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Is it immature to blush at the opposite gender??
no
i think it is immature but its normal for what we have been brought up in the frum community
What does “immature” mean?
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Having the middah of bushah should be a source of pride and not a sign of immaturity.
You only blush before you get married, while opposite genders are a novelty.
Firstly, blushing is an involuntary reaction, you have no control over it much like reflexes, blinking, or sneezing or the hiccups…
On top of that the first time boys and girls interact is on a shidduch date…how can they not blush from nervousness….
So NO, it is absolutly not Immature to do so….
myrabbi once told me that the reason Hashem made it that opposite genders will blush one reason is that they will b embarrassed to do stupid things because they will end up blushing- i know that doesnt always work but he said that its a gift from Hashem when you are like that because it stops you from flirting etc
Oh, the gift of blushing – it is so embarrassing – mostly because everyone finds a need to comment and tell you you look cute. Thank the l-rd I grew out of that – age toughens you up. Now instead of blushing I just get defensive.
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