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what is it that makes a girl like a boy? is it really only based on looks or is there other criteria that he needs to have?
I certainly wouldn’t like a boy only because of his looks. There’s middos, Yiras Shomayim, and of course, you gotta have the same goals in life.
whenur young its mostly based on looks but once u get older u realize looks isnt the only thing in life there r more important thing but im not saying looks isnt important someone has to like how their spouse looks ur the one whos gonna have to live with them! usaully when u like a persons inside-personality u like their outside it just shines through!
Depends on the age and maturity of the girl. Many ARE only attracted to looks. We all eventually grow up, and realize that character, personality, warmth, brains, thoughtfulness, maturity, and integrity, rank high up there against the looks.
I didn’t know girls really cared about looks at all.
always happy27-
i think at 18-21 depends on the maturity of the girl
popa bar abba- wake up the sun is shining!
boys rock-i always liked them better then girls-they are just funner and less sensitive-also always like rabbeim over lady teachers-just works that way :)and looks def add……..
Ha! Pops, you thought ur all settled cuz ur going to BJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ, huh?
fix it up i have to agree!
and its true tht some girls dont care about looks, thats a guy thing
Well, do they care about looks in BJJJJJJJJJJJ? I bet they are too intellectual to care about anything but being the best guy in lakewood. I know I am.
Well then, when you come home from BJJJJJJJJJJ, how abt marrying yourself?
Would that help the shidduch crisis or hurt it?
i thought its BJJ?
I thought so too. I also think Popa is getting a teeeeny bit Gold.
I’ll say. BJJJJJJJJJJJ sure is the Gold. Just wait till you see my awesome shidduch. I’m telling you, I am so excited. Shidduch crisis? That’s for Bnos sara girls. I’m going to BJJJJJJJJJJJ.
Maybe I’ll try to set you up with my husband’s friends. If you’re nice and also give me wedding presents.
Ummm…… popa, are you already of age?
and i always thought you were a guy.
awks.
not gonna even contribute to this discussion cause i am wayyyy different
hmm, I also thought poppa was a guy
A girl would like a boy that is sensitive to her needs, caring, great middos, knows how to get along with other people, doesnt get angry so fast…
Obviously a person is not going to like someone JUST based on looks..that would be pretty pathetic. Middos/ being a Mentch is what lasts and what counts for a mature and thinking girl.(However Im not saying a girl has to marry someone who she doesnt like how they look ..obviously that it just shouldnt be her only criteria)
Popa is a guy. This is just a new silliness he is doing to make fun of the elite seminary craze.
Now I really don’t know!
i met a boy- and ALL he cared about was my looks! was sick! and of course i dumped him. so as a girl, who wants a guy that only cares bout looks?!? he has to have LOTS more than that- and they were basically mentioned above…
i know i know.
i ovi was making a joke.
goshicalss
Confidence. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I girl needs to be attracted to the guy just like the guy needs to be attracted to the girl. Different people are attracted to different things. CONFIDENCE is definitely an attractive trait.
stuck in bklyn- thats absolutely true!
Confidence is bad when it comes across as arrogance or over inflated ego.
neek, how did you know he was only obsessed with your looks?
i also that popa was a guy and i wanted to date him but i guess thats off.
for me its looks and money :))
cshapiro – money is here today gone tommorrow so i dont think u should let ur hopes rise it doesnt pay if u find someone that suits ur personality that has good middos that will respect u etc looks and money is not everything true money helps in life but promise many ppl with money would rather give it up for other qualities
I girl is attracted to a guy that treats her like a queen, one who treats her like she is the only woman in the world.
welcome back methinks. I missed you.
i figured it out 🙂
i said so…i was totally kidding, i know sarcasm doesnt come across on these cr post… :))) i look for a guy with emunah!!!
liking someone is usually primarily based on looks. if there is attraction, there will be further interest. once you get to know the guy better, his (hopefully) positive traits will shine through and reinforce these feelings
I already told you. It depends what specefic quality you are looking for. Plain and pashut.
personality
aries…i argree!
A good sense of humor and personality helps a lot
Aries, that’s not always true. Some women respond better to the aloof, uninterested treatment. Not my cup of tea though…
Every girl is different. For me, intelligence, integrity and kindness.
I can’t really weigh in on this thread, but when someone starts a “boys thoughts on girls” thread, please let me know
i would say all girls care about looks to some degree. all boys only care about looks. btw bar shattya: whats stopping you from dating her now?
Truth-its your zivug that’s gonna be what ur looking for. I’ve dated boys who were cute, but not for me, great personality, but not for me. Great middot, but not for me. Ect…but when u find the right one, what have he has is what ur looking for in the end bc ur not looking for an item, ur looking for HIM and u’ve found him. No one really knows what they’re looking for.
is everyone sleeping today?
who ever is dating good luck 🙂
the rest of us lets enjoy every second till we reach that stage!
guy ocho – I think girls find looks easier to ignore.
A23- he told me! simple as that! its complicating…
guy-ocho- ill guess your a dude…not all girls on;y care bout looks! thats not fair to just say that! im not like that! duh, id luv to hav a dude tahts DDG, but still! if hes not, and hes cute, nice, caring…etc., id take him, and i bet others wud 2!
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I went out with someone who before I went out with him I thought he was ok. I said fine ill give it a try I ended up wanting to marry him but it didn’t work out for reasons which Hashem only knows why I had to go out with him but anyway his middot and personality made me think he was everything and he became soo cute to me. Someone can be stunning to one girl and that same guy can be ugly to a different girl. Its all in the eyes of the beholder.
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