BASESTHER

A person should go out of his comfort zone in order to chesed. Divorced women have very lonely Shabbosos. And if they have children, they crave having a shabbos table to enjoy. YOu don’t have to do this chesed every week. Set aside time for yourself occasionally for having family only Shabbos seudas, and at other times host graciously with the happiness and bounty H-shem has blessed you with. And be grateful to your spouse for being kind and loving to you and others.