@Avram in MD
i understand you.
You said” its a tremendous mitzva to bring simcha chosson and kallah” YES thats right and very nice.
What i am now writing is very controversial and not so accepted in our comunity.
Who asked the Chosson or kallah in Belz or Bobov or any other chassidus when they making chassuna if they like to have such a big Wedding when they stand on top on the Roof and thousands of people watching them.
Just a thought. I dont want to hurt nobody. just thinking a little out of the box.