cmon

“chances are ateres is not as accepting if u would like a job outside a jewish only workplace (teacher at a jewish school) and not if would like u to marry a guy that works (becuase he only studied in yeshivah for 3 years and went to uni to support his family)…”

Is your information backed up by knowing the facts? I think that statement is not exactly true.

with all this talk of tzniyus, does anyone see a recurring lack of it in some of these posts. Tzniyus is a midda, it manifests in a persons speech, the privacy of his thoughts not being made public, the dignity in not having to spell everything out. It spills over into other modes of behavior. I’m a little surprised at the seeming lack of education here. surely people need a healthy kosher forum for their feelings thoughts and opinions to be aired, but if this is supposed to be in line with our upbringing, then with all due respect, there are some areas of discussion best left for individual discussions with your rav or mentor.