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interesting idea. However you need to look at the bigger picture. If we keep the girls in the freezer, than that mean we will have hundreds of 19-22 girls back from seminary doing what? if there not focusing on shidduchim are we ready to just place these girls in the workplace? college (chv’s)? they need to be doing something. You might have a lot bigger crisis if you make shidduchim off limitsNovember 3, 2011 4:35 pm at 4:35 pm in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #847717olderwiserMember
They left out the end of the sentence. Game changing initiative- to make things worse.
First thing that will happen is that the price of regular shadchanis will sky rocket because shadchanim will say ” why should i find poor shpintza a shidduch for 1000 when i can work on the list and make at least five k?”
Secondly within 6 months we will see shadachnim are ONLY going to deal with people on the list. it will be a trend. People will call shadchanim and the first thing they will hear is “i only deal with ” The List”
Its going to be gadlus! “The List” will be a new status symbol, anther avenue for people who want to show off there money.
Whatever little was still working in the shidduch system had just been eradicated!