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February 23, 2017 3:14 am at 3:14 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220639
You Really need a mentor to guide you on these things. The questions you are asking can’t be properly answered by people that don’t know you.
Either way, without knowing you, My opinion is, if you don’t feel comfortable with him now-when you haven’t even committed to each other- Just think about down the line. Do you think that he will be a good and respectful husband. If you’re not sure, the he isnt for you. You need to make sure that you will be happy in life. Don’t settle just because you want to be married alreadyFebruary 23, 2017 2:54 am at 2:54 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220636
Reb shidduch. There is an amazing shadchan in the monsey area. Her last name is Lehrman. Get her number and get in touch with her. I think she can Really help
Yichusdik- I was not asking for myself and I was not asking for a psak. I just wanted to know peoples thoughts on the matter. Personally i think there is an issue with the tznius aspect. A few of the usernames give away the gender of the people behind them. I can bet that plenty of people on chat rooms- sorry- forums get a kick out of corresponding with the other gender. And of course someone will tell me that i shouldnt be on here- i’m not saying i have an issue with it, i just want to hear peoples opinions. i think its something for the more frum ones of us to think about.