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  • #595370
    always happy27
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    what is it that makes a girl like a boy? is it really only based on looks or is there other criteria that he needs to have?

    #746179
    observanteen
    Member

    I certainly wouldn’t like a boy only because of his looks. There’s middos, Yiras Shomayim, and of course, you gotta have the same goals in life.

    #746180
    i said so
    Member

    whenur young its mostly based on looks but once u get older u realize looks isnt the only thing in life there r more important thing but im not saying looks isnt important someone has to like how their spouse looks ur the one whos gonna have to live with them! usaully when u like a persons inside-personality u like their outside it just shines through!

    #746181
    oomis
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    Depends on the age and maturity of the girl. Many ARE only attracted to looks. We all eventually grow up, and realize that character, personality, warmth, brains, thoughtfulness, maturity, and integrity, rank high up there against the looks.

    #746182
    always happy27
    Participant

    at what age to girls realize its not only about looks?

    #746183
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I didn’t know girls really cared about looks at all.

    #746184
    always happy27
    Participant

    popa funny!!!

    #746185
    i said so
    Member

    always happy27-

    i think at 18-21 depends on the maturity of the girl

    popa bar abba- wake up the sun is shining!

    #746186
    fix-it-up
    Member

    boys rock-i always liked them better then girls-they are just funner and less sensitive-also always like rabbeim over lady teachers-just works that way :)and looks def add……..

    #746187
    observanteen
    Member

    Ha! Pops, you thought ur all settled cuz ur going to BJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ, huh?

    #746188
    shuli
    Participant

    fix it up i have to agree!

    and its true tht some girls dont care about looks, thats a guy thing

    #746189
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Well, do they care about looks in BJJJJJJJJJJJ? I bet they are too intellectual to care about anything but being the best guy in lakewood. I know I am.

    #746190
    observanteen
    Member

    Well then, when you come home from BJJJJJJJJJJ, how abt marrying yourself?

    #746191
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Would that help the shidduch crisis or hurt it?

    #746192
    shuli
    Participant

    i thought its BJJ?

    #746193
    observanteen
    Member

    I thought so too. I also think Popa is getting a teeeeny bit Gold.

    #746194
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I’ll say. BJJJJJJJJJJJ sure is the Gold. Just wait till you see my awesome shidduch. I’m telling you, I am so excited. Shidduch crisis? That’s for Bnos sara girls. I’m going to BJJJJJJJJJJJ.

    Maybe I’ll try to set you up with my husband’s friends. If you’re nice and also give me wedding presents.

    #746195
    observanteen
    Member

    Ummm…… popa, are you already of age?

    #746196

    and i always thought you were a guy.

    awks.

    not gonna even contribute to this discussion cause i am wayyyy different

    #746197
    Gummy Bear
    Member

    hmm, I also thought poppa was a guy

    #746198
    stickynote
    Member

    A girl would like a boy that is sensitive to her needs, caring, great middos, knows how to get along with other people, doesnt get angry so fast…

    Obviously a person is not going to like someone JUST based on looks..that would be pretty pathetic. Middos/ being a Mentch is what lasts and what counts for a mature and thinking girl.(However Im not saying a girl has to marry someone who she doesnt like how they look ..obviously that it just shouldnt be her only criteria)

    #746199
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Popa is a guy. This is just a new silliness he is doing to make fun of the elite seminary craze.

    #746200
    Gummy Bear
    Member

    Now I really don’t know!

    #746201
    neek
    Member

    i met a boy- and ALL he cared about was my looks! was sick! and of course i dumped him. so as a girl, who wants a guy that only cares bout looks?!? he has to have LOTS more than that- and they were basically mentioned above…

    #746202

    i know i know.

    i ovi was making a joke.

    goshicalss

    #746203

    Confidence. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I girl needs to be attracted to the guy just like the guy needs to be attracted to the girl. Different people are attracted to different things. CONFIDENCE is definitely an attractive trait.

    #746204
    i said so
    Member

    stuck in bklyn- thats absolutely true!

    #746205
    stickynote
    Member

    Confidence is bad when it comes across as arrogance or over inflated ego.

    #746206
    A23
    Participant

    neek, how did you know he was only obsessed with your looks?

    #746207
    Bar Shattya
    Member

    i also that popa was a guy and i wanted to date him but i guess thats off.

    #746208
    cshapiro
    Member

    for me its looks and money :))

    #746209
    i said so
    Member

    cshapiro – money is here today gone tommorrow so i dont think u should let ur hopes rise it doesnt pay if u find someone that suits ur personality that has good middos that will respect u etc looks and money is not everything true money helps in life but promise many ppl with money would rather give it up for other qualities

    #746210
    aries2756
    Participant

    I girl is attracted to a guy that treats her like a queen, one who treats her like she is the only woman in the world.

    #746211
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    welcome back methinks. I missed you.

    #746212
    Bar Shattya
    Member

    i figured it out 🙂

    #746213
    cshapiro
    Member

    i said so…i was totally kidding, i know sarcasm doesnt come across on these cr post… :))) i look for a guy with emunah!!!

    #746214
    IDKyet
    Member

    liking someone is usually primarily based on looks. if there is attraction, there will be further interest. once you get to know the guy better, his (hopefully) positive traits will shine through and reinforce these feelings

    #746215
    morah reyna
    Member

    I already told you. It depends what specefic quality you are looking for. Plain and pashut.

    #746216
    anonymisss
    Participant

    personality

    #746217
    shuli
    Participant

    aries…i argree!

    #746218

    A good sense of humor and personality helps a lot

    #746219
    SJSinNYC
    Member

    Aries, that’s not always true. Some women respond better to the aloof, uninterested treatment. Not my cup of tea though…

    #746220
    pascha bchochma
    Participant

    Every girl is different. For me, intelligence, integrity and kindness.

    #746221
    bpt
    Participant

    I can’t really weigh in on this thread, but when someone starts a “boys thoughts on girls” thread, please let me know

    #746222
    guy-ocho
    Member

    i would say all girls care about looks to some degree. all boys only care about looks. btw bar shattya: whats stopping you from dating her now?

    #746223

    Truth-its your zivug that’s gonna be what ur looking for. I’ve dated boys who were cute, but not for me, great personality, but not for me. Great middot, but not for me. Ect…but when u find the right one, what have he has is what ur looking for in the end bc ur not looking for an item, ur looking for HIM and u’ve found him. No one really knows what they’re looking for.

    #746224
    i said so
    Member

    is everyone sleeping today?

    who ever is dating good luck 🙂

    the rest of us lets enjoy every second till we reach that stage!

    #746225
    pascha bchochma
    Participant

    guy ocho – I think girls find looks easier to ignore.

    #746226
    neek
    Member

    A23- he told me! simple as that! its complicating…

    guy-ocho- ill guess your a dude…not all girls on;y care bout looks! thats not fair to just say that! im not like that! duh, id luv to hav a dude tahts DDG, but still! if hes not, and hes cute, nice, caring…etc., id take him, and i bet others wud 2!

    : )

    #746227

    I went out with someone who before I went out with him I thought he was ok. I said fine ill give it a try I ended up wanting to marry him but it didn’t work out for reasons which Hashem only knows why I had to go out with him but anyway his middot and personality made me think he was everything and he became soo cute to me. Someone can be stunning to one girl and that same guy can be ugly to a different girl. Its all in the eyes of the beholder.

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