – if you don’t know brochos and kashrus, you are not a Yid, but middos and nezikin not so … [of course, gemorah does not mean basic knowledge, but chasidut]. But I think this was an honest admission that the change of focus is due to desire keep students “Jewish”.I am actually stuck at this topic. I often go to R Soloveitchik’s writing for such haskafik issues, and I just saw in his hesped for a Torah Vadaas Rosh yeshiva who was a prominent chabadnik, he says that chassidus, and chabad especially, focus on teaching people saying brochos with right attitude – and also quotes same gemora in part….
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503377Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel – We don’t disagree on anything in this thread. As I tried to point out several times (and AAQ kept missing), this isn’t about Bitachon and Hishtadlus or about the practical necessity of having an army at this point “once we are already here by the bridge of Chelm” which we can no longer safely undo. My point was that in the best case scenario (when their actions are justified Halachicaly and do in fact prioritize Jewish lives over politics, a big “if” indeed) the actions of the IDF have the same status as using the toilet, which is clearly required by Halacha and failing to do so would clearly result in Pikuach Nefesh… But it isn’t anything to be PROUD of. That is the punch line. It also happens to be a historical fact that during the three biggest bloodbaths of Jews before the Holocaust, i.e. the two Churbonos and Bar Koziva/Beitar, we DID have an Army. We also had an army on October 7, which didn’t prevent the biggest bloodbath of Jews AFTER the Holocaust either… So forgive me for not putting too much faith in the IDF. Do you think, על פי דרך הטבע, that it makes any sense to think that the situation in Israel is permanently tenable? America is losing its way on many fronts, and there is no guarantee that it will always be there for Israel. There are already three Muslim states with nuclear weapons – France, the UK, and Pakistan… Turkey and Qatar are waiting to replace Iran as patrons of terror. So in the long run, the whole gesheft makes no sense. The only thing we can really rely on is והיא שעמדה לאבותינו ולנו… והקדוש ברוך הוא מצילנו מידם. With or without a State, an Army, or Donald Trump. אין לנו על מי להישען אלא על אבינו שבשמים.
January 25, 2026 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm #2503444mdd1ParticipantYYA, the Rambam paskens that a Melech Yisroel is allowed with a premission of Sanhedrin to go to a war of reshus.
An example of such a war is Dovid Ha’Melech’s war on Ammon which was declared because the king of Ammon gravely insulted and expelled Jewish diplomats. I suppose for the kingdom of Israel being publicly pushed around is enough of a reason to go to war. See anything about “dying with honor”?January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503495yankel berelParticipantYYA:
We also had an army on October 7, which didn’t prevent the biggest bloodbath of Jews AFTER the Holocaust either…
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I take issue with that oft repeated statement by many people
I find this statement to be utterly baseless
WRT to the korbanot who died , this is correct
but WRT to the millions saved , this is incorrect
imagine the attack of 7 october … WITH NO IDF at all …. who would stop those barbarians al pi derech hateva ???
what number lo aleinu would you realistically put on the korbanot in such a case ?
who exactly would stand in their way ???
lemaaseh — it was the IDF who bsd stopped them
this is the fact of the matter
so the IDF failed [begzerat elyon] in protecting one thousand people but succeeded [bsd] to protect millions …
in a rough estimation this is about one in ten thousand – meaning for every 99.999 of people who were protected – one was not
you are right to consider this a failure because we do have super high standards — even one person is an olam maleih
but when you compare the existence of the IDF versus its non existence …
the difference is simply staggering
————————–the second bone I have to pick with you is the comparison of the necessity of moving one’s bowels with the necessity of the IDF
chevrat hatsala … is that also similar to moving one’s bowels ? ….. both are ‘necessary’ …..
why is the hatsala part of the IDF not similar to ….. hatsala
both are mitsvot … or not ?
the only point which I would grant you … is that the IDF is not only engaged with hatsala actions whereas the chevrat hatsala is
You are correct the IDF is engaging in many averot too
which should not be whitewashed
but the hatsala part is still a mitsva — no less than the activities of chevrat hatsala
as much similar to moving the bowels as the chevrat hatsala’s activities are ….
