Mazel Tov and thank you for your post!
I am in that same situation you describe. I have been in the dating scene for a few years and it’s rough. I’ve done everything possible- gone to plenty of shadchanim, gotten (or atleast tried to get) my name out to many people, gone to shidduch meetings etc.. The phone doesn’t ring, nor has it rung the past couple of years. When someone does get redt to me, it’s never someone of my backround or type I’m looking for but I go out anyway- since you never know where your bashert comes from.
Hashem is the only One I have on my side. I have never felt that more then now. I daven my heart out to Hashem every day, praying that I get through this.
Dater- your post gives me chizuk and it helps to know I’m not the only one in that situation.