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@5th dimension @kilaolamchasdo
WELL SAID!!! A person finding their shidduch (as I�ve heard from many places) requires the minimum amount of hishtadlus than anything else in life. You have to do your part and then all that�s left is Tefilla. Sometimes it feels hard, but you have to realize that when the right time comes, nothing will/can stop Hashem from bringing you to your Bashert. Just looking at the frum world- you see so many shidduchim coming about from �the craziest of places�…David Y: That was articulated very well!
CG1994: Says who? You know what�s going on in every single person�s life? I wasn�t talking about the facts, I was referring to the sensitivity behind the comment.
HIE: I agree 100%.
Bottom line to everyone out there (and I�m talking to myself in different situations too), to try and think before blurting, too often we are hurting people without even realizing. The situations are endless…I�m actually a single girl and I do relate quite a bit- I agree that the worst feeling is �feeling forgotten about,� but I do find it comforting when people tell me that they�re davening for me…
What I really dislike is the fact that single girls (I�m not sure if it applies to boys as well) can be at work (I�m talking about a frum environment) and will always be 2nd class- no matter the age (think: opinion, wages, hours). As soon as one has a sheital on their head (and probably a Tallis too :-)), the Parsha seems to change completely!
My favorite line is always �Those hours are fine for you because you don�t have a family…