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There is no intelligence in remaining single
what to the גמ׳ of טב למסיב טן דו מלמסיב ארמלה@shopping613 why not have emuna that your husband will remain a healthy person even if he is smoking instead of remaining single
So like I said from all you’re posts if you would only look away on something small like smoking there wouldn’t be a shidduch crisis since there are top boys and great ones who smoke a little or x heavy smokers who girls are turning down
I guess it’s better to stay single then to be married to a smokerShopping613 as a girl in shiduchim would you turn down a boy who is trying to quit IE going from 1 pack a day to only 1 a day
Don’t people working on themselves have any value to you
It’s girls like you who are extreme about smokers that are causing this crisis
As an older bachur in shiducim and a x heavy smoker makes shiduchim very difficult
what can someone like me do quit cold turkey it won’t help. as shadchanim have told me once you have a name of a heavy smoker even quitting won’t help
We need to remove this stigma like all the other unnecessary stigmas
Shopping613 what would you do if after you got married he became a smoker. Would you divorce him CVOne pack a week (not day) can’t be that dangerous a heavy smoker is whats dangerous not a lite smoker. also why does she turn him down maybe if she would marry him she can get him to quit
Women are blessed with bina Yisarah not for nothing
It just doesn’t make sense that in a boys market a girl should turn down a great boy just for smoking
There are a lot of other not healthy things out there
And regarding the snell that’s something that over time she will get over she may even like itIf smoking is an addiction that can’t be overcome doesn’t mean he shouldn’t get married
I’m not talking about like 10 packs a week
Girls turn down boys for even one a dayShopping613 they more about their health over getting married
If we were to reomove the stigma of smoking boys the crisis would be over
Its amazing how girls turn down such great boys top leaners
Just because of smoking
There were great Gidolim who smoked