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  • #597509
    happiest
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    I know everyone has their bad days and mine must be today but it’s soooo hard. I wish I could go into detail but I would probably be banned from this site if I did. I’m really struggling with something pretty major today though. It’s so hard to just keep it bottled up.

    Ok, now I feel better. It’s out of my system (for fake).

    #778675
    bpt
    Participant

    Didn’t you just post last week that you had turned the corner on your mood and that things were on the upswing?

    So? what happened? All you need to do is retrace your steps till the last time you felt accomplished and move forward from there.

    All of us have setbacks. And all of us hit roadblocks. And all of us (includig yourself) have it within us to overcome those moments.

    Believe in yourself! (For real!)

    #778676
    goldielox
    Member

    your not having a BAD day cuz Ha-shem doesnt give any one bad days… its just a HARD day!! ๐Ÿ™ -> ๐Ÿ™‚

    #778677
    deiyezooger
    Member

    Goldilox; I was about to say the same thing, some days are hard, not bad.

    #778678
    observanteen
    Member

    Life is full of ups and downs. It’s hard dealing with the down moments, but try getting over it. Don’t let it scare you. Go out with friends, write, listen to music, go shopping etc. Good luck! Hope you feel better soon!

    #778679
    kapusta
    Participant

    I feel for you. (Really.)

    I try to think to myself that a bad day once in a while is actually a good thing, it makes me appreciate the fact that B”H the majority of my days are (very) good.

    Hatzlacha with whatever you’re dealing with.

    If you want to vent or scream, I’m volunteering for the job.

    *kapusta*

    #778680
    happiest
    Member

    Thanks. You’re all right, it’s a hard day. Not a bad day.

    It was just hard cuz I let my brain rot away today. I don’t have work at the moment (for the next 2 wks) so it will be a little hard not doing anything with my time.

    I’m ok though!!!

    Thanks!

    #778681

    happiest-

    Gam zeh ya’avor.

    Assignment time, for anyone who has an idea:

    Find something for “happiest” to do for the next two weeks that she will enjoy.

    #778682
    happiest
    Member

    Thanks icot! In a couple of days the rest of my family will be off so I will be distracted by other people being around. I’m actually fighting the real problem. I think I have a problem with meds but don’t want to have the problem so am just trying to ignore it. Hopefully, that’ll help and it’s really just boredom. (I know this post makes no sense- my mind is in shambles)

    #778683
    deiyezooger
    Member

    “Assignment time, for anyone who has an idea:

    Find something for “happiest” to do for the next two weeks that she will enjoy.”

    Open at least 2 new GOOD threads every day. Any thread with less then 50 posts dosent count.

    #778684
    happiest
    Member

    Haaa, deiyezooger- I am so not talented like that. I am not creative at all like that. I always wished I could open a really good thread after I see the threads that posters open here but I don’t know. They never seem to dawn on me until it’s dawned on someone else first lol.

    But you def have gotten me to laugh tonight so thanks!!

    #778685
    deiyezooger
    Member

    Keep laughing, thats one medication nobody has a problem with!!!

    #778686

    “deiyezooger” gets an A+

    “happiest” gets a few spare smileys we have lying around.

    take as needed ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? <== (enough for a minyan).

    Get out of the house, go shopping, walk next to the water at Caesar’s Bay, go to the Grand Army Plaza library, do something fun.

    #778687
    brotherofurs
    Participant

    give to other people you’ll feel better. Do chesed with your free time.

    I was also finding it hard because i really want to do something productive on the days that i’m done school and don’t start work but it’s hard ๐Ÿ™

    #778688

    I know how you feel happiest,

    Its like there’s one day that Hashem just gives potch after potch after potch

    #778689

    I’m also having a hard day…let’s say it wasn’t hard until I pushed off studying for my finals and now I’m starting and I have 2! K, i gtg get down to work. U’ll get over it, e/1 has hard days and one day you’ll have a good day so just wait. ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

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