okay, so NOBODY amongst you has ever heard of someone adding 2 oil lamps for Shabbos? I was told it is specifically for the zchus of the parents in the house…Any of you know the source on this? (By the way, I check around and all the gal’s in my study groups lite one extra for each child. One was told by a rav that their is no issur on adding candles.)
I would really like to know the source of this minhag I’ve heard about only lately, that ladies are lighting 2 oil lamps in addition to whatever candles they’ve always lit. We would also like to do this, I think it would be a wonderful addition to our Shabbos atmosphere. However, I would like to know the source…
Thanks!