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503497yankel berelParticipantYYA
Le’hisha’en — only on avinu in heaven
totally agree
but closing up shop as you say …. the ‘gesheft makes no sense’ ….. is equal to …. inviting clear mass pikuach nefesh
permanently tenable or not tenable … is language to be used only when discounting the RBSHO chvsh
rabenu yonah [shar gimmel] writes that the hiyuv of bitachon includes the ‘carrying of yeshuat hashem belevavo’
the same One who carried the jews in EY in His embrace for the last 80 years in the face of overwhelming odds
can … and will …. continue to carry them , so whether some countries do or do not have nuclear weapons is really irrelevant to the final outcome
those odds were not considered any more ‘tenable’ at the time
and nevertheless the fact is that the jews in EY were zoche to shmira from above
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.our job is as follows :
we have to act according to the torah which commands us to do everything possible to minimize pikuach nefesh
which renders the hatsala actions of the IDF into a mitsva — equal to the actions of chevrat hatsala
closing up shop is clear mass pikuach nefesh … and clearly prohibited al pi torah ….
and even talk of closing up shop seems to me to be alul to pikuach nefesh … and therefore against the torah ….
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.January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503500Yaakov Yosef AParticipantmdd1 – Did you read the Perek (שמואל ב י) inside, or are you shooting from the hip? Look at Posuk 6 for who started that war…
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503507Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAAQ – When we use the phrase ‘Torah and Mitzvos’ it includes every aspect of Yiddishkeit, including the ‘fifth Shulchan Aruch’ and certainly including Middos and בין אדם לחברו (which actually involve multiple דאורייתא level Mitzvos). That’s why we say ‘Torah’ and not just ‘Mitzvos’, i.e. everything the Torah teaches us, including ‘between the lines’. I am not a spokesman for any particular group, so I am not toeing anyone’s party line. You keep on repeating your personal line (which actually comes from the second generation Maskilim) that sees ‘Chareidism’ (for lack of a better word) as a modern phenomenon created to counter Haskalah yada yada… which decouples from the world yada yada… I am growing tired of explaining again and again the fallacy of this view. So I will cut and paste my previous comment, with slight changes on emphasis, to help you understand what is actually being said and what is not. Please remember that ‘Torah and Mitzvos’ includes Middos and Bein Adam Lachavero also:
What ‘Chareidi’ is really about (and this thread is about) is that Torah and Mitzvos are the only real תכלית החיים of the Jewish People, both on the national level and on the individual level. That is the only thing to CELEBRATE and the only thing to be PROUD of. Everything else is at best a NECESSITY, just like using the toilet is…
***Not ‘bad’, not ‘evil’, not ‘rejected’, just ‘something we need to do to in order to function, so that we can get back to our real goal of Torah and Mitzvos, which is the only reason we are here in this world.’***
***Missile defense and brain surgery etc. are not the REASON we are here in this world. If someone can use those things for parnassah, so FINE.***
This WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS, ***which is basic Judaism 101, not a modern phenomenon at all***, is NOT INHERENTLY a סתירה to working or eating or even fighting if necessary, but it completely ***!!!CHANGES THE FOCUS AND THE ORDER OF PRIORITIES!!!***, and ממילא results in different outcomes. [This part just mentioned is the whole point. The reason Chareidim aren’t מחשיב certain things that MO or RZ are, and vice-versa, and therefore SEEM to be insensitive etc., is not ‘rejection לשם rejection’, but the result of having different priorities and values.
This is as opposed to the view that sees the תכלית החיים to be Olam Hazeh, just subject to the restrictions of Halacha, i.e. to have the attitudes and priorities and values of a Goy, but to (hopefully) follow Shulchan Aruch. [Which is the real meaning of נבל ברשות התורה. ‘Naval’ means what the Torah considers ‘נבל’, not what the New York Times or the Knesset or the peanut gallery considers ‘נבל’. Read the famous Ramban at the beginning of Parshas Kedoshim and you will immediately see that is the Pshat.]
