why do girl/boys blush at the opposite gender?

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    Is it immature to blush at the opposite gender??

    #806169
    Toi
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    no

    #806170
    i said so
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    i think it is immature but its normal for what we have been brought up in the frum community

    #806171
    popa_bar_abba
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    What does “immature” mean?

    #806172
    deiyezooger
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    ??????, ?????? ????? ?????

    Having the middah of bushah should be a source of pride and not a sign of immaturity.

    #806173
    Poster
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    You only blush before you get married, while opposite genders are a novelty.

    #806174

    Firstly, blushing is an involuntary reaction, you have no control over it much like reflexes, blinking, or sneezing or the hiccups…

    On top of that the first time boys and girls interact is on a shidduch date…how can they not blush from nervousness….

    So NO, it is absolutly not Immature to do so….

    #806175
    skiaddict
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    myrabbi once told me that the reason Hashem made it that opposite genders will blush one reason is that they will b embarrassed to do stupid things because they will end up blushing- i know that doesnt always work but he said that its a gift from Hashem when you are like that because it stops you from flirting etc

    #806176
    reba
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    Oh, the gift of blushing – it is so embarrassing – mostly because everyone finds a need to comment and tell you you look cute. Thank the l-rd I grew out of that – age toughens you up. Now instead of blushing I just get defensive.

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