Tagged: Welcome Aboard
December 28, 2008 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm #854585
intellegent – what’d i do wrong now???December 28, 2008 6:29 pm at 6:29 pm #854586
you didn’t do anything wrong now !
You just love yourself waaaaaaaaay too much!December 28, 2008 6:38 pm at 6:38 pm #854587
lol it’s supposed to be a good thing. i worked hard at it! well… for about a minute… now it just come naturally… :}December 29, 2008 2:17 pm at 2:17 pm #854588
I disagree. it’s a bad thing! >:-oDecember 29, 2008 3:01 pm at 3:01 pm #854589
BTW – if you met me you’d know it was me in a second because of that part of my nature. lol just a little hint. that’s how people define me.
(and guys are REALLY insecure – for the most part they’re WAY too intimidated! the only guys who aren’t put off are the ones who don’t get it :})December 29, 2008 4:06 pm at 4:06 pm #854590
take it easy. Its all shtick. At least I hope it is, lol.December 29, 2008 4:23 pm at 4:23 pm #854591
chevra stop fighting.December 29, 2008 5:07 pm at 5:07 pm #854592
charlie – it’s not ALL shtick…December 29, 2008 5:20 pm at 5:20 pm #854593
I really hope it’s all shtick. I’m seriously starting to get nervous. With an attitude like yours, I don’t think you want to go out at this point. You should not feel proud of “guys being intimidated by you”. I hope this is all in jest.December 29, 2008 5:30 pm at 5:30 pm #854594
please tell me MOST of it is?December 29, 2008 5:32 pm at 5:32 pm #854595beaconParticipant
“charlie – it’s not ALL shtick…”
At what point does a healthy self-esteem and a big ego collide?December 29, 2008 5:36 pm at 5:36 pm #854596
it doesn’tDecember 29, 2008 5:39 pm at 5:39 pm #854597
it’s a fine line. i think i have it down pat. don’t worry – i’m not a person who assumes everything is ok. i’ve spoken to a rav about it. he said “keep it up!” lol i’ll be honest – i used to have a crushed self-esteem- while i was messing up in high school (before and afterward too). it took me a little while to build myself up again. now i’m probably more healthy than most people in that area. don’t worry – i’m ok!
:}December 29, 2008 6:00 pm at 6:00 pm #854598
yeah, a big ego is definitely better than a crushed non-existant one.December 29, 2008 6:08 pm at 6:08 pm #854599
hey it’s not an ego. it’s self esteem
an egotistic person thinks “i’m better than you.” they’re confidence is based on how much better they are than the next guy.
high self-esteem is just – i’m special because i use the talents God gave me. and yes, when i do something better than the next guy it’s cuz God made me more capable in this area. and when someone does something better than me – mine is still great – even if i got a 95 and he got a 100.
i’m not better than everyone else. i’m just… ME! got it?December 29, 2008 6:09 pm at 6:09 pm #854600
charlie brown: the things that your saying don’t seem to mature for an adult how old are you?December 29, 2008 6:14 pm at 6:14 pm #854601
brooklyn : your’e wrong it is an ego.December 29, 2008 6:17 pm at 6:17 pm #854602
I basically agree, except that I don’t think ego is only in relation to being better than others. If a person thinks they are ALWAYS right (not that I think that you do, seriously), then it is also an ego issue not just a healthy self esteem.December 29, 2008 6:23 pm at 6:23 pm #854603
i don’t think you’re right on that one. i’ve had many discussions with rabbonim that i’m close with and i’ve been to a few classes on this topic.December 29, 2008 6:29 pm at 6:29 pm #854604
I’m 11. What gave it away that I’m not an adult?December 29, 2008 6:43 pm at 6:43 pm #854607
ego, self esteem, whatever. You have a really wierd way of thinking and you have a very high opinion of yourself whichever way you wanna look at it. Calm down about yourself. There are other people as great as/greater than you created in this world.December 29, 2008 6:52 pm at 6:52 pm #854608
lol isn’t charlie brown younger than that?