In other words, the ‘Chareidi’ stuff so many people despise is actually the קדושים תהיו of the Ramban, not a modern rejectionist phenomenon yada yada. I.e. the ‘Fifth Shulchan Aruch’. But that doesn’t guarantee that it will look the way you would like it to look, because the values and priorities are different than (some) of yours.
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503546Yaakov Yosef AParticipantmdd1 said: “the Rambam paskens that a Melech Yisroel is allowed with a premission of Sanhedrin to go to a war of reshus.”
1. Melech Yisroel (The next one will be Moshiach.)
2. Permission of Sanhedrin (Who sat in the Sanhedrin? Chilonim?)
3. Urim VeTumim (Mentioned in Gemara.)Basically permission of the Ribbono Shel Olam Himself, so what’s the problem? Fighting under such conditions is a Mitzvas Aseh like wearing Tefillin. Nothing necessarily even to do with Pikuach Nefesh. Even if Israel would operate as a completely Halachic state, none of this is remotely relevant nowadays.
As it happens, Dovid HaMelech never went to war for fun and profit like the ancient Gentile kings constantly did. All of the campaigns described in Sefer Shmuel fit a pattern of “cleaning up the neighborhood” and subduing hostile elements. He also conquered Syria to create a “security buffer zone” to the north… None of this has anything to do with ‘honor’ and certainly not “dying with honor”. The war you referenced with Ammon was started by Ammon… Read the Pesukim.
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503548Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAAQ said: “I asked another senior yeshivishe rov. He understood my question and said – if you don’t know brochos and kashrus, you are not a Yid, but middos and nezikin not so …”
Whoa, that is not good… I never heard anything remotely close to that expressed by my Roshei Yeshiva. “Not knowing Nezikin”, as in Dinei Mamonos in the basic practical sense, can easily result in violation of multiple issurim d’oraysa without flinching. Something many Mussar works point out. Brachos are very important and are a constant reminder of our relationship with Hashem, but on the technical ‘scale’ so to speak they are d’rabbonon. (Actually מילי דברכות means מסכת ברכות which includes Krias Shma and Bentching also, as well as Tefillah.) As for writing off Middos as ‘extra credit’, it is impossible to truly keep anything of the Torah, even בין אדם למקום, without Middos. If someone can’t have a normal relationship with people who he can see and (hopefully) empathize with, how can he have a real relationship with Hakadosh Baruch Hu? Check out Toras Avigdor (Marsha’s Vayeshev of this year – Ladder of Loyalty) for an excellent discussion of this.
WRT the first Rov/Maggid Shiur, since the topic at hand was Brachos, so he stayed on topic. The second Rov שרי ליה מאריה.
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503566Yaakov Yosef AParticipantDaMoshe said: “why do you say the IDF is the “supreme temple of Zionism”?
YYA: Because it is the focal point of their value system (to the point of being what some call a ‘secular religion’). As in “Jewish Pride”TM, “Never Again”TM, etc. Just look at what some RZ write about the IDF in nearly Messianic terms (maybe not just ‘nearly’). “Dying al kedushas IDF” is to them what dying for one’s Judaism is for us.
DaMoshe said “If I had to pick something to describe as the main element of Zionism, it’s Eretz Yisrael, and due to the religious aspect.”
YYA: Because Zionism originated as a religious movement… Yearning for the Kedusha of Uganda… Love for Eretz Yisroel has nothing to do with Zionism. I moved here and I am not a Zionist. The fact that ex post facto the RZ read into Zionism “good כוונות” that weren’t really there doesn’t change reality.
DaMoshe said: I’d love to see a frum government running things in Israel. I’m still a Zionist, even with that view.”
YYA: I agree that those two statements need not contradict each other.
