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I don’t think that its necessary not allowed as cut hair the Mogen Avraham says its not erve , but its getting away with the point hat the Thora told us , the same as reeling in heter Iske to take Ribis is just finding loop hole , this is one of the curses of a women ,is that she needs to cover her hair and Rav Falk ZL understood that its to reduce the beauty of a women , and this lace to wigs das not do this , the same as we know that another curse of the women is to have pain in child birth and a women goes and takes Epidural , or the other curse that women get a period and the go and take hormones to stop there period and not see blood , every person understands that its not assur but just getting away with it what is the rotzon of Hashem and find legal loop hole.
I think the same as Sarah Shnire done and educated the girls to want to marry bnei Torah and today moust girls want it and it’s proudly accepted and embarrassed to take acworking boy the same needs to be done for boys education that not every thik is money just look for Rochelle the wife of reb Akiva they the father in low gave nothing and we’ll come to a point were looking for money we’ll be embarrassed and everyone we’ll want the Rochelle the wife of reb Akiva I’m abit concern of giving such education as well cuse the girels from rich home well not be able to get a shiddach but Wen we get there we well need to findca way to sort it out.
Stop looking for money
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How about educating the boys that money is not every thing , the same as Sarah Shnire educated the girls to want to marry yeshive boys , and worked very well thet today the majority of girls don’t want working boys iven nif the final situation is better ,why can’t we do the same educated the boys that you don’t need to marry in to rich family’s to stay in learning and we don’t need so much support you can manage you self the same as reb Eliashuv and Rav Wosner and moust of ower gedoilim did not marry in to money . This well solve the issue, the only thing that after we educate the boys not to go for money we’ll have the same problem as the girls don’t want to marry some one who is not a Ben Torah the boys are not going to want to marry wealthy family’s and we going to have crisis that rich girls are single , but I well not worried about it now wen this well happen well taken 50 years so we solved the problem for 50 years.
the answer that number 2321265# is answering is a answer what Reb Moshe Finshtein gives in his tshuva in Igres Moshe