what I`ve learned in life. that there are womens business and that are mens business. Like Leonard Cohen sings in Nevermind. The husband leads the wife commands. while his words are a bit too primitive and might mislead some. thing is That underage girls are under parents guidance and should be abiding. But after marriage in system construct of husband and wife. there are womens business and mens business. What I learned in life as a man that no man should interfere in womans business, if they want to smoke they will do it in secret to avoid your drama. they might even acquire secret lovers to avoid ruining marriage. and what will you be chasing? dreams of your own perfect woman? most of most amazing women I came to know in life are heavy smokers. Explanation is simple, nicotine is one of the most efficiant pain killers. Man should not imply his own fantasies of a perfect woman on a woman who does not have daddy issues. If she needs so she can smoke. proper tobbaco does not even stink