January 26, 2026 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm #2503661Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel said: “imagine the attack of 7 october … WITH NO IDF at all …. who would stop those barbarians al pi derech hateva ???”
Without Israel or Zionism there would be no REASON for the attack in the first place… The arsonist firefighter…
Will post more IY”H later.
January 26, 2026 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm #2503771[email protected]Participantlol. you continue to embarrass your church and your fake god.
if there was no zionism, there WOULDN’T HAVE BEEN an Oct 7!Your silly logic is that despite the clear punishment (as explicit in chazal), you demand MORE ZIONISM! Just like pharaoh (maybe worse!)
Using your logic, you would say such insights like “if not for the nazi guards, can you imagine how much WORSE the germans would have treaded the Jews in Auschwitz?!!”
“Sure”, you say, “they failed to protect 6 million”, but they SAVED the other 12 MILLION!!”Yet your avoda zureh is more precious than the lives of your own children as you keep sending your boys off to die for that fake religion you call “dati leumi”. Those boys die making the greatest chilil Hashem, making religious zionists around the world proud, R”L.
January 26, 2026 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm #2503845Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel said: “but closing up shop as you say …. the ‘gesheft makes no sense’ ….. is equal to …. inviting clear mass pikuach nefesh permanently tenable or not tenable … is language to be used only when discounting the RBSHO chvsh rabenu yonah [shar gimmel] writes that the hiyuv of bitachon includes the ‘carrying of yeshuat hashem belevavo’
YYA: Seriously, do you think that Bibi et al “carry Yeshuas Hashem bilvavo”? So what are they thinking? Do they even think they have a long term strategy of any kind? We obviously do not discount the Ribbono Shel Olam ח״ו. They do. So how on Earth do they think the IDF will protect Israel forever?
This is not a thread about “dismantling Israel” or the IDF, or what Israel’s military strategy should be. I don’t see any point in discussing those issues, because no one asks us our opinion anyway. What this thread is about, which is very נוגע to us (to avoid), is the culture of lionizing the IDF and ‘sheepizing’ the real Kedoshim of all the generations (as well as the misguided set of priorities and values that leads to such an attitude.) Which is the core of Zionism. The attitude that “Jews were slaughtered like sheep because they didn’t have an army yada yada.” Something that is not only כפירה גמורה, but is also wrong במציאות too.
Israel (via the IDF) usually does an OK job of cleaning up its own mess, or putting out the fires that it started, or whatever mashal you want to use, minus 20,000 or so Jewish lives lost over the last 78 years. Vastly more Jews than were killed EVERYWHERE ELSE PUT TOGETHER over the same period of time. Contrary to popular belief, there were many 78 year intervals during the Tekufah that we didn’t have an army when fewer Jews were killed. So מה הועילו חכמי חעלם בתקנתם? Can we safely disband the IDF now that we’re stuck here? No, we cannot. Are the poor kids sent to be cannon fodder possibly to save Jews and possibly to keep Bibi in office or other considerations doing a Mitzvah? Maybe. But they are dead. Why is this idiotic מצב anything to be proud of?
Yankel Berel said: “the same One who carried the jews in EY in His embrace for the last 80 years in the face of overwhelming odds can … and will …. continue to carry them , so whether some countries do or do not have nuclear weapons is really irrelevant to the final outcome”
YYA: I don’t understand your thinking. ממה נפשך – If you aren’t a Zionist, so what changed 80 years ago? Before then Hashem didn’t carry the Jews in His embrace? Yes EVEN DURING THE HOLOCAUST. More on that in the next paragraph. So what did the IDF or Israel in general add to the equation? For the secular who don’t rely on Hashem’s embrace, only on the IDF, then it takkeh does make no sense… So what are they thinking?
As for the Holocaust, the IDF would have done no good whatsoever. More SOLDIERS were KILLED fighting the Nazis than the TOTAL NUMBER of IDF soldiers who ever existed, even if the soldiers from ’48 would still be alive and combat ready today… 6,000,000 MORE Russians (22,000,000!) were killed in WWII than the entire Jewish population of the world at the time. It is a joke to think that the IDF could have stood up to the Nazis. Pathetic non-starter. If a nation with the scientific, technological, financial, and manpower resources of Germany would want to eliminate Israel and only the IDF would be in its way, על פי דרך הטבע the odds would not be good.
