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One of the fetures of Shidduch World is that You can ask A Rav Doctor or Shadchan questions about Shidduchim. (without saying who you are)

Question:

I’ve been wondering, if I wanted to go shopping for a dress, and I sent my sister to the store to find me one and she would come home every day with another dress, I think it would take an awfully long time for me to find what I like. Wouldn’t it be a better idea for me to go to the store and pick out myself what I like? Why is is that in shidduchim we are constantly relying on other people to set us up with someone? Why isn’t it possible for girls/boys to access info about girls/boys themselves and pick who they think would be a good candidate. You will more likely like someone you picked out than someone a third party picked out for you. Please answer.

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