August 12, 2011 2:07 pm at 2:07 pm #797648aries2756Participant
RG, if you have not learn anything from the tone of this thread then I will spell it out for you. Since the “boys” do not give the girls the courtesy they deserve their opinion on whether the date was a bust or the shidduch has no chance is a bit skewered and therefor it is NOT left up to them to make that decision it is up to the young lady involved. However, if she feels it was a bust she will probably choose not to suffer through a second episode.August 12, 2011 2:22 pm at 2:22 pm #797649ObaminatorMember
Its really nice if she wants to be mentchlich about it, and she should be, but that doesn’t take away his responsibility to act like a mentch.
She has just as much responsibility to be mentchlich as he does to be a mentch.August 12, 2011 2:26 pm at 2:26 pm #797650haifagirlParticipant
if a guy tells me hes not hes a lier
Wow! I’ve never seen anybody taking out the garbage while reclining. Neat trick!August 12, 2011 2:58 pm at 2:58 pm #797651aries2756Participant
Halfagirl, you and I both know any guy that says he does not take out the garbage is either lying or is about to receive a long talk from his Rebbe.August 12, 2011 3:16 pm at 3:16 pm #797652YW Moderator-80Member
i dont take out the garbage
my boys doAugust 12, 2011 3:18 pm at 3:18 pm #797653haifagirlParticipant
If you read what I quoted from jmj613’s post, he called the person who claims he doesn’t take out the garbage a lier. That means the person is in bed, on a recliner, waiting in ambush, or something else similar.
He didn’t call him a liar.August 12, 2011 3:19 pm at 3:19 pm #797654adorableParticipant
what happened before you had big boysAugust 12, 2011 3:21 pm at 3:21 pm #797655YW Moderator-80Member
i took out the garbageAugust 12, 2011 3:21 pm at 3:21 pm #797656adorableParticipant
thats the point! you dont NOT take it out because its below you or something like that.August 15, 2011 5:41 pm at 5:41 pm #797657bptParticipant
“the girl is coming with her family for a local wedding,”
R’ Gershon –
Thank you for taking the time to make this clarification. Please understand, while my tone may sound like I’m beating on you and your generation, who I’m really taking to task is MY generation for not demanding a more balanced playing field.
Not to worry though. What my gen could not teach you as far as how to treat a woman, your wife surely will 🙂
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