So, bottom line: Israel will do whatever they do. The IDF will do whatever they do. No one is closing up shop or trying to do so. The poor kids slaughtered like sheep usually succeed in temporarily ‘mowing the grass’ and hopefully at least get a Mitzvah. Those who are still alive to thank we do thank. The Israeli leadership past and present get absolutely zero credit for ‘saving’ Klal Yisroel. This whole bloody mess is nothing to be proud of. I sit together with six million Jews between electrified barbed wire fences and the Mediterranean Sea and yes, indeed, אין לנו על מי להישען אלא על אבינו שבשמים. And I am very proud to be part of the עם השם who keep the chain of קבלת התורה going, and I hope all Jews everywhere will also “share the burden” and get with the Ribbono Shel Olam’s program. במהרה בימינו אמן.
January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503936Yaakov Yosef AParticipantFar more Goyim were killed by the Nazis than Jews, despite their countries having armies.
January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503940yankel berelParticipantyou misunderstood my position
you go on and on about arsonists and firefighters
and about bibi thinking of yeshuat hashem
and none of this is relevant at all to the issue I raise
which is the refusal in principle of taking pikuach nefesh into account in the halachik decision making process
and the danger of talk about closing shop
bibi is extremely far from a tsadiq and the IDF even worse and has veshalom that the haredi boys should be drafted
and the medina should not be glorified
totally agree to all of that
the issue was whether the mehaber and rama in YD clearly mandate to include p/n considerations into our calculations
and whether in other halachik areas we also use similar processes to arrive at conclusions
all the rest is hot air , not relevant to the issue raised
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.January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503943mdd1ParticipantYYA, are you thinking or just shooting from the hip? Stop being so self-assured. I was talking about the Hashkofic reasons for going to war.
Anyhow, the war was actually started by the Jews. The beginning of the fighting happened “at the opening of the city” of Rabbat of Ammon. Or nearby – according to Divrei Ha’Yomim.
Btw, you were also this way self-assuredly wrong about the money for Keren Ha’Torah.January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503947Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA> ‘Torah and Mitzvos’ it includes every aspect of Yiddishkeit, including the ‘fifth Shulchan Aruch’ and certainly including Middos and בין אדם לחברו
exactly, I did not doubt that you hold by this.
> just ‘something we need to do to in order to function,
I think I know where you are going, but I don’t fully agree, maybe needs to be re-phrased. Hashem created all these interesting things around us – surely, not for us to ignore, but to apply our Torah approach to the world. While I agree with your “accusation” that I am repeating my own opinion on Charedism, I found a similar view in R Soloveitchik in 1950s: ,if we claim to have knowledge of the world from Hashem, then we should not be hiding in the caves, but rather engage with the world. I don’t think this view negates the value of Charedi approach in providing a “safe space” for myriads of Yidden to be saved from modern dangers. My only concern is that the system created for survival does not substitute for Judaism. There is only one Am Yistoel with one Torah and we can’t get it wrong.
January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503948Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA> Missile defense and brain surgery etc. are not the REASON we are here in this world.
How do you explain pages of Gemorah explaining medical cures and safe travel instructions? Was it to provide medical parnosah to students or because the rabonim genuinely cared for their health? about being careful how you dispose glass pieces? about tzadik (or tzadekes?) that provide shovels for funerals? [yes, it says that learning gets bigger zechut].
Do you think developing missile defense or brain surgery are less of a chesed? Just try to disassociate this from zionism or secularism of colleges and look at the issue itself.
