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  • February 15, 2011 3:29 am at 3:29 am in reply to: After the boy says yes….. #741466
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    If I felt that I needed one (1) week to do research, I would understand that girl would be entitled to that as well. Obviously that’s not how I feel, and is thus clearly not what I practice. It’s not a middos thing, it’s a practicality thing. Perhaps the ones with middos issues are the ones who feel that every attribute in a potential date (…spouse) needs to be perfect. I’d say the ones (1’s) who take two (2) days for research are the “better” ones.

    February 15, 2011 2:21 am at 2:21 am in reply to: After the boy says yes….. #741456
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    @popcorn

    Once the couple starts dating and they like each other…what then…By then it’s too late.

    Wow, that sounds horrible!

    February 15, 2011 12:49 am at 12:49 am in reply to: After the boy says yes….. #741449
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    @bochur24:

    Do people understand that they are saying yes (or no) to date? Not actually getting married? Exactly what extent of research is required to make sure spending three hours with someone is a good idea. Maybe daters wouldn’t be so burnt out if they treated ideas more casually. Acting as if every person you’re redt to requires a life-altering decision is an awful way to date.

    February 14, 2011 10:07 pm at 10:07 pm in reply to: After the boy says yes….. #741442
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    @ Sacrilege:

    Why should people get a week? Let’s say a person has 4-6 references. Even if they have trouble getting through to people, it shouldn’t take more than two days. One week in my mind is absurd. I would add that the older the person is, the less time it should take them to do their research.

    January 20, 2011 6:22 pm at 6:22 pm in reply to: Hiding Things in Shidduchim #730174
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    Should people have to reveal that they have been diagnosed with ADD? Some people feel that since it’s really common, it’s nothing special. Others feel that a condition, regardless how minor should be revealed. Any thoughts?

    January 19, 2011 4:39 pm at 4:39 pm in reply to: popa_bar_abba = mod 80 ? #812971
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    not 80, 180.

    January 17, 2011 3:10 am at 3:10 am in reply to: Know anything about getting into law school? #748264
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    Professional: Instead of “Good name schools does pay,” you’d be better apt to advise that “schools that pay are better.” No school is a sure thing ITE. Not having to pay for a legal education is the safest route.

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