I see most ppl are saying it’s ok. I will ask my LOR though. The reason we would be giving it is to make a Kiddush Hashem (and avoid a chilul Hashem if we don’t). Also we figure it’s always a good idea to be on their good side.

goldenkint: glad to see you understand where i was coming from. i think now ppl do understand the point. nobody means to ignore anyone. making ppl feel badly is a different story. but ya just can’t change some ppl

kapusta: glad you had fun. but i’m still a mystery cuz i’m nottelling 😉

I don’t remember who it was, but someone suggested a “like” button. That would be helpful. This way, you don’t actually have to comment but it lets ppl know how you feel.

Mods – what do you think?

*LIKE*

kapusta: I don’t know if you know me. I don’t always post but no, I didn’t take a break from the cr.

ursula – i see i’m not the only one who takes things personally. i’m sure you realize as well as i do, that the posters who attacked you don’t know who you are – but it still didn’t feel good. right? it must have felt really horrible to have been taken the wrong way – especially when you thought you were posting parve. i felt the same way – i was just expressing my opinion – trying to explain where i was coming from – but still it was taken the wrong way by some ppl. i felt they just didn’t understand what i was saying and refused to hear my explanations.

yeah – i like the limericks and jokes threads – also the funny shidduch stories. those are at least fun and non-confrontational. so be happy and smile and post more limericks 🙂 (yes – i still want to hear your opinions too)

Kapusta – nope you did nothing to hurt me. also, i really appreciate your post.

health – i get what ur saying.

again – thanks to all the posters here.

can’t wait to hear who always thinks i am 😉

k – have a good night

always here “nottelling~ I have a feeling that I know who you are.. a sensitive soul like myself… ” do you mean that you really think you know my other sn or ur just saying that i am a sensitive soul like urself?

hi goldenkint – not to make u feel unloved but i don’t think i ever saw ur name here before. but coming from me that doesn’t mean much – my memory doesn’t work so well – so plz don’t be insulted. nice to meet you now.

i gotta say – i’m enjoying this thread! it’s light, friendly, no arguments and i learned a lot. thanks everyone.

MODS: thanks for responding this time 🙂

Zeeskite – chas v’shalom – no i’m not referring to you or anyone in particular- just in general. actually, i think you have responded to some of my posts. also – yes – i do realize this is not a popularity contest. like i said in my op – i’m just very sensitve – perhaps too sensitive for my own good.

apushatayid – i kinda figured i’d get advice to seek guidance especially since i wrote that i feel this way in life too. i appreciate your advice but i don’t think my self esteem is that bad. i just guess we all get carried away sometimes with our feelings.

icot – thanks for assuring me that i’m not hated. 🙂

always here – LOL

thanks to all the posters for responding.

so now i just have to decide – do i keep my boring sn and (i guess) boring posts? do i change it to a really interesting/strange/eye-opener? or should i just post real controvertial posts? hmmmmm. gotta think about that 😉