I don’t believe “am yisrael chai” is anything other than what he appears to be – a kind and caring individual.
“YW Moderator-42” is doing the right thing by verifying beyond a reasonable doubt that things are OK, but I agree with “always here” that it would be best done via a private email exchange, with the public (including yours truly) none the wiser.
Look at this thread:
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/missing-a-loved-one
Look at his caring comments on the “poetry” thread.
The moderators are (correctly, IMO) verifying things, but the last thing we should do is engage in hurtful speculation, innuendo and gossip about one of the nicest most sensitive folks here, who has suffered personal losses. He deserves better.
am yisrael chai-
If you’re reading this, please consider contacting the moderators (or at least “YW Moderator-42”) with the info they’re looking for. They’ll keep your name to themselves – they have done so with me.
I am 100% sure he means you no harm; he asked for mechila on an earlier thread, and is being reasonable and respectful here.