lets be happy

Rabbi Miller as usual said things with such clarity

Of course people will say that by them it came at first sight and Rabbi Miller knew better than all of us that it could so happen. He just said that many times especially when a young guy meets a girl he goes all crazy over her because of all the external things a woman is to a man and the Rav was saying to look at the inner qualities which most of the time can only happen through a unbiased person such as a mother or aunt… gut shabbos to all