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Joseph, Where you at Barkley’s Siyum? I assume not since much of the program orginated from there. Several Rabbayim spoke from there and several singers. There was equal representation.
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I miss my Mother and Father too! She was Niftar this time last year and he two years before! Cherish everyday!
I agree. Today with digital photography you can learn eeverything online.
You mentioned you are working part time and want to support your wife. This is very admirable!
I would say to again to wait because this is also what most girls who want working boys would want.
If you push your agenda too much you might get an unwelcome name in your community.
Find another goal to work on this next year so you will feel you are accomplishing.In the Chasiddish world the bachrim get engaged at 18 or 19.
I have friends in the balabatish world who also I were 20 when they got engaged. Great marriages.
In Israel they also get married earlier.
I would say from my experience that a bachor can be rbe ready to get married at 20.
Whether or not there will be a girl that will agree to this in the Yeshvish world is most likely not.
If that is who you are and what you want, I would wait another year or more for sure.Laskern: So sorry to hear of your loss! Happy to hear you have children and grandchildren! May you have much Nachas from them!
Health: Yes. Frum woman do freeze eggs today becside it has been a viable option for 10 years.
Yes, women can have problems conceiving as they they get that old. Men can have other issus as well!
As far as my line of work this is an anonymous forum.Shoppind613: Bochrim that have never been married don’t know what it means to “be a man”. Even after real man can feel like a man when the wife is a few inches taller or the same height. These Bochrim are inexperienced.
Also they are thinking about what others will say. We live in a very superficial time and mindset.
I understand that some men won’t let themselves be married to a taller woman so if you are tall and having a hard time getting married look open your age maximum and look for someone who was married before.Health- Terrible advise! You are very out of touch! Great marriages are when the woman is older! Are you kidding me? You are part of the problem today! A 35 35 year old woman show look for someone up to 60? 60? A 35 year old woman can have a great relationship with a 30 year old man.
You sound like a very young person with little experience with relationships in life.
After 25- 30 men and woman are mature and it does not matter if 5 years older. A 30 year old and a 35 are perfect! As is 35 and 40.
Also bochrim under 25 should not be looking for only a 19-20 year old. A 23 year old can have a great with a 25 year old.
Also if someone was married before age is even less a problem. They are looking for the right person, not a number.
One of the biggest reasons the singles get older and older is they have a long list. After a person is married several years they realize that the list was hindering them from finding a good wife and lasting relationship.
Actually the opposite is true. Many people 18-25 are getting divorced because they marry someone too young and immature.
Also a 50- 60 year old man should be looking for someone around their own age. Many of them are stuck and that is why they are not married. They look for 30-40 and everything else in their list and keep on looking for the same thing and then they become 50-60.
Also a 40 year old man looking for a woman in her 20’s is not right. They should be looking for 35 to 45.
45 years.
There is so much technology now for a woman to have healthy children. Woman are also able to freeze eggs now-100% viable. If you don’t know all about this go speak to a fertility doctor.
Also men after 50 can have relationship issues and problems having children. If you don’t know what I am talking also ask your local doctors.
I am coming from experience with 100’s of singles.I sugges you post again and rephrase your question. I don’t understand it. Just a suggestion.
Newbee what about a headset band for phone use (not a ear bud)? Any of them decent?