Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven!
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October 7, 2011 2:05 am at 2:05 am #1184899
when i think back throughout the year there were many many times i said things i should not have if anyone was hurt by something i said please be mochel me and i will try and do better in the futureOctober 7, 2011 2:40 am at 2:40 am #1184900am yisrael chaiParticipant
Sure, Goq, you’re forgiven for all those times your jokes made my stomach hurt laughing so much…October 7, 2011 3:39 am at 3:39 am #1184901MiddlePathParticipant
I would like say to everyone here- Please forgive me for anything that I may have said that caused any of you to be embarrassed, upset, hurt, annoyed, or anything less than happy, directly or indirectly. I sincerely apologize for it. And I absolutely forgive anyone here for anything they may have said that caused me any of the above feelings.October 7, 2011 3:59 am at 3:59 am #1184902
ty ayc 🙂 im passing u one!October 7, 2011 3:10 pm at 3:10 pm #1184903adorableParticipant
Hope I never hurt anyone here but I am sure that I did and I beg you all to be mochel. We dont know each other here so its a little easier to be mochel a total stranger for saying something hurtful. May we all be blessed with a year full of happiness and bracha and see the hand of Hashem in the good times so we dont have to be tested.October 9, 2011 5:09 am at 5:09 am #1184904October 9, 2011 5:44 am at 5:44 am #1184905smartcookieMember
Kapusta- I don’t recall anything you posted which upset me. Would you care to tell me on which thread I can find that?October 9, 2011 5:54 am at 5:54 am #1184906October 9, 2011 6:04 am at 6:04 am #1184907smartcookieMember
Kapusta- I cannot be Mochel if I don’t know what it was all about.
All I can say is that I recall no such incident and therefore have no hard feeling against you.October 10, 2011 4:38 am at 4:38 am #1184908
I have a reason for not mentioning specifics. Glad to hear you don’t remember it happening.September 9, 2012 1:10 am at 1:10 am #1184909vochindikMember
I hope the oilem is mochel for anything and everything, intentional or unintentional.September 9, 2012 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm #1184910SayIDidIt™Participant
To all those I may have offended or hurt in my 10 months here, I am truly sorry!
To shopping613; I attacked you about SUC (the Mods blocked them, but I still did it). Just because I disagree about something, doesn’t give me the right to tell others what to or not to do. I’m sorry.
To the YWEditor, Mods and PBA: As i mentioned in other threads I am sorry about my silly complaining! I hope you were Mochel me!!
To all of Klal Yisroel: May this year be the end of all our tzaros! May Hashem pour down on us all the Brachos in the world and may we see the Binyan Bayis HaShlishi in 5772!!!September 9, 2012 2:30 pm at 2:30 pm #1184911Shopping613 🌠Participant
Look, I never thought it as being attacked till I looked here….I thought we were having a nice loud, blunt discussion! But I forgive you!
If I hurt anyone her I’m very sorry and please forgive me! I forgive each and every one of you! And I hope you’ll forgive me too!
?ns ?o suo?????do ?o p??? pu? ‘??p???? ‘??puno? ???
The Founder, Awarder, and Head of Operations of SUCSeptember 10, 2012 5:12 pm at 5:12 pm #1184912I can only tryMember
I am mochel anyone who may have insulted/offended me.
I wish you all a ksiva vachasima tova and a gut yor.September 11, 2012 2:19 am at 2:19 am #1184913oomisParticipant
I try hard NOT to offend or insult anyone, but if I have done so, albeit unintentionally, I am very sorry. I likewise am not upset with anyone here, so no one needs to ask my mechilah for any reason. A good gebensched and healthy year to all of us.September 11, 2012 4:34 pm at 4:34 pm #1184914Shopping613 🌠Participant
Wow…I can only try…..I wish I could do that! Until yom kipur?????
Volantarily or you just don’t have time?
?ns ?o suo?????do ?o p??? pu? ‘??p???? ‘??puno? ???
The Founder, Awarder, and Head of Operations of SUCSeptember 12, 2012 10:37 am at 10:37 am #1184915SayIDidIt™Participant
Shopping: Thanks!! (As I said, the Mods didn’t let them through, and now I’m glad about that! Thanks Mods, AGAIN!!!)September 12, 2012 4:14 pm at 4:14 pm #1184916
We should all be mochel everyone across the board here.
I am.September 13, 2012 2:50 am at 2:50 am #1184917chavrusaMember
Shein, in theory you are 100% correct.
However, I wish I could, but I cannot, especially when there are several posters who did unbelievable avlos here and never asked for mechila.
I would use my regular sn, however, my password was revoked awhile back and was reinstated almost immediately with a new one and have no idea what that may be, as I could not bring myself to write here for a looong time…
I tried to contribute here as best as I could, but I got kicked over and over.
It’s almost Rosh Hashana, and still there’s no apology from them (I’m not planning on naming names)or the insight for what the repercussions were…
I’ve been requested to write an “Ask the Rabbi” type column online, but with my experience here online, how can I???
For any newbies, plz don’t ask to what I’m referring, TIA.