January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503964Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA> I never heard anything remotely close to that expressed by my Roshei Yeshiva. …
RY tried to explain why the other speaker allowed himself quote 1/3 of the gemorah, he definitely does not hold by not learning nezikin – and that is why I asked him. I probably posted this a couple of years ago – there was a speaker talking about halochos in business, with listeners charedi baalei batim, not T’Ch like at the talk we are discussing. And he was very strict on kashrus and yichud but very meikel on business ethics. I did not feel like starting an argument, so I contemplated getting up and leaving in a way that people understand why I did this. Here, the RY above, sitting in the first row, started shouting “genevah, genevah” …. When I asked the speaker later in private – his take was that yichud and such can lead to irreversible tragedies, comparing with limited damage from nezikin [I am not commenting]
> [speaker] since the topic at hand was Brachos, so he stayed on topic.
Right, this is why I am asking people how much big a deal it is. I still think it is a sign that attitudes are unbalanced. And also my observation that none of the T’Ch in the room – and their like 20-30 very learned people there – paid any attention. I looked at everyone.
January 26, 2026 7:45 pm at 7:45 pm #2503970Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA> Which is the core of Zionism. The attitude that “Jews were slaughtered like sheep because they didn’t have an army yada yada.”
absolutely, but we also should not go to another extreme and denigrate something just because anti-religious people started it. If you find common positions with Israelis who are not charedim but are observant, or traditional, or even non-religious but not anti-religious, then those remaining anti-religious attitudes will be marginalized. These are not 1950s any more.
January 27, 2026 10:09 am at 10:09 am #2504169Yaakov Yosef AParticipantmdd1 Re. War with Ammon:
I wasn’t self-assured that I remembered the exact sequence of events, so I opened up Sefer Shmuel and checked. Thank you for referring me to Divrei Hayamim. I checked there (DH 1, perek 19, posuk 8) and although there are some additional details, the Jewish attack is clearly framed as a preemptive response to Ammon mobilizing their forces for an attack. Which says something about Dovid HaMelech’s military strategy, but is not an example of “fighting for honor”. Aside from the fact that when a new head of state (Chanun ben Nachash) takes charge of the country next door (which had an on and off history of hostility that continues down to today), and the first diplomatic delegation sent to him is physically assaulted and abused, that says something about his intentions more than simply being an affront to “honor”. We see that Dovid HaMelech was not averse to staging a preemptive strike when he held it was necessary.
WRT Keren HaTorah, is that my personal kovod that you accuse me of being “self assured”? I am assured that Hashem will not abandon the Yeshivos, who are the home of some of His most loyal Yidden, who deserve to be assured more than me. If the support will come from this campaign or the next one or from some other source, is for Hashem to take care of. Don’t worry, the Yeshivos aren’t going anywhere.
January 27, 2026 10:09 am at 10:09 am #2504170Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel:
First of all, thank you for clarifying your point. You started off asking about pshat in the Maharal according to the ויואל משה, so forgive me for misunderstanding where you were going.
You, me, and everyone on YWN are not part of any “decision making process” WRT the future of Israel and the IDF. So we don’t need to “make decisions” on that subject based on Pikuach Nefesh or anything else. We do need to make decisions about our own Hashkafah and behavior, which is why I focused on the Hashkafah aspect as opposed to the practical aspect of what Israel should do. לכאורה the IDF isn’t going anywhere in the immediate future, unless it gets replaced by the army of Moshiach.
That being said, הלוואי the people who do make decisions for the IDF should keep פיקוח נפש of Jews at the top of their list of priorities. Not politics, not honor, and not risking living soldiers to ‘rescue’ dead soldiers.
January 27, 2026 10:09 am at 10:09 am #2504174Yaakov Yosef AParticipantAAQ said “absolutely, but we also should not go to another extreme and denigrate something just because anti-religious people started it.”
YYA: The problem with Zionism is not simply that “anti-religious people started it”.
AAQ: “If you find common positions with Israelis who are not charedim but are observant, or traditional, or even non-religious but not anti-religious, then those remaining anti-religious attitudes will be marginalized. These are not 1950s any more.”
Absolutely true. But there are certain lines that cannot be crossed.
