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  • January 17, 2018 1:11 pm at 1:11 pm in reply to: Bar Mitzvah Cost #1451584
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    For all the families with multiple boys laining lessons isn’t so difficult to teach. If the father can’t teach the boy and he wants to lain tell him yo pay attention in shul during krias hatorah and he’ll pick it up himself. If that doesn’t work invest in lessons for the oldest boy and then he can teach his younger brothers. I taught younger siblings and a lot of my friends were taught by older brothers.
    It also doesn’t take more then 4-6 months by a competent teacher. Any teacher and a student with a decent work ethic. Any longer you need to question how good the teacher is and if your son really wants to lain…

    January 15, 2018 2:59 pm at 2:59 pm in reply to: False information from references #1449656
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    Takes2 that’s a big shaila in halacha if you’re supposed to answer about smoking. This specific example of “quiet and reserved” is not something you can lie about. There are some people that are quiet a d some that are the life of the party

    January 15, 2018 2:59 pm at 2:59 pm in reply to: False information from references #1449659
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    David111 do you mean to say get rid of the whole research thing and let everyone figure out after the 1st date if it makes sense?? Most guys that I know am I’m sure the girls would feel the same don’t wanna go out unless the shidduch has potential!

    January 15, 2018 12:28 pm at 12:28 pm in reply to: False information from references #1449583
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    All bashing aside it’s saving a lot of time by making sure that the references are able to accurately describe the boy/girl that is being researched!! The research is very important and it’s been trending downwards

    January 15, 2018 10:55 am at 10:55 am in reply to: False information from references #1449483
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    Lesschumras; u better believe lashon hara applies by shidduchim. The chafetz chaim has a big part of his sefer about shidduchim

    January 15, 2018 10:55 am at 10:55 am in reply to: False information from references #1449481
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    Joseph; he was told by her friends that she is a quiet and reserved girl. She was completely the opposite

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