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every person chooses for themselves how they want to deal with Shidduchim. Your friends that are being picky are choosing to be. Your friend at 25 is choosing her path, she would rather wait then have to ‘settle’ for less than perfect. But that’s her choice.
I give everyone a Bracha that we should not be too picky when it comes to Shidduchim.
Thank you guys! Telling myself that is one thing, but hearing it from others doesn’t hurt!
Cofeefan, I heard about that mall, thanks for reminding me about it-I’ll definitely find out where it’s located and IM”H check it out!
kollel used to be a privilege and now it has become an entitlement. being in kollel does not have to be as hard as being at harvavd (lehavdil); however, it should a little harder than having a “pulse” and a “black hat”.
i deal with many girls in shiduchim and more than one has been told by “lakewood” “i have a hundred girls on my list and unless you are willing to support me for 5-10 years and you are a size 0-2, you will be off my list in a minute” !