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thanks am yisroel but dont know if im looking for that yet
thats true its a hard time to go threw but there are something u can realld do.
1. as u said ur parents tell u every name for yes but for no its a problem u can tell them that due do the fact there r lots of names and only one can happen they should only tell u the name once they considder it and the other side considder it as well like this u will not be so nervous as matter of fact my parents work that way why do i have to know all the names that come and go those that get serious thay tell me only after they decide it can go why do u have to know extra.
2.i told it to my wife right before we god engadged (it was in middle a discussion so it didnt come out weired) that i didnt fake for her anything whatever i am is what i did and that made it easier for me not to be crazy about how i move and to her that she bacicly knew what i am i didnt fake what u see is what i am and there is no reason to fake i know its hard when others get engadged and not u because they fake but for yourself and for everyone i think just to stay normal is allways the best
wishing u a happy and wonderfull year and hope to hear simchas very soon
i must tell u i also beshowed and now that im married for 5 years ill tell u we spoke for 3 times about an hour and half each and when my father asked me what i say i said this is the first girl i meet and i have no idea what to look for in a girl when getting married so u tell me what u think he said yes so we went further.
now after 5 years i do see that if we would date the other way alot of things would be differet and some better as well but this way is deffinatly a lot of good things both are young and grow up togther
and what u said about taxting and talking so far im chasidish and went to a chasidish yeshiva there where boucherim there that where talking to ther kallah and there r lots that text as well if u really want u goto find a way to ask him not threw his parents most of the time the chusen and kallah would agree and the parents dont have to know as my chavrusah was talking to his kalah about evety 2 weeks for over an hour and both parents didnt know.
anyway i wish u good luck in ur marriage when is the chasunah
i really think that its very true what u wrote about the women choose this way.
im not going to say they have much options because there are some things thats belong to the women and there are some things that belong to the man but yes women can choose a lot of things in life they can choose to have a good and enjoyable life as well even they really do have hard work as matter of fact men also have hard work but somehow they dont mind giving themselfs a good time sometimes.
im sure if u would tell your husband that u treated yourself to something and u had a good time he would only be more then happy to hear and even understand u if some things where not done because of this if they will be done we dont have to work 24/7 but we have to do our work
happiest i really understand u because i fell the same a lot of the time and i would text on shabbus but non of my friends have there phones open so i just dont have whom to text but i really understand u and know the felling of just having to text
y not popa
wiy thats really true BUT easy to say if a person doesnt fell that way then its easier and they would better do anything else like even open the lights for nothing just to give themself out and know they r not locked in with anything
i sometimes really fell like i need it and would but have no one to text with
ginger well i have no one from my contacts that has there phone open can u give me some numbers