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  • in reply to: Shidduch crisis affecting bochurim #1551809
    Atl123
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    I’m with WHITECAR on this

    in reply to: Shidduch crisis affecting bochurim #1546285
    Atl123
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    RebYidd23 ,the discussion isn’t about what type of work. It’s about the whole idea of working bochrim and shidduchm.

    in reply to: Shidduch crisis affecting bochurim #1542700
    Atl123
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    Why is a smart phone with a filter a contradiction to being erlich??

    in reply to: Shidduch crisis affecting bochurim #1542228
    Atl123
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    I don’t think that’s true because I could think of 8 boys that are working and Erlich , off the top of my head.

    Atl123
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    I think there’s a stigma against working bochrim, Which must be changed. There are plenty of working bochrim who learn everyday and have great middos, but girls won’t look at them because they’re not learning full time.
    On the other hand there are plenty of boys who are not cut out for learning full time, but they are scared to go to work because of “shidduchm”. So they stay in yeshiva/kollel (the coffee room……) for a bunch of years doing nothing .
    If girls, parents and shadchanim will only recognize that not everyone is cut out for learning full time. And there are many boys who are working who learn everyday and have great middos. There will be a lot more boys available. And a lot more shidduchm.

    in reply to: Shidduch crisis affecting bochurim #1540701
    Atl123
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    I think there’s a stigma against working bochrim, Which must be changed. There are plenty of working bochrim who learn everyday and have great middos, but girls won’t look at them because they’re not learning full time.
    On the other hand there are plenty of boys who are not cut out for learning full time, but they are scared to go to work because of “shidduchm”. So they stay in yeshiva/kollel (the coffee room……) for a bunch of years doing nothing .
    If girls, parents and shadchanim will only recognize that not everyone is cut out for learning full time. And there are many boys who are working who learn everyday and have great middos. There will be a lot more boys available. And a lot more shidduchm.

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