AAQ: “When I asked the speaker later in private – his take was that yichud and such can lead to irreversible tragedies, comparing with limited damage from nezikin [I am not commenting]”
YYA: He does have a point… That isn’t a reason not to learn and be careful with דיני ממונות or הלכות שבת. Just a reason to be extra careful with הלכות יחוד, something many Rabbonim have pointed out.
AAQ: “How do you explain pages of Gemorah explaining medical cures and safe travel instructions? Was it to provide medical parnosah to students or because the rabonim genuinely cared for their health? about being careful how you dispose glass pieces? about tzadik (or tzadekes?) that provide shovels for funerals? [yes, it says that learning gets bigger zechut].”
YYA: You correctly answer your own question. Being careful with all of these things is part of what the Torah teaches us. That is part of גמילות חסדים which is one of the pillars of the world and a big part of Torah itself. As the Ba’al HaTanya and Reb Yisroel Salanter are both quoted as saying: “Someone else’s גשמיות is my רוחניות.” You don’t need to spend 10 years of your life on medical school and residency and specialization etc. in order to do Chessed.
AAQ: “Do you think developing missile defense or brain surgery are less of a chesed? Just try to disassociate this from zionism or secularism of colleges and look at the issue itself.”
YYA: Potentially these things could be chessed, and someone who for whatever reason chose that career path could do his work with genuine כוונה to do chessed (which would certainly make him a better doctor, maybe even a better missile defense contractor). We could disassociate this from Zionism and secularism, but not from college… In the case of the brain surgeon, huge amounts of college. You don’t need to go to college in order to do chessed. And there are plenty of Goyim out there who are surgeons or missile designers etc. If Israel will become so Chareidi that they will need davka Chareidi surgeons for lack of any others, then long before that the colleges will be cleaned out from shmutz… More likely Moshiach will come first and ועמדו זרים ורעו צאנכם.
AAQ: “I think I know where you are going, but I don’t fully agree, maybe needs to be re-phrased. Hashem created all these interesting things around us – surely, not for us to ignore, but to apply our Torah approach to the world. While I agree with your “accusation” that I am repeating my own opinion on Charedism, I found a similar view in R Soloveitchik in 1950s: ,if we claim to have knowledge of the world from Hashem, then we should not be hiding in the caves, but rather engage with the world.”
YYA: Simply being alive in a physical body with physical needs and having a wife and kids and supporting them etc. (without davka going to medical school for 10 years) is enough “engaging with the world” to be יוצא according to the Torah.
January 27, 2026 10:09 am at 10:09 am #2504192yankel berelParticipantYYA
Hope it is clear to you that I am not a zionist , nor should the medina be considered a lechathila
the issues I raised , are totally separate and very clear :
1] is p/n an issue now ?
only a fool or a dishonest person would answer with a no
2] is the existence of the IDF versus its non existence, ameliorating p/n in the present situation ?
I cant see a way out here – picture both scenario’s and we end up with a choice between a bedieved versus a literal catastrophe chvsh
3] is p/n doche even the most machmir explanation of the shavu’ot — according the normal halacha formulation process ?
again I cant see a way out — in a normal reading of poskim and SH’A YD 157 it is clear that p/n is docheh the shavu’ot
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.so in cold and dry halachic decision it follows that the IDF is mandated to fight in protection of the people in EY
this halacha does not change because the tsidkut or rish’ut of the PM or the army brass or the SC
nor does it change because of the grandfathers of present tsionim were arsonists
nor does it change because the tsioni leadership nowadays are arsonists
p/n is p/n
rav michoel ber weissmandel zatsal organised his hatsala comittee in slovakia in conjunction with a prominent zionist lady called gisi fleishman
rav weismandel had plenty to say about the zionists , I can assure you
nevertheless he collaborated
with a zionist ….
because of p/n
so why is IDF’s hatsala activity , treif across the board ?
again , a haredi bachur has no place in the IDF
but that is a total separate issue
Where am I going wrong in my logic ?
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