We tried the trufits. He leaked through them all the time. He evens leaks through the goodnites often enough, that his bedding will start to smell and will be noticeable.
He once went to a friend for a shabbos sleepover two years ago. The mother said she’ll take care of him and make sure it’s a secret. Of course that night he leaked and his friend not only found out but started calling him a baby. He came back so depressed and mad. I don’t want that happening.
I can almost guarantee that he’ll leak often, and I feel it’s not right to the counselor or to himself to have to go through all this stress. But how do I tell him? It’s not his fault that he has accidents.