charlie – i re-read that post. i don’t think anyone ALWAYS thinks they’re right. they just don’t know how to admit it. so yes, they have issues and it’s their ego getting in the way. they can’t admit that they’re wrong and the other guy is right. agreed?December 29, 2008 7:58 pm at 7:58 pm #854609
i dont get welcomed?December 29, 2008 8:02 pm at 8:02 pm #854610
welcome!!! wow guys remember when i said that asdfghjkl’s foil is gonna show up??? how brilliant am i?!December 29, 2008 8:03 pm at 8:03 pm #854611
lkjhgfdsa:Welcome to the cr. let me tell you the rules. 1) no not nice language. 2) only maturity thank you. How old are you?December 29, 2008 8:06 pm at 8:06 pm #854612
very brilliantDecember 29, 2008 8:14 pm at 8:14 pm #854613
hey if rabbonim told you that, then I aint gonna argue. Besides why argue with someone as brilliant as yourself? I’m bound to lose. 🙂December 29, 2008 8:27 pm at 8:27 pm #854614
are you really new? I think you either are an other poster with a new name or you’ve been lurking without a user name. Don’t worry. I did the same. But you feel like an outsider eavesdropping until you have a user name. LOL!December 29, 2008 8:27 pm at 8:27 pm #854615
oh, and welcome, just the same!December 29, 2008 8:29 pm at 8:29 pm #854616
lol charlie. i’m not ALWAYS right. do i give the impression that i’m a know-it-all?
intellegent – don’t worry some of it is hyped up. i’m really normal. like when i say “how brilliant am i?” i don’t REALLY mean it that way. got it? :}December 29, 2008 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm #854617
only 1 new member today: lkjhgfdsaDecember 29, 2008 8:36 pm at 8:36 pm #854618
I may not think the world of myself but I don’t think I’m dumb (maybe not intelligent…) I pretty much know when you’re sarcastic and when not. Remember you’re not the only one around here with brains. Don’t get carried away. LOL!December 29, 2008 8:38 pm at 8:38 pm #854619
I’ll fess up, I’m only 8. You got me.
I agree completely to that repost – that the inability to admit that one is wrong is due to the ego not self esteem.
you do give the impression that you know it all but I was able to tell that that was due to shtick and that underneath it there is just a healthy self esteemDecember 29, 2008 9:31 pm at 9:31 pm #854621
just clarifying, intell. i don’t wanna be put in cherem for creating a new god or something…December 29, 2008 9:31 pm at 9:31 pm #854622
Charlie brown is the character in the book about this boy in England? I think he gets into mischief and it takes place during the war so they are evacuated to the country? Or is that the guy from peanuts? I know, I’m confused.December 29, 2008 9:49 pm at 9:49 pm #854623
I’m from peanuts.
Not sure who the trouble making evacuee is. Was that Dennis the Mennace?December 29, 2008 10:52 pm at 10:52 pm #854624
as i wrote it, i realized i was mixing something up. forget it.December 29, 2008 10:59 pm at 10:59 pm #854625squeakParticipant
Well, Peter wasn’t a mischief maker, so she must have meant Edmund. Mixing up charlie brown and Edmund shows you just how confused she was at the time.December 30, 2008 2:59 am at 2:59 am #854626asdfghjklParticipant
brooklyn19: your a mind reader!!!! i can’t beleive i’m a trend setter!!!!!December 30, 2008 3:28 am at 3:28 am #854627
thanx yros for the rules lol couldnt have figured them out myself lol
anyway yros u seem to be very rule oriented,and take things very literal lolDecember 30, 2008 4:22 am at 4:22 am #854628
asdf- u should just know that u really are a trend setter, bec when i made up my user name it didnt let me do zxcvbnm it said it was already taken…so zxcvbnm is lurking somewhere and we have to wait for him/her to come out of hidingDecember 30, 2008 4:29 am at 4:29 am #854629beaconParticipant
Hey can I be the first to get poiuytrewq?December 30, 2008 4:31 am at 4:31 am #854630
sure -go right ahead lolDecember 30, 2008 4:36 am at 4:36 am #854631asdfghjklParticipant
wow i’m so popular around here!!!December 30, 2008 12:09 pm at 12:09 pm #854632
I have no clue who you are referring to by edmund. I think there is an old book that my elementary teacher read to us (it was out of print even at that time) about a kid. I don’t remember the name but it was probably somehting similiar so I mixed it up.December 30, 2008 2:51 pm at 2:51 pm #854633mohelkadoshMember
I am a new member! Hello! I joined last night.December 30, 2008 3:29 pm at 3:29 pm #854635
Are you really a mohel?
Are you kadosh?December 30, 2008 4:15 pm at 4:15 pm #854636
noone is as kadosh as you! 🙂December 30, 2008 4:45 pm at 4:45 pm #854637anon for thisParticipant
Are you referring to C.S. Lewis’ Narnia series?December 30, 2008 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #854638
hey join me in welcoming aryeh.in.tenn, everyone.
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