memo: For one, they can ADVISE you how to spell. (when someone advises you it is spelled with an s, the advice you are given is spelled with a c).
Secondly, it can never hurt. Professionals are trained in these particular areas (friends are not, no matter how well-meaning they may be). If you need clarity (which everyone does), you will gain the most by going to a professional.
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