AYCSeptember 13, 2012 2:56 am at 2:56 am #1184918
WB AYC!September 13, 2012 3:10 am at 3:10 am #1184919chavrusaMember
TY! But I don’t know that I’m back…I was hoping that some specific people would care about mechillos before the Yomim Noraim…and certainly I could use A LOT help to be able to be mochel such a horrible experience…esp. during this season…September 14, 2012 2:00 pm at 2:00 pm #1184920icedMember
Mochel Loch.September 16, 2012 12:51 am at 12:51 am #1184921
AYC: You were sorely missed. I (and many others) hope you will choose to stay.`September 16, 2012 2:06 am at 2:06 am #1184922
See the top of this page for my post from last year please apply to this year thank you.September 16, 2012 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm #1184923
AYC: Please note this thread:
I believe it is something you were waiting for.September 19, 2012 6:01 am at 6:01 am #1184924🍫Syag LchochmaParticipant
I don’t know who you are or if this is supposed to be funny but that writing does not resemble anything AYC would write. If I am wrong, forgive me, but if I am not wrong, this isn’t funny.September 25, 2012 4:51 pm at 4:51 pm #1184925
Please be mochel for everything.
I am mochel all.August 25, 2013 7:07 am at 7:07 am #1184926LikudMember
I would like to ask forgiveness for the many times I have even read loshon hora, something that unfortunately frequently gets posted, even if I did not believe it. After all, there is a sin to simply listen to it.
Of course the victim of this crime is the person(s) being spoken about. And more often than not that person is not even a participant of the forum. So asking forgiveness, even publicly, is unlikely to reach the only person(s) who can issue that mechila.
Which, of course, is the point in refraining from engaging in (listening or spreading) loshon hora in the first place, considering the extreme difficulty in obtaining absolution.September 2, 2013 12:14 am at 12:14 am #1184927LikudMember
I hereby humbly ask mechila from anyone and everyone that I heard or read loshon hora, rechilus or motzei shem ra about, on this forum or anywhere else, whether I was or wasn’t mekabel said loshon hora, rechilus or motzei shem ra.September 2, 2013 12:00 pm at 12:00 pm #1184928
To anyone here who’s feelings i may have hurt in any way please be mochel me and i of course am mochel all of you.September 13, 2013 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #1184929cholent cookerMember
Please be mochel me for any pain I intentionally or unintentionally caused.September 24, 2014 12:27 pm at 12:27 pm #1184930
I request mechila for any offense I may have committed against anyone.August 30, 2015 5:48 pm at 5:48 pm #1184932
Zats mir mochel, teiere chaveirim.September 10, 2015 1:56 pm at 1:56 pm #1184933
It’s <bumping> season.September 13, 2015 1:50 pm at 1:50 pm #1184934
Is mechila still in style?September 22, 2015 7:38 am at 7:38 am #1184935
Please forgive me, be ye young or be ye old, for all my sins against you new or old.
Gmar Chasima Tova.September 22, 2015 3:20 pm at 3:20 pm #1184936lesschumrasParticipant
I request mechila for any offense I may have committed against anyoneAugust 31, 2016 3:40 am at 3:40 am #1184937
Can we get an early start this year or must we wait a few more days for Rosh Chodesh Elul?August 31, 2016 1:19 pm at 1:19 pm #1184938dovrosenbaumParticipant
I cannot forgive. I’ve been really burned by some individuals. I’d sue them, but there’s an issur arkaos.August 31, 2016 2:07 pm at 2:07 pm #1184939
dovrosenbaum – Have I ever done anything to hurt you? If so, please let me know. Thanks!August 31, 2016 2:22 pm at 2:22 pm #1184940Geordie613Participant
There is an excellent article by Rav Arye Zeev Ginzburg in last week’s Mishpacha magazine on the subject of mechila. He has also set up a new initiative to help childless couples and older singles. It’s a must read!August 31, 2016 2:52 pm at 2:52 pm #1184941
Geordie613- thanks for the info!August 31, 2016 3:53 pm at 3:53 pm #1184942
I’m sorry I hurt you Lilmod, it’s a lot harder to realize that posters get hurt where you can’t see their facial expressions and cannot tell how sensitive the poster isAugust 31, 2016 5:45 pm at 5:45 pm #1184944
Sparkly, I’m sorry for any times that I was mean to you. I hope you are moichel me.August 31, 2016 5:46 pm at 5:46 pm #1184945
Joseph, shkoyach on bumping this thread! Tizkeh L’Mitzvos!September 1, 2016 3:49 am at 3:49 am #1184946SparklyMember
lilmod ulelamaid – totally fine. do you forgive me? i hope everyone on here forgives me????September 1, 2016 1:25 pm at 1:25 pm #1184947
I was just reading the posts from years past
Maybe Joe should ask for mechila for having so many screen namesSeptember 1, 2016 1:51 pm at 1:51 pm #1184948SparklyMember
coffee addict – whos joe?September 1, 2016 2:02 pm at 2:02 pm #1184949
Joseph, look at all the subtitles of previous postersSeptember 1, 2016 2:31 pm at 2:31 pm #1184950
Sparkly – If there is anything you need to ask me mechila for, I am moichel.
CA: “Joseph, look at all the subtitles of previous posters”
Joseph, what’s the pshat? Are they really all you?
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