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  • in reply to: the demise of a normal sleeping schedule⚰️🛌🗓️ #1676771
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    I think a lot of it has to do with how fast paced our world is today, & the hot button topic of technology. In today’s world it doesn’t matter if you’re a parent, working professional, or Talmid chochom shteiging away in the Beis. The fact of the matter is, there’s always s/t going on & everyone wants to be a part of it. This is coming from the perspective of a 21 y/o, but I think it still holds true. The internet is also a big part of this imo, everyone wants to see what everyone is up to, social media is one of the biggest time-sucks of all. Before I deleted my social media accounts, I’d find myself in bed at 10:30 stalking all the Jewish bloggers until easily 2 AM. The internet/social media also creates a certain type of anxiety which I know definitely keeps me up at night. I just think we live in a society that as people, we care less about ourselves, and more about others, in-turn not doing what we need for ourselves.

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1676660
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    Y E S – I won’t go out without one & I’m a girl! People think it’s socially off when I ask, & while it may sound shallow, I’m not going out with anybody I’m not attracted to. I don’t have to think they’re the most handsome man in the world, but there has to be something there to draw me in. Yes, I am aware- personality lasts while looks fade, but attraction is important imo. This could be why I’m 21, almost 22 & single. But, that’s besides the point.

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